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Tami

honesty and tact are NOT mutually exclusive.

About Me

friendly but socially inept and horribly self-conscious alternative dork... i'm not the sum of my tastes, but let's just say i like music a bit too much for my own good. francophile, mediator, gamer, introvert.i have a livejournal here .i am incredibly shy but with the capacity to be very very silly... however... i DO have very little patience for bullshit if something bothers me. this means: if you're going to be an incorrigible assclown, i will either ignore you completely or verbally spank you until you go running home to mommy. you've been forewarned :)

what i'm listening to:

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My Interests

my cats, spending too much time on the internet, livejournal, reading, sarcasm, irony, live music events, target shooting/guns, dancing, travel, europeans, games, friendly debate, cooking, movies, daydreaming, creation, communication, pleasure, hedonism, autumn, horror, scifi, fantasy, people with a sense of humor, people who can admit their flaws, sexuality, humility, introspection, fandom, 80s pop culture, different perspectives, coffee & cigarettes, gender equality, languages, writing, pointing out the obvious, almost anything french, dry humor, red wine, silliness, enjoying superbly prepared meals, nostalgia, tomfoolery, picking on morrissey, the kingdom of loathing, becoming the imperator of holland

I'd like to meet:

friends/people to hang out with or just chat with. people that interest me in some way or share something in common with me.

UNLESS YOU PLAN ON ACTUALLY COMMUNICATING WITH ME, STOP TRYING TO WHORE YOUR BAND TO ME. NOT INTERESTED. AT ALL. please don't add me without sending me a message first unless i actually know you from another site or unless i actually do see you in person from time to time. i'm not here to collect pictures of people :)

...that means, if you're not going to bother reading a very TINY and EASY TO READ bit of text in my profile (no obnoxious formatting or ridiculous pictures! yay!), then i'll probably delete your friend request without even going to your profile if you send me one without a message first. *shrug*

ALSO! if you're using this site as an online dating service, feel free to skip over me. i'm not interested and no amount of prodding and half-assed flattery on your part will change that. in addition, don't expect me to take you seriously if you do decide to immediately start hitting on me based on a few internet pictures or have pictures of yourself half-dressed and flexing or whatever. when i see this, i am laughing at you.

Music:

YES PLEASE. i have a pretty eclectic range of tastes that veer toward alternative, goth, new wave, punk, electronica, french chanson, synthpop, rock, and even some classic country. i'm sick of being pegged into a subculture. i like STUFF.

Movies:

i am a film geek that could build a small house with my dvd collection. ask me.

Television:

i more or less avoid television usually, since the onslaught of advertising really hurts my brain, and the content is generally nothing i'm interested in; if i'm watching television at all, it's always at the home of a friend... that said, i do like "house" and "rome." i DID like "john from cincinnati" before they cancelled it. *EXTREMELY IMPORTANT EDIT*: I'm now utterly and pathetically addicted to HBO's "True Blood." Heh.

Books:

clive barker, george r.r. martin, terry pratchett, and neil gaiman are my fantastic four. i'm a fan of the fantasy genre, but i try to avoid the thinly-veiled-romance-novel variety. i love biography as well, and historical non-fiction.

recommend me books. i'm always up for reading something new.

Heroes:

my cats. whoever makes me laugh the hardest. danny boyle and jean-pierre jeunet, for making incredible films. actors and musicians who elicit a genuine emotional response from me.

My Blog

biolay in montreal

the lack of ability to use accents on a laptop keyboard aggravates me, but that is neither here nor there.on friday i came to montreal with greg for the weekend.  for him, it was a weekend away, ...
Posted by Tami on Sun, 03 Aug 2008 08:44:00 PST

paris, paris...

i wasn't entirely sure if i liked rome or paris better;  both are beautiful and unique...   but after a couple days in paris, there's little contest...  it helps to be able to muddle th...
Posted by Tami on Wed, 23 Apr 2008 06:30:00 PST

it’s official

i land in london on 16 april. from there, paris.  and then rome.  and then amsterdam (and a nick cave show!).   to say that i'm excited would be a vast understatement....
Posted by Tami on Fri, 29 Feb 2008 11:26:00 PST

the assassination of jesse james by the coward robert ford

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Posted by Tami on Tue, 19 Feb 2008 08:36:00 PST

hiding and waiting

not that my social life is tremendously bustling or anything, but:unless we're hanging out doing something free or relatively close to it, i'm not going to be around or available for the next few week...
Posted by Tami on Tue, 12 Feb 2008 05:18:00 PST

everyday normal guy rap song NSFW

..Everyday Normal Guy Rap Song on FunnyOrDie.com.....
Posted by Tami on Fri, 25 Jan 2008 05:44:00 PST

misanthropy

lately, i'm getting an overwhelming number of friend requests from:1.  webcam girls.  the hell?  i'm not your target market, ladies.2.  local male collectors of photos of women.&nb...
Posted by Tami on Sat, 19 Jan 2008 09:01:00 PST

fotos

will x-post to LJ.  i just emptied my phone's memory card of photos from the last year.  here's some random stuff, starting with snow pictures from today:me & nancy:julian:roo being a ha...
Posted by Tami on Mon, 14 Jan 2008 01:45:00 PST

zomg snoes

i know that by living in the area of the country i do, i should relinquish all rights to bitching about the weather...but it wouldn't bother me as much as it does if i didn't have to break my back sho...
Posted by Tami on Mon, 14 Jan 2008 11:03:00 PST

ohnoes.

no thanks to chris, i now have a serious consumer lust for the ps3, something i was avoiding even looking at too closely because i knew this would happen.dammit....
Posted by Tami on Mon, 07 Jan 2008 11:02:00 PST