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About Me

Just a smalltown girl living in the big city. I have a life full of lessons learned and am never afraid to learn a little more. Here's a little advice to you girls out there:Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends." If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, Why would he treat you any differently? Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god.! He is a man, nothing more nothing less. Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else's man. Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs. You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street. Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and your always readily available to him- he takes it for granted. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others.

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My Interests

I love water and anything that has to do with it! I love to be active and playing sports or spending time outside. Although, there is absolutely nothing wrong with a great night indoors watching a movie. I love to give and get massages!

I'd like to meet:

I would like to "Find a guy who calls me beautiful instead of hot, who calls me back, even though I hung up on him, who thinks I am perfect even though he knows the worst things about me, who will stay awake just to watch me sleep. Wait for the guy who kisses my forehead, who wants to show me off to the world when I'm in sweats, who holds my hand in front of his friends, who thinks I'm just as pretty without makeup, one who is constantly reminding me of how much he loves me and how lucky he is to have me, and the one who turns to his friends and says, 'That's her'....."You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.

Music:

Carrie Underwood, Taylor Swift and just about anything else I can sing to!

Movies:

Chick flicks and action movies! Top Gun, Just Like Heaven, Serendipity to name a few.

Television:

I don't watch much TV but I like Discovery channel and Food Network.

Books:

The Giver & My Sister's Keeper

Heroes:

I believe everyone is a hero deep down inside them. They all have their own struggles to overcome. People are beautiful and I do not think we should put anyone higher than anyone else. We are created equally and everyone must play their part to make the world go 'round.

My Blog

Oaths of Enlistment

U.S. COAST GUARD ENLISTMENT OATH"I, (State your name), swear to sign away 4 years of my life to the UNITED STATES COAST GUARD because I know being in the real military scares me. However, I swear to...
Posted by JaC on Sat, 16 Jun 2007 10:36:00 PST

Tribute to my Grandma

In the last few days, I've had to tell a lot of people that my grandmother passed away, but every single time I've said it, it sounded hallow. It sounded like just some person I am related to had pass...
Posted by JaC on Sun, 25 Feb 2007 03:24:00 PST

Have a Bad day??

Ok, so in the midst of having a bad day, I stumbled across this poem. It really made me think about my life and what I want it to be. And hopefully, it turns my bad day around!! Sculptor's Attit...
Posted by JaC on Wed, 09 Aug 2006 08:09:00 PST