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Ray

Just remember: No matter how good looking she is, Someone, Somewhere is sick and tired of her SHIT!

About Me

Like most people, I can be a head case. I use to work a full time job and two part time jobs just to keep busy and help tackle some bills. I found that working and spending time with my son became my life. I needed to make a change and do something for me, grow a social life or something, basically stop being a workaholic.
Late this summer (2006) I quit one of my three jobs (the part time job that was most demanding, least pay and most stressful). I'm finding myself with free time that I'm not use to having. What to do? I've been spending my extra time with my son and the new friends I have found in Douglasville and the surrounding areas, I'm also spending more time at home then I ever imagined.
As you can see from my pics, my son is very important to me. We are best-friends (except when he's in trouble) and have lots of adventures together. After my son's mother and I divorced, I wanted to give Alex something that no one can take away. I wanted to give him life-long memories and teach him to follow what feels right in his heart while using common sense so he doesn't hurt or harm anyone. Alex is who I hold closest to my heart; most of the time I feel I need him more then he needs me. I would love to tell you more about him so just ask.
I'm an adventure seeker and love to travel. I enjoy testing limits and truly believe that everyone is my friend. I had few goals in my life and that was to enjoy myself, have fun, and lots of stories to tell. My busy life has given me the stories but was lacking on the fun... I woke up one morning and realized my summer jobs (part time job ..1 and ..2) have been going on for more then 5 years. Where does the time go? Where ever it is, I can't take it back. My life has been an adventure and now it's time to kick it up a notch and start a new chapter.
I truly feel life is much like a roller-coaster ride with it's ups, it's downs and it's wild turn of events. And like a roller-coaster you can close you eyes and hold on tight, make yourself stiff and expect wild turns to that seem to come from no where. Or you can enjoy your ride much like what I strive for, I'm holding my hands up high and keep my eyes open, I'll sway through the turns and try to not bump the person next to me (at least not too hard). How ever you choice to ride is your choice, it's your life but always remember, you only get one ticket... and so do the rest of us- think about that, OK.
My Friends list: I've learned to keep my friends list tight. Read my blogs, exchange a few emails and lets get to know each other; and if you live close, we can get together for drinks but let also be real, I don't need a fan club nor do I want to add to yours (major bands and organizations are the exception).
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My Interests


Nemesis

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I'd like to meet:

Everyone... Ladies that dance, childern who play, guys that bar-b-q. And if you know someone that can show me something new... then I really want to meet them.
Lately I find myself wanting to try new things... Not sure what, just something new or different.

Music:

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Movies:

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Television:


Your Element Is Earth
You excel at planning and strategizing.
You could be a champ at chess or Survivor.

Well grounded, you are able to be realistic and rationalize.
On the inside, you have a hard core. It's tough to phase you.

You are super productive, and you are able to think anything through.
Focused and super charged, your instincts are a good guide for your next step. What's Your Element?

Books:

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Heroes:


Your Seduction Style: Siren / Rake
You possess an unbridled sensuality that appeals to many.
The minute you meet anyone, you can make the crave you almost immediately.
You give others the chance to lose control with you... spiraling into carnal bliss.
A dangerous lover, you both fascinate and scare those you attract. What Is Your Seduction Style?
Your Five Variable Love Profile
Propensity for Monogamy:
Your propensity for monogamy is medium.
In general, you prefer to have only one love interest.
But it's hard for you to stay devoted for too long!
There's too much eye candy to keep you from wandering.
Experience Level:
Your experience level is high.
You've loved, lost, and loved again.
You have had a wide range of love experiences.
And when the real thing comes along, you know it!
Dominance:
Your dominance is medium.
You tend to be the one with more power.
You aren't a total control freak in relationships..
But of course you don't mind getting you way!
Cynicism:
Your cynicism is medium.
You'd like to believe in true and everlasting love...
But you've definitely been burned enough to know better.
You're still an optimist, but you also are a realist.
Independence:
Your independence is medium.
In relationships, you need both "me time" and "we time."
You usually find it easy to be part of a couple.
But occasionally you start to feel a little smothered. The Five Variable Love Test
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What Surreal Life Character Are You?

Maven
You are a sweetheart. Although you can kick some A$$, you're charm and kindness are what you're known best for. You love to drink and party. You always have a positive attitude and love beautiful women.
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My Blog

a few things

 Just a few things that bother me: If you drive a hybrid car, don't get in the fast lane. The fast lane is the one furthest to the left. When it rains so hard you feel you must turn on your haza...
Posted by Ray on Thu, 18 Jan 2007 02:12:00 PST

Many changes

Hi again, I know that not many read this and that's the reason I don't post many blogs but things have been changing for me. As many of you know, I changed my full time job and now I'm doing what I lo...
Posted by Ray on Sat, 09 Sep 2006 11:53:00 PST

Got my new computer

Yes, it came today and I'm online. I'll be learning the new programs and trying to get use to the smaller keyboard and "pain in the ass" mouse pad. I'm enjoying my new job and look forward to some of...
Posted by Ray on Fri, 19 May 2006 07:19:00 PST

No computer....

My last day will be May 5th. After that I will be without a computer for an unknown time. I'll try to check my email but if you need to reach me, call me. If you don't have my number, sorry... contact...
Posted by Ray on Thu, 04 May 2006 07:03:00 PST

isn't this nice...

If you read my last blog then you know I'm leaving my job as an instrument technician at a chemical plant in Smyrna. Yesterday, two days before my last day here I inhaled something that I can not clea...
Posted by Ray on Thu, 04 May 2006 03:35:00 PST

May 2, 2006 Update

I need help. The month of April has brought me many changes. One part time job came to a stop (were in the off season) the other picked up slightly. My full time job has been having problems and every...
Posted by Ray on Thu, 04 May 2006 04:12:00 PST

The mans list for women... understanding men

What men don't say... All are numbered as #1 because they have the same importance.   1. Learn to work the toilet seat. You're a big girl. If it's up, put it down. We need it up, you need it dow...
Posted by Ray on Mon, 31 Oct 2005 05:17:00 PST