I LOVE beautiful things, people, places, minds, hearts, souls... all of the things that are honest, genuine and real in this world.
San Diego, Spring 2006
I love self-improvement, giving back to anyone in need, learning about my family legacy, and spending time with my family and friends.
Phoenix Sunset, Fall 2005
"Love, love, love, that is the soul of genius." - Wolfgang Amadè Mozart
YOU ASKED, I ANSWERED
TELL ME ABOUT YOURSELF - The Survey
Name: Sarah
Birthday: I'm a Capricorn
Birthplace: Isn’t this a password hint question?
Current Location: You tell me
Eye Color: Blue
Hair Color: Dirty Blonde
Height: 5'11
Right Handed or Left Handed: Left
Your Heritage: Italian and German
The Shoes You Wore Today: Pumps - how can you not?
Your Weakness: My curiosity. They say it killed the cat you know.
Your Fears: God
Your Perfect Pizza: Carbs? I don't think so.
Goal You Would Like To Achieve This Year: 2007: Double my income, again. Write my first book, create my first lecture series for motivational speaking, break into PR, get into UC Berkeley’s Business Program Spring 2008, tone my body, expand my vocabulary, work on brevity, do more for my community, and see more of my family.
Your Most Overused Phrase On an instant messenger: IM was cool in middle school - i'm over it
Thoughts First Waking Up: Thank you for my health and the strength (literally) to get out of bed today. Make it a good one!
Your Best Physical Feature: My heart (and the capacity it holds to love)
Your Bedtime: When my head hits the pillow
Your Most Missed Memory: Creating memories and spending quality time with the people I love. If only the bay area weren't such an expensive place to live...
Pepsi or Coke: Yuck
MacDonalds or Burger King: Neither
Single or Group Dates: I don't date
Lipton Ice Tea or Nestea: Gross
Chocolate or Vanilla: We're not talking about men, right? Neither.
Cappuccino or Coffee: Americano
Do you Smoke: Not Normally.
Do you Swear: Sometimes. I'm working on it.
Do you Sing: Ooooooohhh yeah
Do you Shower Daily: Sometimes twice a day
Have you Been in Love: There's a difference between loving, being loved and being in love. I’ve had chemistry, I’ve been in lust, but I’ve never experienced unconditional love from a man. (and how can you expect it? We live in a world where what’s on the outside comes first – that’s what they seem to appreciate me for, my looks). It’s cool though, that’s why I’m single. : )
Do you want to go to College: I'm in college
Do you want to get Married: Yes
Do you believe in yourself: Not when I'm first learning something
Do you get Motion Sickness: Unfortunately
Do you think you are Attractive: Beauty is in the eye of the beholder
Are you a Health Freak: So others tell me
Do you get along with your Parents: Yes
Do you like Thunderstorms: Yes; AFTER I'm startled out of my skin with the first clap of thunder.
Do you play an Instrument: Used to...
In the past month have you Drank Alcohol: non (french)
In the past month have you Smoked: nien (german)
In the past month have you been on Drugs: No
In the past month have you gone on a Date: Yeah, right. For what? To be reeled in with a front? No thanks. I have friends who will be here for life. Those are the only relationships I’m worried about – long term, legitimate and based on what is important… similar beliefs, values, hobbies, personalities, etc.
In the past month have you gone to a Mall: I don't like the mall, I like boutiques.
In the past month have you eaten a box of Oreos: If I'm going to splurge, it will be on a bite of Tiramisu, Apple Galette, a Banana Rum Tart, a Chocolate Eclair, Boston Creme Pie, a French Creme Puff, Glazed Lemon Pound , Almond Coffee , or Cinnamon Pull Apart. So, no.
In the past month have you eaten Sushi: Tried it, don't like it.
In the past month have you been on Stage: I wish
In the past month have you been Dumped: nao (portuguese)
In the past month have you gone Skinny Dipping: Miss me with this
In the past month have you Stolen Anything: Who wrote this quiz? NO!
Ever been Drunk: Who hasn't?
Ever been called a Tease: All day long! WHY can't people see me for who I really am? It's like you have to have a motive if you genuinely want to learn about someone and who they are. What has this world come to?
Ever been Beaten up: Unfortunately
Ever Shoplifted: Give me a break, no.
How do you want to Die: Quickly
What do you want to be when you Grow Up: A good mother, successful woman, contributing member of society, positive role model and someone who leaves a legacy.
What country would you most like to Visit: Italy
In a Boy/Girl..
Favorite Eye Color: The eyes are a window to the soul.
Favorite Hair Color: One that matches the person well.
Short or Long Hair: Hair is futile in the grander scheme of things.
Height: If you can hold a conversation, height doesn't matter.
Weight: Bones are not a sexy look on men.
Best Clothing Style: This varies as I like diversity. You’ve got to be able to dress the part, anywhere you go and wear it well.
Number of Drugs I have taken: Been there, tried it. Did nothing for me, I’m over it.
Number of CDs I own: Heard of mp3?
Number of Piercings: My ears are pierced.
Number of Tattoos: Ask Me.
Number of things in my Past I Regret: Today is a new day. Look towards the future and let go of your past. Keep the lessons though!
GET TO KNOW ME
Favorite Color(s)? Black, Red, carnation pink
Favorite Food(s)/cuisine(s)? Soul Food, Vietnamese/Thai, Mexican, Chinese
Favorite Beverage(s) [alcoholic or non]? Water, Iced Coffee/Tea
Favorite Car(s)? 2006 Bentley Continental Flying Spur, 1978 Pontiac Trans AM
Favorite Brand(s): apparel & shoe Adidas Shoes, Armani, BCBG, Michael Kors.
Favorite Season(s)? Summer
Favorite music genre(s)? In no order: Hip Hop, R&B, Jazz, 80’s Rock, 70’s Rock, Classical (piano, opera, strings)
How long was your longest relationship? 2.5 years
Who pays on the first date? split, 50/50
Have you ever cheated on someone? NO. Why be with someone if you want someone else?
Be upfront or front? Upfront
Do you chew or smoke tobacco? Gross.
Do you shower daily? YES
More often than not: Gum, breath mint, piece of candy or none? Mint Gum
Do you workout daily or at least 3 times a week? YES
Would you consider yourself a good communicator? ABSOLUTELY
Talk on the phone, or save it till I see you? SAVE IT
Details or cut to the chase? SOME detail
Cell Phone: Rings off the hook or turn it off? TURN IT OFF
Problem: solve it and get passed it or forget about it? SOLVE IT
What is your culture/ethnicity? ITALIAN & GERMAN
Have any kids/want kids? How many? HAVE: 0. I love kids though, we'll see hold old I am when I marry.
Get along with your parents? YES
Go to the family reunion or run in the opposite direction? GO TO the family reunion
Believe in Divorce? (regardless of circumstances) NO. Make the right decision the 1st time & work it out.
Are you superstitious? NO
Are you FOR or AGAINST abortion? FOR women's rights & for a child who deserves 2 loving, balanced & MARRIED parents.
Are you FOR or AGAINST the war in iraq (not the troops, the war)? AGAINST the war, but I support the troops
Do you believe in god or a higher power? Oh YEAH
Do you believe in karma? Yep
Chivalry: Dead or Alive? Alive: if he doesn't respect you, walk away.
Women: Barefoot and Pregnant or career oriented? EITHER: Both partners have to hold their end of an equal agreement whatever that may be
Do you genuinely respect the opposite sex? YES, if they've earned my respect.
Have you ever acted on jealousy? NO, I have too much self control for that.
What is your biggest turn off? Bad breath, pick up lines, insulting my intelligence about men, a slobbery kiss, looking at my body parts before my face, trying to act real when I can see through you and I know you're fake(For the people who are fake of course. I can read people VERY well - DON'T test me.)
What is your biggest turn on? genuineness, fragrances, a good listener, someone who has their own opinion/mind, and a good kiss.
More important: Looks or Personality? Personality
Your likes: Butt, Chest or Legs? BUTT - men are not supposed to have breasts or sexy legs (sorry guys)
Getting ready: more or less than 30 minutes? LESS THAN! Look good, but nothing is THAT serious.
Jeans and a T-shirt or complete matching ensemble? Jeans, heels and a tank is casual for me. Matching jewelry and accessories is a waste of money unless it's a fancy outing. Even then, rent the diamonds!
Have or want pets? What kind? Have: 17 year old cat, Want: english mastive
3 or more days a week: Homebody or socialite? BOTH, I have a good balance.
Night owl or early bird? NIGHT OWL
4 or more days a week: eat out or eat at home? Eat at home, I can cook. Yuck, who needs or wants the added preservatives of processed foods served at a restaurant? It's a waste of money to eat out unless it's TRULY fine dining which is not done daily, or weekly for that matter.
Do you wear contacts or glasses? No
Do you snore? NO
How many times have you moved in the last 10 years? 2
Do you like driving or being driven? Being driven unless on windy roads
What natural disaster do you fear the most? Actually, a Tsunami, hurricane and tornado!
Technology obsessed or could care less? Could care less - talk about a waste of $ and a headache
Sports nut, business obsessed or workout-a-holic? Business obsessed - I'm werkin' on the balance
How many hours a day do you play video games? 0 - I feel they're a waste of intellect and a nice day spent outside. (but again, to each his own. Do what you do.)
Weather permitting: weekend outdoors or glued to the couch? OUTDOORS
Birthdays: Party like a rockstar or try and forget the day? Party like a rockstar (this does not mean get wasted) - and usually for 30 days after. Hey! You're alive and more mature. Who could ask for anything more? EMBRACE LIFE AND THE JOURNEY.
Spontaneous vacation or planned vacation? Both
family: Create/follow old traditions or who needs tradition? I've GOT to have traditions (they make good memories and leave things to look forward to)
Big family wedding or elope in Vegas? INTIMATE family wedding with the most important people in my life. My wedding will not a popularity contest.
