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Jackie

Look for the good in people and no doubt, you'll find it...even if it's George W. Bush or Saddam Hus

About Me

Hi! Please feel free to post comments or send feedbacks about
anything that you could possibly have in mind. thanks.
peace,
jackie
(aka Tenzin Rinchen)
PS. If you're interested in volunteering, and have the time
and inclination to do so, please check out VolunteerMatch:
http://www.VolunteerMatch.org
How to know when not to volunteer (This article is not intended
to discourage you from volunteering):
http://www.wikihow.com/Know-when-Not-to-Volunteer
Also, here are some cool job search engines:
http://www.idealist.org
http://jobs.care2.com
http://www.indeed.com
Where professionals connect:
http://www.linkedin.com/
Btw, get click-happy and click daily:
http://www.thehungersite.com/
Care to make a difference? Here's an informative site
where you can sign petitions you care about:
http://www.thepetitionsite.com/
Sponsor an orphan in one of 450 villages worldwide:
http://www.sos-usa.org/
GlobalGiving connects you to over 450 pre-screened grassroots
charity projects around the world. It's an efficient, transparent way
to make an impact with your giving.
http://www.globalgiving.com/
Favorite quotes:
"Are you bored with life?
Then throw yourself into some work you believe in
with all your heart, live for it, die for it, and you will
find happiness that you had thought could never be yours."
-Dale Carnegie
"It is never too late to be what you might have been."
-George Elliot
"Pride is concerned with who is right.
Humility is concerned with what is right."
-Ezra Taft Benson
"Forgiveness is the answer to
the child's dream of a miracle
by which what is broken
is made whole again,
what is soiled is again made clean."
-Dag Hammarskjold
"Sow a thought, and reap an action.
Sow an action, and reap a habit.
Sow a habit, and reap character.
Sow character and reap destiny."
-Thackeray
"Just ignore the environment and it will go away!"
-anonymous bumper sticker
"Seek first to understand, then to be understood."
-Stephen Covey
"A truly wise man never plays leapfrog with a unicorn."
-anonymous fortune cookie
"Don't walk in front of me, I may not follow...
don't walk behind me, I may not lead...
just walk beside me and be my friend."
-Albert Camus
"Follow your bliss
and the universe will open doors for you
where there were only walls."
-Joseph Campbell
"Money is a means, not an end.
A child must be taught early that money is only a means,
a type of usefulness, an implement. Like all instruments,
it has certain purposes, but it will not do everything.
One must learn how to use it, what it will do,
but above all what it will not do."
-Bruce Lee
"Egotist: a person more interested in himself than in me."
-Ambrose Bierce
"No one has ever become poor by giving."
-Anne Frank
"In the practice of tolerance, one's enemy is the best teacher."
-His Holiness XIVth Dalai Lama, Tenzin Gyatso
"I wish I knew how to quit you."
-Jack Twist to Ennis Del Mar in "Brokeback Mountain"
"Be the change you want to see in the world."
-Mahatma Gandhi
"Money is like manure. You have to spread it around or it smells."
-J. Paul Getty
"A human being is a part of the whole that we call the universe,
a part limited in time and space. He experiences himself,
his thoughts and feelings, as something separated from the rest --
a kind of optical illusion of his consciousness.
This illusion is a prison for us, restricting us to our personal desires
and to affection for only the few people nearest us.
Our task must be to free ourselves from this prison by widening
our circle of compassion to embrace all living beings and all of nature."
-Albert Einstein
"Real happiness in life starts when you begin to cherish others."
-Lama Zopa Rinpoche
"To leave one's own territory is to accomplish half
of the spiritual life."
-Milarepa
"I feel that luck is preparation meeting opportunity."
-Oprah Winfrey
"In true dialogue, both sides are willing to change."
-Thich Nhat Hanh
"You are not here to change the world.
The world is here to change you."
-Shantideva
"When we try to pick out anything by itself,
we find it hitched to everything else in the universe."
-John Muir
"Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future,
concentrate the mind on the present moment."
-Buddha
"The true leader is a servant of those he or she leads."
-anonymous
"People accuse me of being arrogant all the time.
I'm not arrogant, I'm focused."
-Russell Crowe
"...Love your enemies, bless those who curse you,
do good to those who hate you,
and pray for those who spitefully use you and persecute you."
-Matthew 5:44
The Pleasure of No Desire
"There is pleasure when a sore is scratched,
But to be without sores is more pleasurable still.
Just so, there are pleasures in worldly desires,
But to be without desires is more pleasurable still."
-Arya Nagarjuna, "Precious Garland"
"As soon as you start judging, control follows next."
-Ajahn Brahm
"We are what we think. All that we are arises with our
thoughts. With our thoughts, we make our world."
-Buddha
"Never test the depth of the water with both feet."
-Unknown author
"The only rose without a thorn is friendship."
-Fortune cookie
"Love comes when manipulation stops; when you think more
about the other person than about his or her reactions to
you. When you dare to reveal yourself fully. When you
dare to be vulnerable."
-Joyce Brothers
You Are a Centaur
In general, you are a very cautious and reserved person. However, you are also warm hearted, and you enjoy helping others in practical ways.
You are a great teacher, and you are really good at helping people get their lives in order. You are very intuitive, and you go with your gut. You make good decisions easily. What Mythological Creature Are You?
Free-IQTest.net - What's your IQ?

