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Kinda Fly for a White Guy

I am here for Dating, Serious Relationships and Friends

About Me

My name's Ethan. I'm 6' 2", 180 lbs., with blue/green eyes that a lot of people tell me are my best feature. I have long dark brown hair which I keep in a ponytail, but I'll probably be cutting it soon and going short again... Occasionally I even have it in cornrows.
For the most part I don't have a style of dress. Sometimes I dress a little preppy, sometimes just a pair of jeans and a t-shirt, I even went through a Hawaiian shirt phase awhile back (I know...the horror). Occasionally a fashion victim possibly, but I guess that's the price I pay for wearing what I like and not what I think other people would like.
I currently live in Lake Balboa. I'm originally from Ventura. I've also lived in Santa Paula, Humboldt (Arcata), Canoga Park and North Hollywood.
I just started work as a children's social worker (CSW) for LA county's Department of Children and Family Services (DCFS). Before that I worked with abused and neglected children in the non-profit sector for over six years. First at a crisis care and prevention center in Camarillo called Casa Pacifica, and then a residential treatment center in Altadena called Five Acres.

My Interests

I like bar hopping, clubbing, concerts, reading, running, dancing, playing darts, pool, basketball, bones, chess, board games and video games, going to the beach at night, foreplay, snowboarding, body boarding, going to museums, musicals, zoos, aquariums, etc...

I'd like to meet:

There's two kinds of people I'd be interested in meeting through this. Of course I'd love to find someone special. The someone I would settle down with would have an amazing personality, be at least somewhat attractive, affectionate, there'd have to be good two way communication (I like someone that's got a lot to say), mutual respect (I can only be with someone I can see as my equal and vice versa), optimistic, and ambitious (no offense to the house wives out there, but I'd rather be with someone that's going to do a little more with their life than hold the fort down). Someone with eclectic tastes would be great too (someone that I can go to a hip hop club with and then a rock concert, some one I can stay in and watch movies and cuddle with one night and then get out and party the next).

The other type of people I'd like to meet on here are some new friends to get out and do the things that I can't get any of my other friends to go out and do. Such as going to museums, concerts, clubs, the zoo, aquariums, musicals, theater, the beach, road trips, etc...

Music:

I like Nina Simone, Jill Scott, NIN (Nine Inch Nails), the Cure, Mos Def, N.E.R.D., Metallica, Heather Headley, STP, Common, Linkin Park, Johnny Cash, Vivian Green, Dr. Dre, Jurassic 5, A Tribe Called Quest, Floetry, Outkast, Alison Krauss, Nirvana, Offspring, Tupac, Wu Tang Clan, DJ Cam, the Roots, the Fugeez, Mishell N'Degeochello, Lauren Hill, Guru & Gangstarr, Panic! At the Disco, My Chemical Romance, The Killers, Toni Braxton, Keith Sweat, Jodeci, Erykah Badu, etc...

If any of my playlists are not running just refresh my page.

Good Grief

Hip Hop & Rap

Rock 'N Roll, Man

R&B & Neo-Soul

Oh Oh! For the love of God, don't listen to these songs!!!

Movies:

The City of Lost Children, the Princess Bride, The Nightmare before Christmas and the Corpse Bride, Friday, Next Friday, Friday After Next, the Goonies, Love & Basketball, Fight Club, Legend, Labyrinth, the Star Wars trilogies, Leon (the Professional), Fear & Loathing in Las Vegas, High Fidelity, The Bridges of Madison County, Heathers, Dark City, Midnight in the Garden of Good and Evil, The Crow, the Rocky Horror Picture Show, Moulin Rouge, Anchorman: The Legend of Ron Burgandy, the Lord of the Rings trilogy, Shrek 1 & 2, Ready to Rumble, Romeo is Bleeding, Mel Brooks movies (Young Frakenstein, Blazing Saddles, Spaceballs, Robinhood: Men in Tights, the Producers (the original), History of the World: Part I, Life Stinks, High Anxiety, etc...), Cary Grant movies (North by Northwest, To Catch a Theif, Charade, Bringing Up Baby, etc...), Humphrey Bogart movies (Casablanca, Sabrina, the Maltese Falcon, Key Largo, etc...), Kevin Smith movies (Clerks 1 & 2, Mallrats, Dogma, Jay and Silent Bob Strike Back, etc...), Quintin Tarantino films (Pulp Fiction, Kill Bill 1 & 2, Reservoir Dogs & Jackie Brown), Robert Rodriguez films (Desperado, Sin City, the Faculty, etc...), Out of Site, Get Shorty, Touch, the Pink Panther films, Willow, Super Troopers, the Payback, Maverick, the Usual Suspect, Monty Python films (The Holy Grail, Life of Brian, the Meaning of Life, And Now for Something Completely Different, Dead Men Don't Wear Plaid, Akira, Ghost in the Shell, Spirited Away, Howl's Moving Castle, Princess Molokai, Dead Leaves, Ninja Scroll, Interview with a Vampire, the Shinging, Malibu's Most Wanted, American History X, The Best Man, Fright Night 1 & 2, Tales from the Crypt: Demon Night, Half Baked, Caddy Shack 1 & 2, The Great Outdoors, Formula 51, Curse of the Jade Scorpion, House Party, Antwon Fisher, Cecil B. Demented, Cry Baby, Fast and Furious 1 & 2, Hackers, LA Confidential, the Matrix trilogy, Sleepy Hollow, Snow Falling on Cedars, Evil Dead 1 & 2, Army of Darkness, Dracula, Finding Forester, Wonderboys, etc...

