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the good, the bad, the end.

the easy affections of a boy will be nothing compared to the love of a true man.

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mood:date post: 9.23.07"After all, all I have in my mind,
It's just silence all around.

A thousand times, I have tried to find
pieces of dreams.. visions and sounds;

.. And then I pray for better days."

[ start ]

Blah. What a blah day. What a blah existance.

Some dweeb sent me an MS message and my response wouldn't go through bc I wasn't added as a friend.

"Was that intentional?", I wondered. Maybe to keep the convo one sided..?

Anyway, I've been trying to stay out of the blah slump by repeating positive messages to myself throughout the day.

Thing is, I feel defeated.

To be happy, one has to work at it or just "be".

For me, it's always been easy to just disappear and start over, but for the first time in my life, I'm stuck in a spot where I can't budge.

And to be exposed to the people and situations that bring me down everyday is stunting my ability to recover, then move on..

I know I can do anything, but seeing & accepting the disappointment(s) on a daily basis is changing me for the worse.

I just need hugs, I swear.

It sounds weak, but I honestly believe having someone who holds you at least once a day is the best remedy. The sense of touch is powerful.

I'm gonna go hug my dog against his will now.

[ end ]

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If I had to describe myself in just a few words, i'd probably sound cliche and tell you, "I'm not what I seem to be", but I guess "what I seem to be" is merely my perception (or misunderstanding..?) of what people think, based on what they reflect to me.

With that said, here are a few examples:

I'll meet people and they won't say 2 words to me, but I'll go out of my way to initiate conversation, yet nothing happens on their end.

Weird, right..? You'd think someone would reciprocate the friendliness, but instead they act more awkard around me. Usually I'll just leave people alone, and then they get all bitchy and forget I was nice to begin with, but screw those idiots, I don't have the ability to read your damn mind; just learn to be civil, at least.

Next, I'll meet people who make too big a deal out of me. I'm not famous, rich, nor do I have any hookups/connections, so we can drop the act.

Lastly, I meet folks who come at me in attack mode. This is always manages to amaze me because I'm not an angry person. I actually like to be happy and/or in love, but depending on how serious the offense, you might've met my alter ego, Ninja Natassha, who will whoop your ass so quick n so severe, you won't recall it happening.

Regardless, I'm really just this girl who has alot to offer once I feel comfortable, just like many of you reading this.

I've moved around alot, living alone since I was a teenager and over time I've seen so much, stepping outside of who I used to be and changing along the way. I've become pretty flexible when it comes to compromising with even the things I hate, because I realized that I wasn't so easy to work with at one point either, so whatever the issue about me that scares you: because I'm light skinned, of another ethnicity, wear clothing that's not your style, or choose no friends over alot of fake ones shouldn't be reason to not gimme a chance.

::about me::

I'm a 24 y/o New Yawker, originally from PA who splits her time between working for the ER overnight and live modeling (brand ambassador/promotional/trades show/spokes-modeling) in whatever free time I have.

::i love::

PIZZA!, The Sims, art/music (creating or observing), Cha Thai, kissing&hugging, galbi, laughing, secrets, stilettos, phone etiquette, lip gloss, romantic gestures, stretchy jeans, day dreaming, painted toenails, Blueberry Oolong Tea, oldschool R&B jams, tattoos/piercings on a hawt guy, cooking, talkin about my gas to my coworkers while they cringe, anything glittery- including rhinestones, shimmery powders, and pretty eyes/smiles.



My Blog

Q & A with The Queen

Everyday I receive messages with questions/comments that I've either already responded to repeatedly or find amusing and in turn deserve an answer because of the originality. Listed are a few question...
Posted by the good, the bad, the end. on Thu, 07 Sep 2006 08:07:00 PST

About Me

So you decided to read on?     Very cool.   Before you continue, here's a link to Q&A with The Queen, which is basically an FAQ section composed of all thedifferent and sometimes si...
Posted by the good, the bad, the end. on Wed, 02 Aug 2006 03:32:00 PST

If You Love Someone ..

  What do you do when you know someone's bad for you         &nb sp;         &nb sp;    ...
Posted by the good, the bad, the end. on Wed, 07 Dec 2005 08:39:00 PST

The Luckiest

Sometimes a story is best told in a song ..                            &nb...
Posted by the good, the bad, the end. on Thu, 18 Aug 2005 03:44:00 PST

BBQ .2 and Play Photos!! July 16, 2005

  The 2nd BBQ was a blast and HUUUGE thank youto everyone for not only showing up and bringinggoodies, but bringing good attitudes and being fun !!Let the photo segment begin ...Scott and I, prep...
Posted by the good, the bad, the end. on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

Be PROUD of Being Black .. Not Ignorant .. like this Guy.

Below is an article submitted by Celly Cell. I took his link down, because it truly upset himand he requested it; no harm in that, right? Thing is, dude locks his blogs now and likes towrite about me...
Posted by the good, the bad, the end. on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

My Friend on MySpace, Mario ..

  I have a friend on my buddy list, Mario, who has alot of other "friends" .. Not legitimate friends; just people taking up space, I think.I read his poems and feel like we know eachother,in the ...
Posted by the good, the bad, the end. on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

"Nice Guys" Finish Last ... My Ass.

I recently saw a bulletin titled, "Nice Guys .... SURE!"and instantly knew I had to read it.Instinct told me it was another pointless and feebleattempt at giving women a guilt trip for guys whoallow t...
Posted by the good, the bad, the end. on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

Love As A Seed - A Poem

love as a seed; planted so long ago.in your soul, kept it safe; as a haven ... to grow.i watered and nurtured this love from the start,hoping, when blossomed, I'd grow us a heart.this love deep i...
Posted by the good, the bad, the end. on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

Pictures from the BBQ - Saturday, June 18, 2005 !!

  So I know I had a couple people on edge aboutwhen I'd debut the sloppy, drunken BBQ photos .. arghs.And I can't hold them hostage forever either.So the BIGGEST thank you's to everyone who showe...
Posted by the good, the bad, the end. on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST