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<font color = red Love moves in mysterious ways

About Me

.. .. Romance is the glue that keeps a couple together and in love. And contrary to popular belief, it's the small, day-to-day gestures that are the most meaningful, and have the greatest impact on enduring love. "The loving are the daring." ~ Bayard Taylor ~ "A heart is not judged by how much you love, but by how much you are loved by others." ~ The Wizard ~ "'I love you' doesn't have to be said to be understood." ~ James Bennett Eades III ~ "Love is like a friendship caught on fire. In the beginning a flame, very pretty, often hot and fierce, but still only light and flickering. As love grows older, our hearts mature and our love becomes as coals, deep-burning and unquenchable." ~ Bruce Lee ~ "For every beauty there is an eye somewhere to see it. For every truth there is an ear somewhere to hear it. For every love there is a heart somewhere to receive it." ~ Ivan Panin ~ "Love simply is -- it asks no permissions. Acceptance is all love asks, the only demand it makes, but it is an absolute one. You can either admit it to your heart or refuse it, but there's no other option." ~ Stephanie Laurens ~ "If you find it in your heart to care for somebody else, you will have succeeded." ~ Maya Angelou ~ "It is wrong to think that love comes from long companionship and persevering courtship. Love is the offspring of spiritual affinity and unless that affinity is created in a moment, it will not be created for years or even generations." ~ Khalil Gibran ~ "If one day you find someone better than me, I hope she feels the exact same way I feel when Im with you. I hope she makes you laugh and I hope she makes you smile but most of all, I hope that never happens because I never want anybody to get the chance to see how amazing you are and that smile belongs to me." ~ Allison Mosher ~ "There is only one kind of love, but there are a thousand imitations." ~ Francois de La Rouchefoucauld ~ "It is wrong to think that love comes from long companionship and persevering courtship. Love is the offspring of spiritual affinity and unless that affinity is created in a moment, it will not be created for years or even generations." ~ Khalil Gibran ~ "A husband is a guy who tells you when you've got on too much lipstick and helps you with your girdle when your hips stick." ~ Ogden Nash ~ .. About me... there's not much to say about myself... i'm just a simple person with simple dreams... i'm the serious kind of person who prefers quiet moments...most of the time i am alone... i'm not introvert in any way but there are times i just feel like being alone... the crowd is fine but at times it's just tiring and irritating to keep up just to please everyone knowing that we simply cannot please everyone... no matter what you say or do... there will always be something negative that people can say to you... i'm most likely judged as suplado by people who doesn't know me personally and most friends tell me of how strong my personality is from being frank although i am particular of the words that i say.... i am a hopeless romantic person actually and still am hoping to find someone i can call "my own". i am a very simple and basic person with an openminded view about things. i cannot say i am liberated since I am particular with ethics... i am a laid back kinda` guy and prefers quiet moments either in my home or by the beach stargazing. i prefer listening to mellow music although i do listen to R&B,POP,Alternatives (it really depends on my mood). i am a frank person and i am very much considered by people who don`t know me personally a snob. However it is a defense mechanism i portray so that people around me wouldn`t underestimate me as an easy catch. However once I find a person who pursues me and have proven his worth and patience, they would later find out that I really am not an asshole after all. I have been into a number of relationships and it was never new to me how people come and go...never really had problems with third parties, it`s just that they all plan to leave for abroad searching for a greener pasture since life here in the Philippines is never easy at all which at the end keeps me saying,"thanks for the memories!"..i`m settled with my laid back lifestyle here(not of course "settled" as it is but i'm just living within my means and not trying too hard to live ina fanatasy world)... i also am the kind of person who's got an attitude of a loner....i prefer being alone but i don't have an inferior personality... my mood swings at times however i am not the type who would be screaming my lungs out for chrissake....i simply walk away to make things easier but if I get pushed to the limits i can badmouth which i really evade that's why i walk away. i read books at times...spend my free time at drinking coffee or at the movies when i have spare and even at videoke bars singing but most of the time alone. i also am thrifty when it comes to financial matters... i don't splurge on stuff but if ever i do treat myself, it would be mostly for food... i love eating! when i'm happy i eat when i'm sad i eat...much more when i'm down...i eat a lot! physically, i stand 5'9 and a slim type of person with an average look... i would prefer to meet people who has a lot of sense of humor and can vary their subjects from the typical "kanto" topics to the sensible ones... i don't prefer hanging around with people who talks a lot about vanity and self-achievements. I prefer somebody who's very much real and can still recognize themselves as who they used to be after sudden lifestyle changes... i get amazed and interested with people who can put up with an intellectual discussion. someone who's debatable and has various ideas about things and have strong guts of pointing out their views and defending his opinion to a particular subject matter. i could fall in love in a snap with that someone who can arouse me intellectually.

My Interests

oftentimes at my free time i would catch myself doing some sketches or writing poems....i would play badminton,volleyball and chess at times... and just lately i enjoyed billiard... hehehe! mmm! i love books (just don't read a lot).i love clothes but i always get it at the right price... "look expensive without getting bankrupt!" hahaha! i love to eat.. i dunno! food is the best remedy when you're desperate or happy! hmmm... interest? more? i wanted to take law so as philosophy...used to want to be a lawyer...an architect or whatever and have a firm...well, my mom says, "u always get enrolled but never finish a thing and i'll end up a master of nothing (my mom can really be a bitch but from then, i learn from her". i love coffee so i might as well put up a coffee shop when i get rich!!! and i wonder when that will be... i sing a lot... my friends sing a lot... i can live without discos and bars...but not without a videoke bar.. so i might as well have to find myself someone who i can fall in-love with that owns a videoke bar....hahaha!

I'd like to meet:





Music:

WHEN YOU BELIEVE . . . . LOVE TAKES TIME . . . . BUTTERFLY KISSES . . . . WHEN CAN I SEE YOU AGAIN . . . . BECAUSE OF YOU . . . . music...mostly mellow but it really depends on my mood... "Love is not about finding the right person, but creating a right relationship. It's not about how much love you have in the beginning but how much love you build till the end.""If you once said "I will love you more than anyone until the day I die," and that person leaves you; how will you say "I love you more than anyone" again, or should you say that?""Saying I love you is important, but not enough. Remember, love is a verb, an action word. Sometimes, passive because it happens to us, but also active, because we choose to do it." "Don't tell me you love me; show me that you do." "Love doesn't just sit there, like a stone; it has to be made, like bread; remade all the time, made new." Ursula K. Le Guin "Why are the words goodbye, I'm sorry, and I love you so easily pronounced, but so hard to say?" "Absence makes the heart grow fonder when you are away from someone you never loved in the first place. For love needs constant companionship and communication. Without it, it can't survive." "If you love someone tell them, because hearts are often broken by words left unspoken." "You don't love someone if problems are best solved by throwing them away; it's the test of love to really understand and listen." "True love begins, when you think more about the other person, then his or her reaction to you. When you dare to reveal yourself, and when you dare to be vulnerable." "Distance makes the heart grow fonder? How does love grow in a vacuum? Distance makes the heart wander. For without communication, without companionship... and distance long enough -- a friend, at best, is what you'll find." "Whenever life seems to drift you away from me, I can't help but cry. You've grown to be such a part of me that without you life is no more than a desperate sigh. They do say love comes and goes, and to that I disagree. So, here's my hand, take it and don't let go of me." "I chose to love you in silence, for in silence I find no rejection. I chose to love you in your loneliness, for in your loneliness no one owns you, but me." "A relationship is a two way street. It's never all your fault or the other persons. You go into the relationship together and work through it all together." "If enduring pain, braving shame, despising one's self for the sake of affection and accepting misery without question is the definition of love - then, I LOVE YOU."Marvin Jay M. Torres "I know that you are not perfect and nor can I claim to be either, but please believe me, when I say that I want to be by your side, to hold your hand, to treasure you in the morning and in the noon-tide, to be next to you, to be held close to your heart now and for the rest of my living years, to comfort you, dry your tears and calm your most frightening fears, to fight your battles and show no shame to scream my love for you out loud all over the land." "You are sanity in an insane world. You're reason where there isn't any reason. Reason to live." Madeleine L'Engle

Movies:


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hmmm...romantic films...i'm the mushy type who would like to get stucked with hopeless romantic cd's and sob....hehehe! i do enjoy some sci-fi movies and horror as well

Books:

"Love is represented by a rose not only because of it's eternal beauty but also because of it's destructive thorns." ~ Michele Suarez ~"If I were an angel, I would be a fallen one trying to fly on broken wings, with a broken heart. That was when you found me and taught me to fly again, because you loved me." ~ Cheryl Leung ~"It's amazing how fast the heart can heal when it stumbles upon the right cure." ~ Brooke Robinson ~ "How does soemones touch only known for a short time become a burning hunger in your soul?" ~ Stacey Richardson ~ "What is love, but a kiss on a rainy day, a smile that won't go away, a safe place to run. What is love, but a complicated simple truth, a bond between me and you." ~ Jenna Dee ~ "Always remember...... Marriage & love is a daily commitment. You must choose to love your spouse everyday. You may wake up one day and not feel those lovey-dovey feelings, but you must choose to love that person anyway. It’s part of the vows you made to one another. That’s the secret to a lasting marriage. Respect one another & support one another. In marriage, commitment is the engine and emotions are the caboose. Never drive your train with the caboose." ~ Stephanie Zimmer ~"It's the little things like holding hands and longing stares that means the world to me and I don't want to share them with anyone but you for the rest of my life." ~ Audra Zickafoose ~"Love that we can not have is the one that lasts the longest, hurts the deepest and feels the strongest." "Christine Ciccarelli ~"In your life you meet people. Some you never think about again. Some you wonder what happened to them. There are some that you wonder if they ever think about you. And then there are some you wish you never had to think about again, but you do." ~ Christine Ciccarelli ~"The only consolation of saying goodbye to someone you love is the glimmer of hope that someday after that goodbye there will be another hello." ~ Megan Roller ~"Just because you know someone doesn't mean you love them, and just because you don't know people doesn't mean you can't love them. You can fall in love with a complete stranger in a heartbeat, if God planned that route for you. So open your heart to strangers more often. You never know when God will throw that pass at you." ~ Heather Grove ~"it's not the simple ring or the diamond that glitters that touches the heart nor the roses you send at each moment in time. it's not the clothes you buy your loved one or the car you bought at summertime neither that it's not the things you buy for the person you love that you know they would want to have that makes the person love you more. but it is the thought of it that makes them love you furthermore because they knew you have given them of great value represented by those things that represents the memories of you and the love you both have..." ~unknown~