My Interests

Volunteer work

Meditation, yoga, massages

Outdoorsy stuff, camping, hiking, rockclimbing, skiing, swimming, tennis, jogging, snorkeling, and kayaking (Note: I don't do this stuff on a regular basis..sometimes only in my dreams)

Travel to places I've never been to: Tibet, Nepal, India, Spain, Ireland, Australia, New Zealand, Peru, Brazil, Canada, Fiji, Yellowstone National Park, weekend trips, my back yard, etc.

Art, Religions, History, Philosophy, Psychology, Photography (paparazzing), Phenomenalism, Science, museums, bookstores

Listening to music, concerts, dancing, karaoke

Homemade cooking, fast food, slow food - authentic vegetarian food (Thai, Indian, Italian, Vietnamese, Chinese, Mexican, Greek, Japanese, and American food...Thai and Indian is my most favorite..mmm)

Eastern and Western astrology

Walks along the beach, picnics, ping pong, board/card games, sudoku, mahjong, doing nothing, napping, dinner and a movie, laughing till it hurts, solitude, tranquility, nature, living in the now, breathing, good times like chatting and peaceful moments

Learning new things, etc. Can you teach me to surf? Not internet surfing, but real surfing. I already have a BS in that. :P

CURRENT MOON moon phases

I'd like to meet:

you

Music:



All sorts of 80's music (Depeche Mode, The Cure, Peter Gabriel, OMD, Cyndi Lauper, Starship, Murray Head, The Cars, Yes, George Michael, Guns 'n' Roses, Thompson Twins, New Order, Petshop Boys, Eurythmics, Foreigner, Survivor, Expose, Heart, Bangles, Elton John, Cutting Crew, Billy Idol, Aha, Wilson Phillips, Culture Club, Debbie Gibson, Madonna, Duran Duran, David Bowie, Enigma, Escape Club, The Pretenders, Richard Marx, Katrina and the Waves, The Romantics, Phil Collins, Rod Stewart, Chicago, Peter Cetera, Prince, Crowded House, Chris Isaak, Berlin, The Jets, Laura Branigan, Stevie B, Al B Sure, Linda Rondstadt, Suzanne Vega, Lisa Loeb, The Police, B-52's, etc.)