Television:

Futurama, Spongebob Squarepants, Family Guy, the Ventura Bros., the Boondocks, the Simpsons, South Park, Seinfeld, Adult Swim, the Dave Chappelle Show, Boston Legal, Heroes, Dexter, the Office, Cowboy Bebop, Invader Zim, Ghost in the Shell: Stand Alone Complex & 2nd Gig, King of the Hill, Arrested Developement, Robotech, Samurai Champloo, Midori Days, The Grim Adventures of Billy and Mandy, Samurai 7, Eureka Seven and Fooley Cooley off the top of my head.

Books:

Chuck Palaniuk (Fight Club, Choke, Haunted, Diary, Survivor, Invisible Monsters & Lullaby), Hunter S. Thompson (Fear & Loathing in Las Vegas & the Rum Diary), Irvine Welsh (Trainspotting, Porno & Marabou Stork Nightmares), Nick Hornby (High Fidelity & a Long Way Down), Charles Frazier (Cold Mountain), Robert James Waller (the Bridges of Madison County), Douglas Adams (the Hitchhiker's Trilogy), Elmore Leonard (Out of Site, Get Shorty, Be Cool, Touch & Maximum Bob), Elizabeth Wurtzel (Prozac Nation), Jon Berendt (Midnight in the Garden of Good and Evil), Terry Brooks (the Shannarah series), J.R.R. Tolken (the Hobbit & the Lord of the Rings tilogy).

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Heroes:

Martin Luther King Jr., Martin Luther, FDR, Abraham Lincoln, and my father of course.

My Blog

My New Favorite Song

I just bought the new Jill Scott cd and I'm loving her new song "Epiphany." It drives me wild! I'm still diggin' this song as well. Which samples another song I love. ...
Posted by Kinda Fly for a White Guy on Sun, 09 Dec 2007 10:22:00 PST

When Theres Nothing Left to Burn, You Have to Set Yourself on Fire

My new favorite song. I just stumbled across it today by accident. There's a Final Fantasy Remix of the song out there that sounds even better, in my opinion. You can find it in my first playlist if y...
Posted by Kinda Fly for a White Guy on Sun, 30 Sep 2007 03:59:00 PST

Some Good Music Videos Thread

BEWARE: Some of this content is offesive. Don't watch it if you don't think you can handle it. It's all good stuff though. Enjoy. First Day of my Life - Bright Eyes ...
Posted by Kinda Fly for a White Guy on Mon, 12 Feb 2007 08:39:00 PST

This Woman's Work

This Woman's Work has been one of my favorite songs ever since I heard it played through the love scene in the movie 'Love and Basketball.' Up until now I only knew of the version by Maxwell. It turns...
Posted by Kinda Fly for a White Guy on Sun, 24 Dec 2006 03:14:00 PST

The Everclear Thread

I've always loved the lyrics of Everclear. Lyrics about interracial relationships, fatherhood, children and infatuation. I think the only other musician that comes close to producing meaningful lyrics...
Posted by Kinda Fly for a White Guy on Sun, 26 Feb 2006 11:39:00 PST

What if God was a Her?

I was rollin' around, in my mind it occurred What if God was a her? Would I treat her the same? Would I still be runnin' game on her? In what type of ways would I want her? Would I want her ...
Posted by Kinda Fly for a White Guy on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

The Sexy T Thread (that's you Teleah)

Hey T, it's been a million years since I've seen you, but we always seem to always be at level with one another, and I'm sure that the next time we kick it, it'll be like we were just hanging out the ...
Posted by Kinda Fly for a White Guy on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

The Maria Thread

I'd just like to dedicate a thread of mine to my good friend, Maria. She really is my go to girl right now. She's everything I could want in a friend. She's always there for me. She's always willing m...
Posted by Kinda Fly for a White Guy on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

The Jill Scott Thread

Cross My Mind--Jill Scott I was just thinking about you Wondering if you wear the same cologne Smelled good On you Had the next boyfriend of mine try the same kind But it stunk on him though....
Posted by Kinda Fly for a White Guy on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

The Cure Thread

Boys Don't Cry--The Cure I would say I'm sorry If I thought that it would change your mind But I know that this time I've said too much Been too unkind I try to laugh about it Cover it all...
Posted by Kinda Fly for a White Guy on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST