Jordan Baby*J

3/17/08 7:38pm-
When you do anything, what do you look for and how do the experience keep you interested in coming back and doin it agin?? Be it a restaurant with food or service.. Or a place that has certain people you like seeing and is fun to be at.. If they continually offer good experience, you will be more open to returning. They offer consistency. A repeated delivery of some type of quality. Good food. Good service. Good environment. Good people. These factors, on a repeated basis, will make you want more and more of that thing. If you had a bad experience there, will you return?? You waited to be seated for a long time. The food didnt taste good. The waiters didnt bring you your entire meal. Or a place simply is not fun to be at anymore.. Normally bad experience will not keep that door open. Some people allow second chances, only to find out that some places were consistent with bad experience.. It happens.. You just have to be aware of what type of consistency is present. Consistency can give you insight to what you are getting yourself into. Personally Ive seen alot of places start off really good.. Always had a great time there.. so did friends, but then it became consistently bad. I have learned that if you offer consistency in a beneficial way, you become more valuable to your surroundings. Would you hire someone who is constantly late, doesnt get along with other staff members and never completes their work?? Or would you hire someone who has numerous recommendations, shows up early, leaves late and always completes their work?? Consistency is a great tool for having or giving insight to the future. What can you offer consistently?? Think about it, you may be more valuable than you first thought.
Love and Respect
*Jordan
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12/02/07 12:24am -
Why argue.. "If you dont know, then it would be useless for me to talk about it." While this was certainly a statement about the limitation of words, it could also be a subtle reminder about the futility of arguements. When we get into a arguement with someone else, we sometimes imagine that our motive is to educate. The other side is obviously not as well-informed as we are, so it's up to us to make them see the light. We think our intent is noble and our words will bring them out of ignorance. In actuality, this is usually not the case. Chances are the other side has the mirror image of the same thoughts about us. They too, want to use their words to help us know the truth as they see it.The likely conclusion is that neither side succeeds. Both sides end up even more self-righteous than before. Even though so much time and energy have gone into counterpoints and rebuttals, the best anyone can hope for is that the two sides agree to disagree. I guess it could be described as "useless"..most things are..
Love and Respect
*Jordan
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9/06/07 7:33PM -
Many people talk too much but convey little that is meaningful. We can become emotionally obsessive when we interact with others. Sometimes people say positive things about us and we grasp onto their compliments and approval.. sometimes they say negative things instead and we cling to the destructive feelings of taking offense or being attacked. I see it alot.. someone has said something that someone else finds extremely hurtful and insulting, and they become angry.. Most would wish to regain their tranquility, but their anger makes it impossible. I already know that there are those that love me.. and there are the fucking faggots that hate me, and 99% of the ones that do hate me, dont even know me or have never met me.. so their hatred never bothers me. Hatred is an ugly thing.. just like most of the people who sit and hate other are ugly people....for the most part inside and out..
BUTTTT... Every now and then, we can run into possible conflicts with other people.. even if we prefer peace. We are minding our own business, not looking for trouble, but trouble comes looking for us. The ever changing chaotic nature of life means problems will arise from time to time. At first we may decide to talk it over with the other party, to see if we can resolve the issue diplomatically. If that doesn't work, then many of us will decide to escalate it to the next level, which may include violence - or just the usual shit talking..
Most of the people I see turn to others.. asking for advice on what they should do, but when I sit and think, other people are the ones that like to 'stir the pot' so to speak..they love to see the drama go down.. they like the idea of fight or problem between 2 people. In situations like this I think the best advice comes from within.. Is it really worth the trouble.. FOR ME.. I find alot more enjoyment on talking things out, and in the end everything being cool.....then again.. thats just me..
Love and Respect
*Jordan
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9/01/07 8:21PM -
I always wish things were easier.. I wish everything was easier.. So much of life means nothing, so much of life isnt enjoyable.. Most of the time of everyday we are doing things we dont WANT to do.. Making a 'living' is not the same as 'making a life'. So many people live day to day unhappy.If you arent happy in one place, put yourself in another. It isnt always that easy, but the world is much larger than most believe..Sometimes you will find that where you were before can be the best place for you, it may just be a different way of thinking or handling things that you need.. Ive learned that life sometimes gives you more than just a second chance. Ive learned that even when I have pains, I dont have to be one. Do things with a smile.. because people will never forget how you made them feel. Always decide things with an open heart.. and you will be making the right decisions for yourself. Ive said it before.. and I cant say it enough, - Do what makes you happy..
Love and Respect
*Jordan
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