KEN

I never really knew what I wanted to do when I was young, but I had a knack for fixing things. I started going to school for Criminal Justice, but I met with a Pyschic that changed my whole perspective on life. He made a good point that I will get bored sitting in the car thinking about all the things I could be doing instead of being there. This gave me the strength and courage to pursue things outside of what people thought I should be doing. I realized I spent too much time listening to people (family), and decided to venture off on my own. We ended up in Arizona, went to school for Networking, got a good job as a Systems Engineer at a wonderful Network Consulting Company.I spent most of the last decade running away from family. My wife and I have been self reliant and focused on ourselves. That is until recently because we finally have a little precious girl we can call our own. We are now ready to re-connect with family. We've built up our own "family" on our own. We bought our own house with our own money. We bought our own cars and toys with our own money. We never take on something that we are unsure about being able to handle. We don't plan to do things dependent on someone else's help. If we can't do it on our own, we simply don't do it. This gives us the freedom to be ourselves and make our own decisions on everything. We may not have the biggest house on the block or drive a Luxury car or the biggest TV, but everything we have; we can handle on our own.I have a straight-forward personality. I will tell you like it is if you ask my opinon (or sometimes even if you don't). I am a highly rational person that tries to analyze things to death, but I am trying to rely more on my intuition. I am a loyal friend until you betray my trust; then don't expect to hear anything from me. I can forgive, but I cannot forget because I don't want to repeat mistakes and be forced to re-learn a valuable lesson. My spirits are high, and its hard to bring me down. I live a carefree yet responsible life.