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Berly

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About Me

I have a naturally large mouth, so I smile and laugh as much as possible. Sometimes my humor is sarcastic, and I always talk too much. I always look for the bright side, and find humor in anything to get me thru. Though sometimes it's also cuz I have a tendency to "grin and bear it." I'm very open-minded and curious about everything, but that means I'm an expert at nothing. I flirt with everyone, but am very selective in who actually makes the cut. Once I fall in love, I never fall-out; once you have my heart, it's yours for keeps, for all space and time, I'll do anything - literally anything- for someone I love. I am very honest, sometimes brutally. I'm an open-book in many ways, yet only a handful of people truly know me ~ all sides of me, my fears, my dreams. I'm a strange dichotomy of strong, liberal-minded career woman and 1950s housewife- and somehow I expect myself to be successful in both hats; you know, I want to bring home the bacon and fry it up in the pan... but not only fry it up, make it the best damn bacon you've ever had. I'm an Aries, and true to my sign, passionate, firey, impulsive. I follow my heart... then let my brain overanalyze myself later. I'm very forgiving of others, but very hard on myself. I'm a lioness, so don't mess with my cubs. I'll tell you "it's all about me", but really, it's all about you, because all I want is to make a difference in your life... especially if you've made a difference in mine.

My Interests

My son, music, coffee- I'm a coffee snob, photography/photo preservation/photo albums/custom framing, college football (GO BADGERS!), cooking (and eating!), a good tequila to sip on, teens/teen counseling (my pre-mom profession). I love people- their stories, how they came to be who they are now.

I'd like to meet:

I'd like to re-meet a lot of people I've lost touch with over the years... If anyone knows where Todd Adams or Brian Dougherty are, let me know!! These are some of my favorite people and memories from over the years!

Music:

Mostly "happy music" that I can sing and dance to. Music that reminds me of good times, like dancing and sweating in my bra in Ray's basement; seeing Skid Row at The Metro with Eric, Amy, and Jen (March 30th, 1989); Ray Charles cuz of the small intimate private concert I saw with Len; hearing GreenDay played on WDGC when Mike and I were sitting in my room... and Mike and I walking over to DGN with flowers for the DJ; dancing to Sly and the Family Stone with Jen; dancing in a black teddy and boots to Harry Connick Jr for... maybe I should leave it at that; driving thru the Arboretum with John Cougar Mellencamp with Jen; dancing at the old R&R Station in Madison at a Tesla concert that I went to alone- and it was the best ever!; flying kites with Jen a pitcher of koolaide a boom box and a Michael Jackson cassette; The Romantics "What I Like About You" but I hear Judd singing it in my head; roller skating in Elena's basement to Sean Cassidy 8-Tracks! (God, I'm old!); drinking to the Steve Miller Band at 514 Mifflin; Billy Idol's "Mony Mony" still makes me do a horrible pom-pon routine; rocking Colton to sleep with John Lennon's "Beautiful Boy"... so many great memories. My iPod has everything, the range includes: Storm Large, Mozart, Dropkick Murphys, Ella Fitzgerald, U2, Violent Femmes, The Cure, 2Pac, Operation Ivy, Bob Marley, Sex Pistols, Cheap Trick, Dead or Alive, Fugazi, Taj Mahal, the Go-Gos, Allister, Chili Peppers, Jordis Unga, Thin Lizzy, Jettingham, Chicago, Buddy Holly, Bon Jovi, The Killers, Prince, the Stones, John Cougar Mellencamp, Lynyrd Skynyrd, Lukas Rossi, Depeche Mode, Goo Goo Dolls, The Ramones, Steve Miller Band, The Living End, Duke Ellington, The Sundays, Tesla, Save Ferris, Sly and the Family Stone, The Mr. T Experience, Jane's Addiction, Pixies, The Buzzcocks, The Stinky Puffs, and LOTS and LOTS of Green Day. Well, that names a few.

