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Chris Top Her

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About Me

Just a guy.I've taught preschool for 10 years (Montessori and traditional)-- was teaching on the Upper West Side. Now have a very nice "manny" (male nanny)job in SoHo.From Alabama.Lived in Minneapolis,MN for 5 years.Now living in Brooklyn (Greenpoint!)-- for 4th year.I like music,neighborhood bars, and exploring the city.I graduated from Auburn University in Alabama (War Eagle!) with a degree in Religion and Psychology and a minor in English (concentration in Creative Writing).I've always had more girl friends than guy friends and i like it that way. I make it a point to take care of the people who take care of me.After work, my main goal is to hang out with my friends as much as possible.I very much live in the moment, and have little regard for yesterday or tomorrow.I am 36% Asshole/Bitch.
.. I may think I am an asshole or a bitch, but the truth is I am a good person at heart. Yeah sure, I can have a mean streak in me, but most of the people I meet like me. Take the
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You are Alex, from Clockwork Orange. You have a very base personality. You take pleasure in all that life has to offer, and expect instant gratification. You don't really have a sense of morality, but you do have a deep passion for beautiful music.
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You Are An ESFJ
The Caregiver
You are sympathetic and caring, putting friends and family first.
A creature of habit, you prefer routines and have trouble with change.
You love being in groups - whether you're helping people or working on a project.
You are good at listening, laughing, and bringing out the best in people.
In love, you value harmony and mutual understanding.
You will apologize or give someone the benefit of the doubt, if it means getting over a fight sooner.
At work, you are good at building relationships and connecting with people.
You would make a great nurse, social worker, or teacher.
How you see yourself: Organized, dependable, co-operative
When other people don't get you, they see you as: Opinionated, critical, and know-it-all What's Your Personality Type?
My Personality
Neuroticism 64
Extraversion 57
Openness To Experience 48
Agreeableness 54
Conscientiousness 86
You are generally calm, although some situations can make you feel anxious or tense, however you are sensitive about what others think of you. Your concern about rejection and ridicule cause you to feel shy and uncomfortable around others. You are easily embarrassed and often feel ashamed. Your fears that others will criticize or make fun of you are exaggerated and unrealistic, but your awkwardness and discomfort may make these fears a self-fulfilling prophecy. You like crowds but sometimes feel overwhelmed by them. Sometimes you feel like you need some privacy and time for yourself. You prefer familiar routines and for things to stay the same. You can tend to feel uncomfortable with change. You are tenderhearted and compassionate, feeling the pain of others vicariously and are easily moved to pity, however you are not adverse to confrontation and will sometimes even intimidate others to get your own way. You have a strong sense of duty and obligation, and feel a moral obligation to do the right thing.
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Your Element Is Air
You dislike conflict, and you've been able to rise above the angst of the world.
And when things don't go your way, you know they'll blow over quickly.
Easygoing, you tend to find joy from the simple things in life.
You roll with the punches, and as a result, your life is light and cheerful.
You find it easy to adapt to most situations, and you're an open person.
With you, what you see is what you get... and people love that! What's Your Element?

My Interests

friends,reading, writing,music, shows, bars,parks, frisbee, movies, human development and behavior

I'd like to meet:

a cool, laid back girl that just wants to have fun and hang out or find things to do in the city.someone to playfully tease and be teased by. someone who makes the most out of each moment

Music:

johnny cash,tom waits,kinks,velvet underground,big star,replacements, james brown,atmosphere, belle and sebastian, robyn hitchcock,marvin gaye,neil young,sugar,wilco,cornelius, manu chao,pixies, smiths,bob dylan,immortal lee county killers,feist,pretenders,Racine, Transvision Vamp, Uncle Tupelo,Tegan and Sara, Dave Brubeck, elvis costello, prince, all of my friends' bands

Movies:

everything David Lynch, older Woody Allen,Coen brothers,Kevin Smith,documentaries, foreign films. anything that isn't a blockbuster. I refuse to watch Titanic (hate some leonardo Dicraprio-- although he was born for the role in What's Eating Gilbert Grape) and actively avoid Julia Roberts.George Clooney is a rock with hair and Travolta's neck is scary!

Television:

The Wire, Curb Your Enthusiasm, Dave Letterman, Kid Nation, Rock of Love (guilty pleasure!), Jeopardy!, Auburn football games, Family Guy, Flight of the Conchords,Law and Order (not criminal intent), VH1 specials,Cheaters, The Soup, and all of the trashy reality and celebrity gossip shows that will fit into my little head.

Books:

Jonathan Letham is my new favorite novelist:Motherless Brooklyn. & everything by Milan Kundera, Albert Camus, John Updike, Kafka, Tim O'Brien, Please Kill Me, and various recommendations from friends.currently reading Sex, Drugs, and Cocoa Puffs.

Heroes:

johnny cash, tom waits,and all those who tell it like it is and strive to make it what it ought to be