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ShaRita

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About Me

*The "New & Improved" Ultimate About Me Survey*:
The Basic Stuff!
First Name? ShaRita
Date of Birth? October 29th
Birthplace? Richmond, VA
Current Location? Richmond, VA
Eye Color? Dark Brown
Hair Color? Originally Dark Brown
Height? 5'6''
Weight? Nunyah!!!!
Shoe Size? 8
Ring Size? 7, I think!
Siblings? I'm an only child!
Ethnicity? 100% Black & lovin' it!
Piercings? 6... 3 in each ear!
Tattoos? 1
Your Favorites!
Singer(s)/Group(s)? Oh my! Let me see... I love Monica! Tyrese... he could sing me 2 sleep on any given night! & SWV and Jodeci as far as groups! I mess w/ dem Jagged boys 2!
Song(s)? I can't narrow it down 2 just 1!
Summer Jam? My all-time favorite joint... "Summertime" by DJ Jazzy Jeff & The Fresh Prince! I love that song! It depicts every single detail of summer fun! From the guys goin' 2 cop a fresh pair of sneaks, eventhough they just bought a new pair, 2 show off @ the B-Ball court 4 the ladies, 2 them ridin' 2 miles an hour so that everyone sees their newly washed and waxed car when they arrive @ the barbecue that started @ 4... The song is the truth, even 2 this day! Hands down!!!!
Movie? Brown Sugar
Disney Movie? Beauty & The Beast
T.V. Show? The Cosby Show and A Different World
Color? Purple
Food? Soul Food
Pizza Topping? Sausage
Ice Cream Flavor? Cookies 'N Cream
Alcoholic Beverage? Strawberry Margarita
Soda/Juice? Apple Juice
Store? Wal-Mart
Clothing Brand? Lane Bryant, Ashley Stewart... Anything that fits my taste!
Shoe Brand? Nike, K-Swiss, New Balance, Liz Claiborne, Kenneth Cole, Anne Klein, Nine West, Guess, Payless, Isaac Mizrahi, Merona and Mossimo for Target! Again, anything that fits my taste!
Hair Style? The Doobey Wrap!
Season? Spring! It's not 2 hot, and it's not 2 cold!
Month? The Spring months... From the end of March 2 the end of June! And October... my B-Day month!
Holiday/Festival? Easter, Thanksgiving and Christmas/2nd Street Festival
Flower? I love Roses and Tulips!
Make-Up Item? I can't leave home w/o my lipgloss!
Board Game? I don't have 1!
This or That?
Sunshine Or Rain? Sunny, all day everyday!
Chocolate Or Vanilla? Once again... Cookies 'N Cream!
Fruit Or Veggie? Strawberries
Night Or Day? Day
Sour Or Sweet? Sweet
Night Gown Or PJ's? On a regular night I'll rock a v-neck or tank top w/ a pair of boy shorts... And for those special occasions... LOL!
Slippers Or Footies? It depends on which is more comfy!
Sexy Stilettos Or Cute Sneakers? I'll rock a cute pair of sneakers on any day, but if I'm tryna get my "sexy" on...
Love Or Money? Both... if it's possible. But if not... love.
Phone Or In Person? It depends on the situation!
Looks Or Personality? Personality
Top Or Bottom? It doesn't matter!!!!
Music Or No Music? It doesn't matter!!!!
Kiss Or Hug? Hug
Coffee Or Tea? Hot Chocolate w/ a scoop of Vanilla ice cream!
Hot Or Cold? Nice and cool!
Your...
Goal For This Year? I'm just gon' say that I have a lot of goals! And in pursuit of those goals, I pray 2 become a better person!
Most Missed Memory? There are so many...
Best Physical Feature? My smile!
First Thought Waking Up? I need 10 more minutes!
Hypothetical Personality Disorder? Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD)
Preferred Type of Plastic Surgery? I can do w/o it!
Sesame Street Alter Ego? Cookie Monster's Girl
Fairytale Alter Ego? Someone between Cinderella, Shrek's Wifey and Belle from Beauty & The Beast!
Perfect Day/Night? Words/phrases in random order to describe that day/night... Lounging @ home, bubble bath, candles, strawberries, soft R&B/Jazz music playing in the background, my Pookie, pedicure and manicure, a novel by Eric Jerome Dickey, Boris Kodjoe, Larenz Tate and Taye Diggs in Brown Sugar & Love Jones, strawberries, sweet smelling oils to moisturize my beautiful body, Cookies 'N Cream, "Sexual Healing", I hear you Marvin, lavender colored silk pajamas, satin scarf, fuzzy slippers, cell/home phone ringers OFF, strawberries dipped in whipped cream, doggystyle, I saw I had missed his call when I reached to silence my phone, "Damn!", hot massage oils, "I gotta hit him back", hot & fabulous sex, sex toys, his video camera, kinky, bite marks, talk dirty, raunchy, Scorpio, scratches, passion fruits, Thug Love, in front of the mirror, don't stop, moans, candles, rose petals, taste my sweet juices, deep moans, smacking, grabbing, pulling, licking of the toes, tongue flicking, "Signs of Love Making", shout out 2 Black Ty, red Prada pumps waving in the air, sex me, go deeper, '69 was a very good year, love like honey, sweet tooth, temperature's rising, body's yearning, bed squeaking, lights down low, take it nice and slow, kisses, between my lips and your's, love handles, best of me, all of me, my love, keep it right there, tears, laughter, a seductive look that says it all, my "G" spot, he said... "Tell Daddy how you want it.", tease before you please, fulfill my fantasies, "It Seems Like U're Ready," my boy Kells, turn ya out, up against the wall, pace car then a race car, 4play, "Hurt me so good, Daddy," She got the kinda cut... she got a grip... she knows how to groove... Ain't nobody betta, spend the night, sleep, watch me sleep, good sleep, strawberries, breakfast in the morning, in bed, orange juice, candles half burnt, blueberry pancakes, kisses, I know not because he says so, but because his actions say so... "He Loves Me," Jill Scott...