Movies:

Amadeus, Better Off Dead, Waitress, Ferris Buller's Day Off, Memento, Billy Madison, Little Miss Sunshine, Parenthood, Being John Melcovich, Pricilla- Queen of the Desert. Pretty much anything that makes me laugh. Anything John Cusack, Matt Dillon, or Johnny Depp.

Television:

Conan O'Brien every night- he's hysterical!! Rock of Love with Bret Michaels- yup, I still love a man with great abs, tattoos, and eyeliner. CSI- all of them, but Las Vegas is the best. Scrubs. Seinfeld or Friends reruns. Way too much Sponge Bob and Fairly Odd Parents. When I feel girlish What Not To Wear- I could use one of those episodes for myself.

Books:

Rolling Stone magazine- it counts! Sadly, I pretty much only read children's books now. My favorite books are usually non-fiction, psychological thrillers, like "In Cold Blood" by Truman Capote or "Helter Skelter." Or Kurt Vonnegut's "Slaughterhouse 5."

Heroes:

My grandmother. She was a fast-pitch softball catcher back in the days when women stayed home in aprons. She could outrun all the boys in town. She had crippling arthritus, and never complained. She was a bit mischeivious, with the greatest twinkle in her eyes.

My Blog

Parenting 101

For those of you who aren't yet parents, please read this carefully. For those of you who are already parents, this will make your day! Thinking of having kids? Please complete this 11-step program f...
Posted by Berly on Mon, 14 Apr 2008 11:21:00 PST

Happy Easter?

I hate the snow.  I hate the cold.  Hate it.  Weather is definitely in the "cons" column when it comes to living in the Midwest, or anywhere in the north, for that matter.  People ...
Posted by Berly on Sun, 23 Mar 2008 02:11:00 PST

A peek into the future...

This is how I imagine Jen and I in about 40 years: ------------------------------------------------ Three old ladies were sitting side by side in their retirement home reminiscing. The first lady reca...
Posted by Berly on Thu, 13 Mar 2008 04:25:00 PST

Its official... Im a Minnesotan

I grew up in Chicago, and went to college in Madison, WI.  I'm used to winter.  But I really don't like it.  I miss the days living in L.A. when it was always 72 and sunny.  T...
Posted by Berly on Tue, 11 Mar 2008 12:33:00 PST

Valentines Day- Its What You Make Of It

I've never been one for Valentine's Day.  I joke it's because Nick broke my heart in 6th Grade, after I had saved up my allowance to buy him an oversized Snoopy card and the Chicago "You're The I...
Posted by Berly on Sat, 16 Feb 2008 06:22:00 PST

High School Memories Quiz

OK, I'm a sucker, and got this off my High School's MySpace Profile.  Thought it was funny.  Hope to hear some of YOUR responses, but expect not to!  Anyway, Enjoy!:Fill this out about ...
Posted by Berly on Mon, 11 Feb 2008 08:46:00 PST

The TRUTH About A Work-From-Home-Mom

I know that I am so lucky.  All I need to do is open my web browser and see the headlines on MSNBC~ 50+ people killed in tornados, people shot in a town hall, hockey player paralyzed during game...
Posted by Berly on Fri, 08 Feb 2008 07:10:00 PST

What the f*&us is a caucus?

So today is Super Tuesday in what is probably the most interesting presidential race of my lifetime.  It is also the first time I've voted in the state of Minnesota.  I never voted in Illino...
Posted by Berly on Wed, 06 Feb 2008 10:26:00 PST

Fat Bottomed Girls Make the Rockin’ World Go ’Round

I've never been fond of my "pear shape."  I've been told affectionately that I have "nice curves" or "great child-bearing hips" or "plenty to grab hold of."  With the exception of one time, ...
Posted by Berly on Sat, 05 Jan 2008 08:07:00 PST

Celebrating Christmas with a blue and white striped bag

On December 3rd, my Uncle Tom passed away.  Unfortunately, he had been living an unhealthy lifestyle for quite some time, and it finally caught up with him.  But he sure had fun in his 56 ye...
Posted by Berly on Wed, 02 Jan 2008 03:17:00 PST