Slow relaxing easy listenings (Enya)

Alternative/Rock/Indie (Coldplay, Lifehouse, Five for Fighting, Incubus, Blink-182, Green Day, Jane's Addiction, Sarah McLachlan, Fiona Apple, Rob Thomas, Savage Garden, Soundgarden, The Cranberries, Natalie Merchant, Collective Souls, Snow Patrol, Rooney)

Live music, Opera (Phantom of the Opera)

Dance- R and B Soul (Aaliyah, Jon B, R. Kelly, TLC, SWV, Beastie Boys)

Reggae (UB40, Maxi Priest, Bob Marley, Sean Paul)

Jazzy (Simply Red, Diana Krall, Michael Buble, Chris Botti, Harry Connick, Jr., Sting, Sade, Natalie Cole)

Classical (Gabriel Yared, Josh Groban, Lifescapes, Drew Tretick)

Electronica/Breakbeat/Trip-Hop (Chemical Brothers, Moby, Crystal Method, Massive Attack, Uberzone, Bjork, Portishead, Mono)

Country music (Johnny Cash, Shania Twain, Faith Hill, Patsy Cline, Brenda Lee)

Oldies (Tony Bennett, Etta James, Otis Redding, James Brown)

60's/70's (Roberta Flack, Barbara Streisand, Air Supply, The BeeGees, Queen, The Beatles, Astrud Gilberto, The Beach Boys, The Zombies, 10cc, America, Paul Simon, Carly Simon, The Eagles)

World (Tibetan Buddhist chants, flamenco, Buddha Bar)

Tibetan Buddhist Internet Radio (LamRim.com on iTunes)

Movies:

Romantic/Nonromantic-Comedies/Noncomedies - "The Holiday", "When Harry Met Sally", "Forget Paris", "There's Something About Mary", "Sixteen Candles", "The Breakfast Club", "Say Anything", "Dirty Dancing", "Airplane!", "Bruce Almighty", "Ace Ventura: When Nature Calls", "Night at the Museum", "Possession", "Can't Buy Me Love", "Harold & Kumar Go to White Castle"
Indepedent films - "Assisted Living", "Spring, Summer, Fall, Winter, and Spring", "Everything is Illuminated", "What the Bleep Do We Know!?", "Brokeback Mountain", "Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, "An Inconvenient Truth", "Little Miss Sunshine", "Babel"
Drama - "The English Patient", "Pay It Forward", "The Usual Suspects", "Bridges of Madison County" (this one made me cried like a baby), "About Schmidt"
Action/Sci-Fi - "Lord of the Rings" Trilogy, "The Matrix" Trilogy, "The X-men" Trilogy, "K-Pax", "The Mummy", All Indiana Jones movies
Animated - All Shrek movies, "Finding Nemo", "Chicken Run"
My movie ratings:
http://www.imdb.com/mymovies/list?l=11660386

Television:

Lost, That's 70's Show, Yes Dear, So You Think You Can Dance, Just Shoot Me, Seinfeld, CSI: Las Vegas, Law and Order: SVU, American Idol, Jay Leno, Conan O'Brien, Blind Date, SNL (Old Crew: Spade/Farley/Hartman/Carvey/Rock/Sandler/Sweeney), The Twilight Zone, My Name is Earl, KCET/PBS, anything educational, Ugly Betty, etc. I don't watch t.v. much lately, though.

Books:

"The Art of Happiness" by the Dalai Lama and Howard C. Cutler, M.D.

"The Tibetan Book of the Dead" by Graham Coleman with Thupten Jinpa

"Liberation in the Palm of Your Hand" by Pabongka Rinpoche

"The Essence of Mahayana Lojong Practice" by Sermey Khensur Lobsang Tharchin

Gary Larson's "The Far Side" comics

"Why Can't I Fall in Love? A 12-Step Program" by Rabbi Shmuley Boteach

"The Only Astrology Book You'll Ever Need" by Joanna Martine Woolfolk

Stuff on the internet

Poetry by Edgar Allen Poe, Thich Nhat Hanh

Cool reads of highschool (the good old days when I actually finished a novel): "Lord of the Flies" by William Golding, "The Outsiders" by S. E. Hinton, "Catcher in the Rye" by J. D. Salinger, "The Old Man and the Sea" by Ernest Hemingway, "Pride and Prejudice" by Jane Austen, "The Metamorphosis" short story by Franz Kafka, etc.

Heroes:

Mom, Buddha, Chenrezig, and all sentient beings