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~Brenda~

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About Me


Create your own Friend Quiz here I am 43 years old, married to the love of my life for 18 years and have 3 beautiful children (18, 14 & 12). We are a Navy family recently retired in Illinois.
I am a Christian and try to live my life doing what I think will honor Him. I have dedicated my life to fully relying on Him and try to remember everyday that having faith means depending upon God, not myself.
I have been a Girl Scout leader for 12 years and have loved every (well almost every) moment of it. I homeschooled my son for 2 years -- boy was that a wild ride!! But now the two little (okay, not so little anymore :::sob::::) ones are in the evil school system (he's in private and she's in public)and so far they're really enjoying it! My eldest is in college. (Am I *really that old?? =:-O) I'm pretty busy. But I'm not sure I'd know how to function any other way.
I have been truly blessed with a wonderful, loving family and great, supportive friends all who have helped me get to where I am today. I have reached a point in my life where I really like who I am. I admit I'm a bit of a drama queen (okay maybe more than just a bit), but I guess that's okay since I'm also the mom of a Drama Queen and Drama King. LOL
EIGHT THINGS GOD WON'T ASK
1... God won't ask what kind of car you drove. He'll ask how many people you drove who didn't have transportation.
2... God won't ask the square footage of your house, He'll ask how many people you welcomed into your home.
3... God won't ask about the clothes you had in your closet. He'll ask how many you helped to clothe.
4... God won't ask what your highest salary was. He'll ask if you compromised your character to obtain it.
5... God won't ask what your job title was. He'll ask if you performed your job to the best of your ability.
6... God won't ask how many friends you had. He'll ask how many people to whom you were a friend.
7. God won't ask in what neighborhood you lived. He'll ask how you treated your neighbors.
8... God won't ask about the color of your skin. He'll ask about the content of your character.
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My Interests

Scrapbooking, reading, Girl Scouts, and taking pictures.
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I'd like to meet:

Other than the usual suspects -- Jesus Christ, Martin Luther King, Jr., etc, the person I'd most like to meet is my maternal Grandmother. I actually did meet her, but she died when I was almost 3 years old and my only memory of her is of her on her deathbed in the hospital. I'd love to meet her and get to know her.

Music:

I like all kinds of music. I don't like country very much, but it's what I grew up with and so sometimes I find myself listening to it and getting nostalgic. I'm not real fond of rap, but since it plays in the house a lot, I find myself listening to it a lot more than I ever thought I would.

Movies:

My favorite movies are Full Monty and 2nd Hand Lions. I love movies that make me laugh.

Television:

I watch mostly reality TV - Amazing Race, American Idol, Survivor, So You Think You Can Dance and What Not to Wear. I am hooked on watching House, Bones and Deal or No Deal. My all-time favorite shows were Quantum Leap and The Pretender.

Books:

Right now I'm hooked on reading Diana Gabaldon. Some of my other favorite authors include James Patterson, Janet Evanovich and Nora Roberts. Really, I'll read just about anything except Science Fiction.

Heroes:

Right now, my biggest hero is my son. He's been through soooo much in the past year and he has never let it affect his sense of humor. He can laugh and make others laugh and I think that is so important. He has affected my life in so many ways and I'm proud that I'm his Mom. :-)

My Blog

My Life

As I was thinking, praying, pondering last night, some clarity came to me.  It wasn't quite like lightning striking, but it was pretty close.  I began to realize a lot of things.  I wok...
Posted by ~Brenda~ on Thu, 11 Oct 2007 09:44:00 PST

Where Does The Time Go?

Where in the world did the time go??  I'd really like to know!  My eldest woke up today a whole year older.  She is now 19 years old.  Is that possible??  Is it possible that ...
Posted by ~Brenda~ on Sun, 07 Oct 2007 02:13:00 PST

Maybe

Somebody sent this to me and I really liked it.  Goes with the sappy mood I'm in, I guess.   I thought I'd post it here rather than bugging people in email with it.  LOL Maybe........
Posted by ~Brenda~ on Wed, 12 Sep 2007 09:37:00 PST

Rain, Rain Go Away

I don't mind the rain so much, really.  And not even the storms (although they can get kinda loud).  But the flooding is getting to be a bit much.  I thought I'd escaped it though. ...
Posted by ~Brenda~ on Fri, 24 Aug 2007 08:46:00 PST

I just don't understand people sometimes

I go to this website sometimes and I joined a group where we do swaps.  You get partnered up with somebody else and you send them a package and they send you a package.  Actually, I joined s...
Posted by ~Brenda~ on Mon, 30 Jul 2007 07:20:00 PST

Yay!!

My boy returns today!!!!  His flight comes in at 1:40 today!!  WAHOO!!  I can't wait to see him!  It's been a loooooooong 10 days!!  ...
Posted by ~Brenda~ on Mon, 30 Jul 2007 07:03:00 PST

Fun Day Today

Chelsea went down to the basement to get a pizza and came running upstairs to tell me that 1. the light had burned out, so it was dark down there and 2. there was a bird down there and it was flying a...
Posted by ~Brenda~ on Sat, 02 Jun 2007 03:50:00 PST

I am Not Quite Sure

I am not quite sure how in the world I got to this point in my life, but today marks the last non-teenage birthday of my youngest child.   Yes, my BABY is now 12.  I am officially old. ...
Posted by ~Brenda~ on Fri, 30 Mar 2007 08:06:00 PST

Gee Your Hair Smells...

Like chocolate?!  Well yes.  yes it does.  thankyouverymuch.  One of my favorite smells in the world is lavendar.  The kids know this, so Carson went to Bath and Body Works t...
Posted by ~Brenda~ on Sat, 20 Jan 2007 08:32:00 PST

::::sob::::

It's reallllllly white outside.  It's been snowing since yesterday at about 8 PM (it 11 AM) and it doesn't look like it's gonna stop anytime soon.  ::::sob:::  Somebody make it stop ple...
Posted by ~Brenda~ on Fri, 01 Dec 2006 09:15:00 PST