Most Stupid Remark? I can't remember! Or maybe I just don't want 2!
Worst Crime? Speedin' on the highway!
Greatest Ambition? 2 be a great mother!
Greatest Fear? Gettin' pooped on by a bird!
Darkest Secret? I don't have any secrets... that I would like 2 share! LOL!
Favorite Subject? English
Strangest Gift Received? A pillow!
Worst Habit? Cursin'!
Do You?
Smoke? No!
Drink? On special occasions!
Curse? All the time! I'm tryna stop! NOT!!!!
Shower Daily? Uhh, yeah!
Like Thunderstorms? No!
Dance In The Rain? I have!
Sing? I sure do! I'm not good @ it, but I do what I do!
Play An Instrument? Nope!
Wear Perfume? I do... but not as much as body mists and splashes!
Get Along With Your Parents? We bump heads, but that's expected! But, yeah, no doubt!
Wish on Stars? I used 2!
Believe In Fate? Yes!
Believe In Yourself? Of course!
Believe In Love At First Sight? When it comes 2 handbags and shoes, yes! But not w/ the opposite sex!
Can You?
Drive? Yeah!
Sew? A lil' bit!
Cook? I do a lil' sumthin'!
Speak Another Language? Not fluently!
Dance? Yeah, I do a little 2-steppin' from time to time!
Touch Your Nose With Your Tongue? Umm... no!
Whistle? A lil' bit!
Curl Your Tongue? Yeah!
Have You Ever?
Been Drunk? Hell yeah!
Been Stoned/High? Naw!
Eaten Sushi? No! But I like oysters!
Been In Love? Yes!
Skipped School? Yup!
Made Prank Calls? Who hasn't?!
Sent Someone A Love Letter? Yes!
Stolen Something? Not that I can recall!
Cried Yourself To Sleep? Yeah!
Random Questions!!!!
What annoys you most in a person? Selfishness!!!!
Are you right or left handed? Right
What is your bedtime? If I have 2 work the next morning, it'll be by 11! If I don't, it's wheneva!
What CD's are in your deck right now? Tank/Sex, Love & Pain, Monica/The Makings of Me, Fergie/...as The Dutchess, Sean Paul/Dutty Rock, Alicia Keys/The Diary of... and Mariah Carey/#1's!
Is your BFF male or female? Female
Name three things you can't live without! Chewing gum (Extra; Peppermint Flavor), my cell phone and a picture of my Mom! I love u 2, Daddy! LOL!
What is the color of your bedroom? It's a mixture of natural tones!
Do you have any pets? Nope! But I would love 2 have a Shar Pei!
Would you kill someone you hate for a million dollars? No!!!!
Have you gotten into a fist fight w/ another chick lately? NO! I don't have time 4 that BULLSHIT!
People say you resemble... Other than my Mom... I have had people say I favor Jill Scott!
Do you think you are attractive? I know I am!
You feel sexiest in (a)red-carpet gown; (b)sundress; (c)jeans and a t-shirt or (d)nothing @ all? I'm gonna go w/ (c)!
You are friskiest in... the morning, the afternoon or the middle of the night? Late @ night...
What shoes did you wear today? Gold (Ballerina) Flats
What country would you like to visit? Africa
What are your nicknames? Don't have any!
Do you have a crush on anyone? Naw!
Do you want to get married? Yeah!
Do you want kids? If so, how many? Yup! 2!
Are you afraid of the dark? No!
How do you want to die? Peacefully!
What is the largest amount of popsicles you have eaten in one day? I don't know!
Would you take a bullet for the one you love? No question!
What is the last law you’ve broken? The speed limit on Interstate 95 is 55/60... you know the rest!
Words to live by? "Live, Laugh & Love!"
What do you want people to know about you? I'm in a place right now where I'm finally putting my hurts and disappointments behind me. I'm learning 2 4give... I'm not gon' say 4get, because I truly don't want 2 4get anything I've been thru. Why? Because if I 4get, I wouldn't be reminded of the things that helped me become this strong person I claim 2 be, 2day and 2morrow. I love myself! But as of right now, I'm fallin' in love with myself! I'm growing up. I'm becoming the woman I want 2 be. I'm living my life 4 me! I'm chasing my dreams. I'm out of breath, but I'm good! I no longer give a fuck about what people think of me. Actually, I've always carried it that way, but never this fiercely! I'm me, all day, everyday! Take me 4 who I am or leave me the fuck alone. Simple as that! And 2 all the haters, hate on! Because your criticism only has the effect of pushing me 2 do bigger and better... Smooches!!!!
In a Member of the Opposite Sex...
Hair Color? Doesn't matter!
Eye Color? Doesn't matter!
Height? Taller than myself!
Weight? Not too scrawny, not too thick!
Most Important Physical Feature? Inside: His heart! Outside: His lips!!!!
Humorous? No doubt! He has 2 be able to make me laugh!
Blue Or White Collar? It doesn't matter!
Biggest Turn-On? OMG... I love it when a man smells nice! He could be the "Not-So-Cute" guy in the room, but if he smells good, he's definitely gonna get some Cool Points!
Biggest Turn-Off? I have 2 biggest turn-offs! 1.) Lying!!!! and 2.) Pretending 2 be something or someone he's not. Just be yourself!
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My Interests

