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little boxes on the hillside

Lucy Lui makes me feel good about my freckles.

About Me


Home | Mail | Friends Generator | privatepyro.com | Skem9 | BBZSpace | Red Dragon Designs | Bella's Dark GraphicsOriginally from Ohio, I moved from Dallas to the SoCal area summer 04 to redirect my life academically and professionally. After 12 years in the medical field (that started with a 2 year stint in the USAF and getting kicked out for being gay), I am back in school full time to pursue a law degree. I loved my operating room job (I was on the pediatric congenital heart team), but contrary to popular belief, not all Asians are naturals at math. I can do it on the job like it's nothing ( drug calcs, drip rates, etc.), but if you stick me in a classroom (where it counts first) talking about trains heading in different directions at x speed and y speed, I freeze up. I figure if I am going to spend 6-8 years in school and a buttload of money, I might as well make it toward something that comes a little easier. My strength is in writing (don't judge it by my postings on this site) and analysis. I love rhetorical analysis; I'm a collegiate debater. Combine that with a love of social/political issues, and law is a natural fit.On the more private side, I am well aware of my strengths and weaknesses, as well as the dark and light sides of my personality. I have a dry, sarcastic, and INAPPROPRIATE (Don't think that because I am a flirt that I "want" you.) sense of humor, and I love the edgy side of me that defies the typical Asian female stereotypes (Due to being adopted??) I am a strong personality, assertive, but sometimes called bitchy and confrontational. (However, I only bare the fangs when necessary.) I am steadfastly loyal to my friends, and a type A person, with a propensity towards realism, often mistaken for pessimism. I guess that's it. That's me.Anything more....write me and ask. ; ) Get Your Own! | View Slideshow

My Interests

Reading, the Arts (museums, symphonies, jazz, opera etc.) educated discourse, my bicycles (road and mtb), running, working out, my motorcycle, speech and debate competition, music (I was a drummer/percussionist-my first major, long long ago, and have also made attempts at being a cellist, violinist, pianist, and guitarist, all in vain) I love movies (indie/ as well as popcorn). Dark gothic art. I'm sure there is more. I am just not thinking about it at the moment. ** Update** Rockclimbing has been added to the list!!! LOVE IT!!!

I'd like to meet:

FIRST: If you are thinking about contacting me because you want to just hook up and are not interested in anything else, DON'T BOTHER. This goes for people who may even just want to think about hooking up. SECOND: If you are younger than 21, and I have not had some sort of previous contact with you either through work or school, I will not approve a friend request. (the exceptions are you're in forensics, road bike racing, or attend the one of the Claremont Colleges) I am not going to add people just for the sake of having a large group of "friends". If I have not met you in some way before, or we do not have a mutual friend in common, DO NOT REQUEST AN ADD, especially if you have nothing of true substance about yourself on your profile. That being said, I am looking for people who are tired of listening to narrow-minded uninformed people rattle off what everyone around them is saying. I'm impressed by people who think on their own, even if it is contrary to my own beliefs. As long as you have done the research to back up your thoughts and beliefs, I can respect that. Otherwise, if you are just spouting off what "joe blow" down the street or in the next cube is ranting about....please put a cork in it. My reading habits tend to lean toward social/political/psychological non-fiction. So I guess people who share the same interests are who I am looking for.

Music:

Very eclectic...but mostly stuff like Angels and Airwaves, Radiohead, Keane, Ani, Tori, Howie Day, Butterfly Boucher, Sarah McLachlan, Alanis, Madonna, Johnny Cash, Evanesence, Bush, old No Doubt, Nine Inch Nails, Live, Bjork, Linkin Park. I LOVE soundtrack music...Kill Bill Vol. 1 is a fave, as well as Pieces of April. I also like sappy love songs and stuff from the 70's & 80's. *Jazz (love me some Ella!),opera (Puccini), and classical (I love the darker sounding pieces, Shostakovich no.5) are also in my cd/iPod collection as well. Of course, spending 13 years in Dallas got me in touch with my "country" side as well. So there is a LITTLE of that in the mix too. I like to work out to stuff like Fatboy Slim, Chemical Brothers, Massive Attack, Portishead...as well as more alternative high energy stuff. I could live without the television, but don't take away my music.

