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Bonquita

Great joys make us love the world. Great Sadnesses make us understand the world -Kent Nerburn

About Me

See, I've been reading other folks' profiles on myspace and discovered that my profile either says nothing about me or just flat out sucks. So, in order to answer to my most vocal critics (namely me), I've decided to re-write this "about me" portion of my profile.I'm a 25-year old sober genderqueer boy/girl/girl/boy/boi/gurl/gurl/boi/male/female/female/male/ both/neither/neither/both...thing or any combination of the above categories (You want labels? I'll give you your damn labels!).Born and raised in a working class family and city, I went to my first political demonstration when I was eight years old and realized two important principles: If you want something you have to demand it; and that it's important to stand up for what you believe in even if you stand alone.Art, particularly drawing and music are the pillars of my life as they've helped me get through some shitty times. I didn't really have friends for a lot of years in my life and had a hard time telling people how I felt and how I was doing so I used to cut myself when I was angry or depressed 'cause I wanted so damn badly to have some sorta control of the shit in my life. I'm learning now to try to talk to people whenever I have difficulties and to ask for help when I need to. I also live a rediculously frugal life so that I can save money to pay people to poke holes in me to make pretty little designs.My current mission is to be the best "me" I can be (yea I know. Cornball statement of the year), and to repay my debt to my community who loved me before I knew how to love myself.I think I genuinely like people but I have a hard time connecting with people on a level that I feel is beyond the superficial "hi-bye" thing.One day, I will actually work up the nerve to do the "hey, my name is Alecs. I think you're pretty cool, wanna go out for coffee some time?" thing. But until then, this virtual tool for meeting people will have to do.Oh, and by the way, I prefer to have the pronoun "she" used for me, so please don't be an ass and act accordingly.
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My Interests

reading, writing, drawing, chatting .., activism, queer rights, trans rights, right to self-identify, workers rights, women's rights, youth rights, working class revolution, a real living wage, anti-capitalism, affordable housing for all, BDSM in general, flogging, rope bondage, submission, being taken care of, good people, smart people, chocolate, anarchy, tattoos...so...so ,much more...

I'd like to meet:

outspoken, queer friendly, open-minded, caring, creative, fun, artistic, honest, loving, and determined people.

Music:

Ludicra, Opeth, Black Flag, Pantera, Nirvana, Alice in Chains, Ani Difranco, old Guns n' Roses, Sepultura, Weird Al, Utah Phillips, Beyond, Black Eyed Peas, Santana, Cat Stevens, Coldplay, Dropkick Murphys, En Vogue, No Doubt, Dead Kennedys, Kanye West, Outkast, Lamb of God, Mary J. Blige, old Metallica, Missy Elliott, Nas, Queen, Radiohead, U2, The White Stripes, Sonic Youth, Jimi Hendrix, Stinking Lizaveta

Movies:

The Harry Potter films, Pan's Labrynth, Hairspray, Fight ClubDramatic Chipmunk

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Television:

Simpsons, the news, old episodes of the West Wing, American Justice, Sports, poker, funny commercials, cooking shows

Books:

Non-fiction, poetry, autobiographies, children's books, comics...etc

Heroes:

People who stand up for their beliefs no matter how controversial they may be.

My Blog

WTF!!!!!

Girl provoked pedophile - judge From correspondents in London June 26, 2007 12:00am A PEDOPHILE who raped a 10-year-old girl will be free in just four months after a British judge said his victim had ...
Posted by Bonquita on Sat, 30 Jun 2007 01:00:00 PST

WTF!!

You know what I hate? Sitting at home waiting for the delivery of a package for someone else because the person who this package is for thinks that their life is more important than mine. I ...
Posted by Bonquita on Mon, 25 Jun 2007 10:51:00 PST

FELONIES?? That's a Bit Much...

High school seniors face felony charge for taping ticking alarm clocks to school wallsMONTROSE, N.Y. (AP)  Sixteen members of a high school senior class who taped ticking alarm clocks to the walls of...
Posted by Bonquita on Thu, 14 Jun 2007 11:54:00 PST

Not Quite the Fall of Western Civilization But...Close

Prisons' budget to trump colleges' No other big state spends as much to incarcerate compared with higher education funding James Sterngold, Chronicle Staff Writer Monday, May 21, 2007 As the costs f...
Posted by Bonquita on Mon, 21 May 2007 10:22:00 PST

We Told You So!

Four years ago today, the US lead coalition army invaded Iraq to what they called "liberate the Iraqi people" and "find the weapons of mass destruction". Four years later, between 59,000-65,000 Iraqi ...
Posted by Bonquita on Tue, 20 Mar 2007 01:37:00 PST

Remember Children, Homophobia is Stupid

MIAMI (AP) -- Retired Miami Heat guard Tim Hardaway said Wednesday that he hates gay people, but later said he regretted the remarks. "You know, I hate gay people, so I let it be known. I don't like g...
Posted by Bonquita on Thu, 15 Feb 2007 09:02:00 PST

Valentine's Day

 I've said this a bunch, but I'll say it again. Valentine's day, in my humble opinion is a day when boyfriends, girlfriends, lovers, spouses, companions...etc suddenly realize that they need to s...
Posted by Bonquita on Wed, 14 Feb 2007 02:16:00 PST

Rant From a Queer

John Amaechi, whose NBA career spanned four seasons with five teams became first NBA player, former or current to come out today as being gay.Reactions around the league regarding this recent revelati...
Posted by Bonquita on Thu, 08 Feb 2007 10:03:00 PST

G.d Damn It!

So much for God and country, at least during some in-flight showings of the Oscar-nominated movie "The Queen." All mentions of God are bleeped out of a version of the film distributed to Delta and som...
Posted by Bonquita on Fri, 26 Jan 2007 09:58:00 PST

YAY!! My Own Personal Checklist!

-I often refrain from acting, as I'm afraid of being overwhelmed....True-Success, prestige and recognition really matter to me...not so much-I am too strict with myself and others...true-I tend to tru...
Posted by Bonquita on Fri, 26 Jan 2007 02:08:00 PST