Goin' shoppin'! Especially 4 handbags! I have a fetish 4 'em! It's scary! Chillin' w/ family and friends! Readin' juicy, ghetto-ass romance novels, poetry and Vibe Vixen, my fav' magazine! I am n2 this magazine like no other! Goin' 2 the movies! My most favorite movies are Love Jones, Brown Sugar, The Wood and Love and B-Ball! Listenin' 2 music! No matter what mood I'm in music just takes me higher! Writin'! Whether I'm gettin' my creativity on or just scribblin' my name down on a newspaper clippin'... Watchin' TV... Oprah, America's Next Top Model, The Style Network, Girlfriends, The Sopranos and The Animal and Discovery Channels. I watch throwbacks 2... 2-2-7, The Cosby Show, A Different World, Living Single, Martin, and The Fresh Prince! Sleepin'! I love 2 sleep! Eatin'! I love 2 eat! Laughin'! I love 2 laugh! Talkin' on the phone! Stimulatin' conversation is always good! Goin' 2 the park! I enjoy the park scenery! Goin' 2 cookouts/barbecues/family functions/house parties! I go 2 the club a few times a year. And even then, my homegirls are draggin' me out! I'm not a "clubber!" Meetin' new people and just point-blank havin' fun, stayin' DRAMA-FREE and tryna live everyday like it's my last. Ya dig?

I'd like to meet:

All types of interesting & good-hearted people!!!!

Music:

R/B, my favorite genre of music! Soul, Blues, Gospel, Hip-Hop, Neo-Soul, Some Jazz, Some Reggae/Reggaeton. Basically, I like any music that can get me motivated 2 do whatever! I don't discriminate!

Movies:

Drama, Action, Comedy, Romance, Classics, Animation, and Romantic Comedy.

Television:

I watch the news, you know, I gotta keep up w/ what's goin' on around me, umm, BET, MTV, VH1 or any other station that has somethin' 2 do w/ music... Umm, The CW, the network that was UPN, HBO, TNT, Bravo, Comedy Central, The Discovery Channels, TLC, The Disney Channel, gotta get my cartoons in... AMC, this channel shows some old, yet interestin' flicks! Umm, Oxygen and Lifetime, of course! The Food Network and my homey, G. Garvin! I wonder why he's not on The Food Network? Hmmm... The Style Network, E! and T.V. One!

Books:

Books By: Eric Jerome Dickey, my most favorite male author! Omar Tyree, Michael Baisden, Dwayne S. Joseph, Brenda Jackson, Nikki Turner, and La Jill Hunt. I can't leave my girl Zane out! Her books are very educational! LOL! Just 2 name a few that are on my book shelf... My Bible, "The Coldest Winter Ever" by Sister Souljah, "Genevieve" by Eric Jerome Dickey, "Flyy Girl" by Omar Tyree, "Tears for Water: Songbook of Poems and Lyrics" by Alicia Keys and "The Rose That Grew From Concrete: Book of Poems" by TuPac! Oh... "Fabulosity" by Kimora Lee Simmons, a must-have!

Heroes:

My Mother! Without her unconditional love and support... I don't know where I'd be!

My Blog

You Are My Favorite Song!

  "Your Love Is Sweet Music"   Lookin' @ u is like hearin' the 1st few notes of a classic R&B jam-- I know it by heart, but I can't help lovin' it all over again...   So if u catch ...
Posted by ShaRita on Fri, 03 Aug 2007 05:06:00 PST

"I'm A Woman, Phenomenally. Phenomenal Woman, That's Me!"

"Phenomenal Woman" By: Maya Angelou   Pretty women wonder where my secret lies. I'm not cute or built to suit a fashion model's size... But when I start to tell them, They think I'm telling lies....
Posted by ShaRita on Tue, 24 Jul 2007 04:18:00 PST