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About Me

Hello I am Bella. I am a 29 year old Mom. I am a PROUD Army Wife. We've only been married a short time but we feel like we have been soul mates since before we were born. His name is Rick. We each have two kids from our previous Marriages. Alex (21½) A Soldier himself, James (20½), Mackenzie (7½), and Skylar (5½). We live in Huntsville. As much as Georgia has a piece of my heart. I do like Alabama. I am Madly in love with my husband. He's currently serving out his last years in the United States Army. He's crazy enough to deal with Ammo all day so I will be crazy in love enough to marry him. My baby brought me to life like the song says. He didn't only bring me to life, He showed me how life could be lived. Amongst our 4 children, We have two cats Lightening and Tinker Bell and my Cockatiel Lily. No one else would claim her and she's been my feather baby for 4 years now. She knows mommy spoils her.

Since Moving to Alabama to spend the rest of our lives together. I have been introduced to Army Life. The Army Family. We are truly a family. Not everyone is the same and at some points there are "Family" members you just don't care for but when it boiled down to it, we have to support each other. Most of all Support our Troops. I "met" my husband through my blogging and then we kept in touch using myspace, I've met many wonderful Army Wives since moving here. One of them reached out to me on Myspace. We've became pretty close.

My husband's job is what he enjoys mostly. Its the only thing he has ever known till finding true love and parent hood. He's a GOOD soldier but its not who he is. He wears his uniform proudly, He hangs his flag with honor, He fights with Strength. But there is so much more to my husband, I am Blessed. I am a new Army Wife but have aquired alot of resources and made some close friendships. I am a Proud Army Wife and Step Mom! That's not me thats just part of my soul. I love to connect with my "Internet Friends", I love to play around with my Paint Shop Pro, Show my patriotic side (not just because of his job), Scrapbooking, Crafting and Card Creating. I stay quite busy! I have an intense love for my Husband, My Family, For God, Writing, Poetry, Reading, Movies and Music.


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? Hello I am Bella. I am a happily married woman. I am a new Army Wife but have aquired alot of resources and made some close friendships. I am a Proud Army Wife and Step Mom! That's not me thats just part of my soul. I love to connect with my "Internet Friends", I love to play around with my Paint Shop Pro, Show my patriotic side (not just because of his job), Scrapbooking, Crafting and Card Creating. I stay quite busy! I have an intense love for my Husband, My Family, For God, Writing, Poetry, Reading, Movies and Music.

I'd like to meet:



I would like to meet Military Wives in my area that don't gossip, lie, use each other, and are mature and can handle a deployment.
I have you have drama don't bring it here
Moms with Children. Fellow Military Wives. I would love to meet Military Wives in my area but if you have drama don't bring it here. People I knew in my past. New FRIENDS! Look the definition up in the dictonary Other Mommies, Anyone cool that is easy to talk to and understands me. Maybe reunite with some people I knew when I was growing up. My Mommies from my loops People who have touched my life from talking to ... Reunited with Family members Many more!
If you would like to be my friend. I will not be used. I am a giving person but I will not be used. I am not your toddler wrangler. I can handle my kids can you handle yours? Do you gossip? I don't want to hear it. Do you talk crap behind someone else's back after pretending to care? You should be bitch slapped into your place. Do you cheat on your husband or significant other while they are overseas. I don't want you in my life thats about the most dishonorable thing you can do. If you've been through several deployments and you still act like you need all the attention instead of showing us first timers how its done then take it else where. I am strong for my husband. I don't need your attitude to bring me down. If you like to party alot go out to clubs, drink alot or otherwise have tons of fun while your significant other is over seas don't bother being my friend I will be a party pooper. I love to have fun, with mature Military wives, especially those with kids, that won't end up talking behind my back and threatening me. If your mature and responsible looking for a friend :) I am a nice person. Don't ruin it for others.

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? My husband's job is what he enjoys mostly. Its the only thing he has ever known till finding true love and parent hood. He's a GOOD soldier but its not who he is. He wears his uniform proudly, He hangs his flag with honor, He fights with Strength. But there is so much more to my husband, I am Blessed.

Rick enjoys Sci-Fi, Reading, Movies, Music, history, traveling and being outdoors.


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Alexander ~ 21

♥ Rick's son from his first marriage. Although I am a proud step mom I have taken in the boys like they are my own and I have a unique relationship with both of them. Alex is surving in the United States Army He left for boot camp over a year ago and is surving his first tour in Korea by his choice. I tell him man I know you wanted to get away from home but isn't that a little much? LOL Alex enjoys Rock music, Johnny Cash, movies, and some books. He's a good Lutheran boy, with an outstanding Moral Compass. He is intellegent and learns langauges as a hobby.
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James ~ 20

♥ James is my stay at home kid. He works 20-40 hours at a resturant on post here. Rick's last son from his first marriage. James has had a job at the resturant where he works for nearly a year. Its his first job but its a good start and he is doing well there. James enjoys gaming and being on the internet. James is my good sweet yet akward kid, I understand him when its harder for others to do so though. He has times when he is a bit shy and he's very quiet. He is intellegent and artistic. He draws alot either using his computer tablet or pen to paper.
Mackenzie ~ 7

♥ Mackenzie is my first child from my first marriage. He lives with his grandmother in Georgia since his dad passed away. Mackenzie has always been an easy child to rear. He's laid back and pretty easy going. Mackenzie is in the second grade now.
Jeanette Skylar ~ 5

