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"HOW TO LOVE A BLACK MAN" The first thing you must understand. There`s no easy way to love a black man. You`ve got to figure him out. Learn what he`s about. And know he`s someone you can`t live without. Then kill him with kindness. Shower him with sweetness. But never let him mistake your kindness for weakness. It`s hard for him to give himself to you. So be appreciative of the little things he tries to do. Let him know he can confide in you. And in return he won`t have to hide things from you. So be supportive. Be his friend not his foe. When he makes mistakes don`t say I told you so. Be understanding not demanding. Let him unwind. He faces the world of rain. So be his sunshine. Don`t get too cozy in the comfort zone. He`ll take you for granted and you`ll end up alone. Keep love exciting and new. Go the extra mile. Keep finding new ways to make him smile. Remember to be y without a doubt. He wants to be proud when he takes you out. Don`t let yourself go. Don`t forget about you. Love yourself and he will love you too. Don`t smother the man let him breathe. The tighter you hold on the faster he will leave. And when you love him, Love him all the way down! Don`t be afraid to explore him pound for pound. If you don`t give him what he needs to feel, I guarantee that someone else will. Be honest, Be patient, and Demand Respect. And a wonderful man is what you will get. Show him your pride. Stand by his side. Let God be your guide and love will abide! Because no man is worth your tears and the only one that is, will never make you cry. But for love, he`s worth a try. This is true!! Try it