Movies:

I like all kinds of movies...Shopgirl, Good Night and Good Luck, Crash, Born into Brothels, Moulin Rouge, Gone With the Wind, Pieces of April, Love Actually, Goonies, the Wallace and Grommit movies, We Don't Live Here Anymore, Dogma, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, the Station Agent, the Virgin Suicides, and Closer are favorites. Regarding Star Wars...films III-VI were my favorites. God, I hate 1&2 even though I love Natalie Portman. On that note, I also love Nicole Kidman, Angelina Jolie, and Naomi Watts. For fun, I like vampire movies, but I don't have any favorites. (Vampires are just hot! Kate B. in Underworld! Underworld 2 sucked though.) Of the popcorn variety, I like thrillers, and the movies that are so dumb/funny they make me snort laughing.

Television:

I like the educational stuff. My addictions, however, are the L Word, Gray's Anatomy, Weeds, and The Office.

Books:

Currently reading Sleeping with the Devil by ex CIA op Robert Baer, and Leap of Faith by Queen Noor. Also, I want to finish the 9/11 Commission Report which was a Valentines Day present from my girl a year or so ago, not romantic to most but it was to me! (yes, I'm a geek, or so I have been told) Another book I consider a fun read, that I need to finish once summer rolls around is an analysis of the Bill of Rights. (yes, I said fun.) My favorite fiction books are Lolita, Farenheit 451, To Kill a Mockingbird, Brave New World, Count of Monte Cristo, various Anne Rice novels, David Sedaris' work, and the Romona Quimby and Judy Bloom books from my childhood. What I mostly read, for fun, is non-fiction, a lot of politics, social issues, etc. No favorites there. I've recently discovered that I enjoy books written by African American female writers like Alice Walker, Zora Neale Hurtston, and Toni Morrison.

Heroes:

Margaret Cho for her activism and refusal to fit into the box of what an Asian woman should be and Angelina Jolie, A sexy, edgy, humanitarian mother who loves good sex (Cause we all know, the sex REALLY does matter. You're kidding youself if you say it doesn't).

My Blog

More wasted federal dollars....

OK, I should be studying for my midterm, but I ran across this today. I cannot believe the morons in the current administration and Congress are doing this shit!!!! (Actually, I can, and that is what...
Posted by nothing witty today... on Wed, 01 Nov 2006 07:50:00 PST

No more glasses (aka I went the LASIK route)

So after years of contemplation, and wondering during my preop exam why everyone in my optometrist's office wore glasses, I went through with LASIK. I have to say that it is pretty amazing. Even if ...
Posted by nothing witty today... on Tue, 10 Oct 2006 11:13:00 PST

divorce update

OK, so really, there isn't an update. I sent Kim an email telling her that we really needed to cut the legal (but not) tie. I said I couldn't move on completely with that piece of paper looming over...
Posted by nothing witty today... on Tue, 10 Oct 2006 11:04:00 PST

restless...

I am tired, but for some reason I have been staying up late these last few days. I'm not sure if it has to do with Chris being gone, or what. I'm lonely, bored, and a bit concerned about "things" in...
Posted by nothing witty today... on Wed, 09 Aug 2006 12:59:00 PST

D-I-V-O-R-C-E

Well, the time has come...for those unaware, I am still bound to my ex who left me a few years back. We had a civil union in Vermont after spending several years together. We were seen as a "model c...
Posted by nothing witty today... on Sat, 10 Jun 2006 09:16:00 PST

If you want to add me as a friend, you had better read this!

Well, I had added a while back in my "who I'd like to meet" segment that I didn't want people requesting an add if I didn't already know them in some capacity, or if we didn't have certain things in c...
Posted by nothing witty today... on Mon, 15 May 2006 11:25:00 PST

Why I love the Chicks...no not a lesbian thing...a music thing.

The Dixie Chicks have a new album coming out, and I just caught the video on VH1. Good for them for using a producer from the rock/rap side of the music house. It looks like they are still upset abo...
Posted by nothing witty today... on Fri, 21 Apr 2006 11:04:00 PST

Can I live life boozed up all the time???

Well, I still have this awful cough, and I begun applying a remedy that my father used when I was little...alcohol. (I am still taking the cough suppressants, but they seem to no longer be working.) ...
Posted by nothing witty today... on Sun, 02 Apr 2006 09:18:00 PST

Go away!

Ok, so I caught a nasty bug the last couple days of the State tournament, and I still have it! In fact, it has gotten worse over the last couple days. Unfortunately, we have tickets to see Margaret C...
Posted by nothing witty today... on Thu, 30 Mar 2006 10:05:00 PST

ha ha

I have a neighbor who looks like a slightly taller version of an Oompa Loompa, the 2005 version. How did I not notice this sooner?
Posted by nothing witty today... on Mon, 19 Dec 2005 10:06:00 PST