Bachelor & bachelorette party or family wedding shower? I don't care. I'm secure. If I'm marrying a man, that means I trust/respect him and his friends. If not, I wouldn't be marrying him. (or bothering with him at all for that matter)
Halloween: party like kids, trick or treat with kids, pass out candy or Halloween is stupid? Um, the first 3! I love halloween.
How often do you do laundry? Once a week, or once I get to 3 loads.
Use a dish, wash a dish or leave it in the sink? Okay, WASH a DISH... anything else is nasty and your mother doesn't live at my house. Please treat my property the way you'd like yours treated.
Have you volunteered for longer that 8 hours in the last 2 years? Oh yeah- one warm coat, meals on wheels, children's hospital and a few others.
What hobby are you inspired to do (whether you’ve done it or not)? Art - I love to create things, paint, write (anything), ceramics, make furniture , etc. I really want to learn how to bend metal and do glass blowing.
What was the last movie you paid to see in a theater? A friend paid: Flyboys (I HIGHLY recommend it!)
Do you like/want to do extreme sports (bungee jumping, sky diving)? Uh, would I be on my death bed? Then maybe. Otherwise I'm open to a lot of things and haven't crossed this bridge yet. I try not to say never because I've learned that my desires, opinions and interests change as I get older.
Cartoons and Fantasy or real life? REAL LIFE - UGH, I cant STAND cartoons. That is the quickest way to put me to sleep. STOP DREAMING, the real world is WAY too much fun!
What irritates you (most)? People who don't listen to my words. If I'm going to bother to say something, I MEAN IT (so, please listen). I also hate selfishness in relationships: specifically people who lie and withhold information because they're too afraid (of how they think I'll react/the outcome) to communicate. Talk about the quickest way to get me to leave you and with no warning either. I'll say it ONCE, just tell me the truth and tell me now. Lying to me will piss me off I will over-react to that before I over-react to anything else. I can spot a lie a mile away, please don't test me.
What motivates you? Helping others, Money, achievement, success, accomplishment
Do you have patience? I have a lot more than I used to, but not as much as other people I've seen.
You: domineering or submissive? Both, depends on the situation.
Do you trust others/yourself? Yes.
Slept with a friend’s ex, current partner or love interest? Um, NO WAY! Who would do that to a friend? Not mine, i'll tell you that. Better yet, why would you even call that person a friend? They're not.
Ambitious with a plan or waiting for the right opportunity to come along? Ambitious and making it happen all day folks. NOTHING WILL EVER FALL IN YOUR LAP, stop waiting for it!
Do you set boundaries with people or do they walk all over you? I set boundaries, I set them early and I communicate them effectively. Listen to my words, please don't test me, I hate that.
Control yourself or control others? Control myself - people who think they can control others are living in a fantasy.
Have others told you that you’re a good listener? The majority of the time. However, if I need to be heard I have a hard time shutting up.
What are the 2 basic essentials to a healthy relationship (of any type)? Communication and Trust: Anything else is like trying to build a house on sand.
What is the perfect gift coming from a mate? Something that shows me they know me or have listened.
Shoes off at the door, or trample through the house? Off at the door
New couches or old smelly loveseat? New Couches
Dream home location(s)? On a Beach somewhere, a country estate & a condo/loft in the city
Lease or own? Lease everything except for the house, especially if you're getting the tax write-offs!
Hired Help (maid): worth every penny or save the money? Maybe a maid if the benefit truly outweighs the cost. Otherwise, cleaning house is a part of life. Make it a family activity and get it done sooner while teaching kids responsibility.
Are you financially responsible? At 25 I own a house and a luxury car. I moved out at 16 and have had NO assistance of ANYTYPE, EVER. I'll let you answer that question.
What age would you like to retire? 45 or 50
Spend money or save it? Save it
Wash the car or take it to the car wash? Wash the car. I love washing my car. Plus, I do a MUCH better job than the people at the detail shop. Talk about a waste of money and a headache to have to sit there and keep pointing out things they've missed.
Coupon clipper or just grab it and go? Oh, coupon clipper for sure. I'm stingy and frugal too. Not a penny will be wasted of my hard earned $, it doesn't matter how much I do or don't have.
Have you ever been fired? No
- or -
Supersize Me
Inconvenient Truth
The Corporation
BOUNDARIES
By Dr. Henry Cloud & Dr. John Townsend
FINDING PEACE IN AN INSANE WORLD
By Dr. Brenda Shoshanna, Ph.d
THE PURPOSE DRIVEN LIFE
By Rick Warren
THE BIG PICTURE
By Douglas Kennedy
THE DREAM GIVER
By Bruce Wilkinson
People who:
*love unconditionally
*share knowledge and don't control
*don't judge, discriminate or hate
*are genuine and humble
*are smart and secure enough to realize that NO ONE is better than anyone else, we are all equal