I'm not looking for a guy who owns a BMW and carries around a Luis Vuitton wallet in his Diesel jeans with a matching FCUK watch. I tend to find that people who buy more, enjoy less, and people who spend less, have more. I love to shop as much as the next homosexual, but money doesn't always equal style. I dont need to eat at the Cheesecake Factory every night to enjoy a good meal. I'd much rather stay in and cook dinner with my baby and have Green Tea mochi for desert. Know how to have fun. And fun isn't strictly limited to alcohol and West Hollywood (not that it's a bad combination, but it gets old). Please have self-confidance and value yourself, but at the same time, have humility. Know the difference between explaining and boasting. You are special and unique, but also recognize that others are also. Don't be afraid of expressing who you are because it might scare others away, because being yourself could be the reason others will come to you.