♥ People always ask me where is Skylar? She's not attached to your hip? When I am out and about. Yes Skylar is as close as I get to a little clone. She's always by my side. It will be a strange transition to enroll her into Kindergarten this spring. Skylar has been taking Ballet from the fall and she took Kindernastics last Spring. She loves both and is very good.. Skylar loves Hannah Montana, Her baby dolls, Making things for Daddy, Helping mom scrapbook, and her cat Tinkerbell who you will meet later. With Skylar having those older brothers she does enjoy her game time as well. She's starting to get better. Skylar's been working on learning her ABC's and 123's to prepare for Kindergarten. Her dance recital is in April so she's always practicing for that.
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.. Lightening~ 12

♥ Rick and his first wife got Lightening during their time in Germany. Lightening is our fur baby . She's a Big fur ball. She's a domestic tabby. Lightening is a moody cat that has an established dominance with the family. She's quickly became my lap buddy. I seem to be her favorite person currently at home. There are days when she misses Alex and Rick. Lightening definately deserves her name she can be the lazy Garfield type of cat but she can be quick to get out the door if your not being careful. I often tease her about being my Autistic Bi-polar cat that I love. She definately has special needs. You never know what her mood is. You never know if she's going to have a mood swing. She will shut down and get very agressive if there is too much going on.
Lily ~ 4

♥ Lily is my four year old feather baby. She's my pet definately. I recieved her as a gift several valentines ago from my ex. Lily is a gentle soul. Well trained Cockatiel. She never will draw blood unless she is hurt. Lily has made peace with the cats that terrorize her. Lily loves to be talked to and she's quiet unless she wants attention. She loves to warble her sweet music to her toys and talk to the free birds outside the window. Lily likes to be scratched like a cat and cuddle behind your neck when she is permitted. I think she likes Rick's ACU's because when they are hanging thats the first place she flies.
Tinker Bell ~ 1

♥ I didn't marry into a dog family. I married into a cat family. Skylar had to give up her puppy in order to move to Alabama. She recieved a cat instead. We recieved an email from Freecycle about free kittens so I went and picked her out. Tinker Bell and Skylar are a perfect fit. Skylar is Tink's person and everyone knows it. Skylar can hold her like a baby doll for hours but she won't even acknowledge anyone else in the house. Tink and Lightening rarely play. Lightening doesn't like strangers too much even if Tink has been here a year. Tink is being shown the dominance roll in the house. Tink likes to cuddle at night.

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Many love stories have uniqueness to them. Our's is definately that. Tell me if given the choice would you marry a friend or a stranger? I married my friend who quickly became my best friend. The world was so dark and cold and Rick brought sunshine into our world. Himself feeling lost in the darkness found sunshine in me. We originally "met" on my Yahoo 360 while he was stationed in Korea. Then we chatted more on myspace. Once he came to Alabama then finally we had a chance to hit it off. I was in a long emotionally draining relationship. I got out two weeks before Rick and I met in person. In true Bella logic of things we moved really fast and I moved to Alabama to be closer to him he tells me now he's not sure how we could have survived if I continued to live with my ex. I am glad we made the decisions we did. He's the one of the best things that has ever happened to me. We got married a few weeks after moving in together. It was a small wedding but a truly magical day. I am his Princess he is my Army Knight and My hero.

My Blog

Greys Looses a Star

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Posted by Rick & His Lady on Sat, 12 Jul 2008 02:37:00 PST

My Profile Song

Leona Lewis Bleeding LoveClosed off from love I didn't need the pain Once or twice was enough And it was all in vain Time starts to pass Before you know it you're frozen But something happened For the...
Posted by Rick & His Lady on Sun, 06 Jul 2008 09:31:00 PST

Dunkin

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Posted by Rick & His Lady on Tue, 01 Jul 2008 05:24:00 PST

Tags Depsy Wanted Me To Make

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Posted by Rick & His Lady on Fri, 27 Jun 2008 03:34:00 PST

Its that time of the Deployment

Well I have watched others go through it. Now I am at that stage of deployment where its wrapping up and little things seem to send me into a tail spin. I am sleeping less and less. I am bitchy... no...
Posted by Rick & His Lady on Thu, 26 Jun 2008 06:26:00 PST

Red Dye

I am not sure most of the people out there hear about the controversy over Red Dye 40 in our foods. The Princess in the family is a very active little girl. Mostly normal like most children. She's not...
Posted by Rick & His Lady on Tue, 24 Jun 2008 08:15:00 PST

Military Lifestyle

My husband has been a Soldier for over 20 years. I can't speak for him. Himself but during our conversations he has told me his favorite part of the Military Lifestyle is the ability to do the not so ...
Posted by Rick & His Lady on Mon, 23 Jun 2008 05:49:00 PST

101st Airborne Beer Cheese Soup

..TR> ..TR> 101st Airborne Beer Cheese Soup 1 large can chicken broth1 medium jar cheese whiz1 can stale beerCayenne pepper to taste Heat broth to boiling, reduce heat, add cheese whiz, stir till me...
Posted by Rick & His Lady on Sun, 22 Jun 2008 07:36:00 PST

Betty’s Myspace Layout Fixed

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Posted by Rick & His Lady on Sun, 22 Jun 2008 06:24:00 PST

ABC’s and 123’s!!!

Skylar sang me the Alphabet song for the first time today. She can almost count to ten by herself and She knows colors in spanish. GO SKYLAR!! I also got two of my teeth fixed this week and didn't cry...
Posted by Rick & His Lady on Sun, 22 Jun 2008 07:32:00 PST