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a1delight

Just A Plain Delight

About Me

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HotFreeLayouts Hello, I'm a very down to earth lady that believes in treating others the way that I want to be treated. I'am very calm, cool, and collected.....DRAMA FREE!! My personality is that of an Idealist,which means that I'am very caring, honest,loyal, passionate in what I believe in and I seek true meaningful relationships. I enjoy movies,plays,concerts, traveling ,shopping,walks in the park and cooking. What I'am looking for is a man that first LOVES GOD..... can appreciate a LADY, not just a WOMAN. One that is honest, loyal, dedicated, driven by the HOLY SPIRIT. I'am seeking friendship first, because I need for my soul-mate to be my best friend, someone that I can talk to, laugh with, shop with and then hopefully that can develop into something more. So if this is of any interest to you....then please feel free to make me know it. Have a Blessed Day.

My Interests

Shopping, Reading, Traveling, Meeting new people, and listening to music.

I'd like to meet:

People that love and serve the Lord with every fiber of their being.......so if u just got that going forself then u r all right with me.In a brief conversation, a man asked a woman he was pursuing the question "What kind of man are you looking for?" She sat quietly for a moment before looking him in the eye and asked "Do you really want to know?" Reluctantly, he said "Yes."She began to expound..."As a woman in this day and age, I am in a position to ask a man what he can do for me that I can't do for myself. I pay my own bills. I take care of my household without the help of any man...or woman for that matter. I am in the position to ask, "What can you bring to the table?"The man looked at her. Clearly he thought that she was referring to money. She quickly corrected his thought and stated, "I am not referring to money. "I need something more. I need a man who is striving for perfection in every aspect of life."He sat back in his chair, folded his arms, and asked her to explain.She said "I am looking for someone who is striving for perfection mentally because I need conversation and mental stimulation. I don't need a simple-minded man.I am looking for someone who is striving for perfection spiritually because I don't need to be unequally yoked... believers mixed with unbelievers is a recipe for disaster. And even if he is a believer; he needs to believe as I do.I need a man who is striving for perfection financially because I don't need a financial burden.I am looking for someone who is sensitive enough to understand what I go through as a woman, and strong enough to keep me grounded when I do go through changes. I don't need a man who is going to purposely bring me grief.I am looking for someone who I can respect. In order to be submissive, I must respect him and he must respect me. I cannot be submissive to a man who isn't taking care of his business or who is "messy" in his personal affairs. I have no problem being submissive...but he has to be worthy.God made woman to be a help mate for man. I can't help a man if he can't help himself. If he can't help himself then he definitely can't help me.When she finished her spiel, she looked at him.He sat with a puzzled look on his face and said, "You are asking a lot.""She replied, "Because I'm worth a lot."Send this to every woman you know who's worth a lot. You never know she may be suffering from low-self esteem and may not know her worth.And send this to every man who needs to know this and ask him "What can YOU bring to the table?"

Music:

Gospel, R&B, Hip Hop, Jazz

Movies:

Scarface, Ghost, Blow, Belly, Color Purple, and Holiday's Heart

Television:

Grey's Anatomy, Lost, Ugly Betty, and America's Most Wanted

Books:

The Bible,The Threshing Floor by Jaunita Bynum, One Day My Soul Just Opened Up by Iyanla Vanzant, In The Meantime by Iyanla Vanzant, G-Spot by Nore

Heroes:

Jesus Christ,my Grandma, mother, and father

My Blog

Not my will.......but God's

What a week.....It's funny how things can change in a matter of days. This time last week I was on top of my game. Great job....cool relationships.....and anoited. This week things r truly different. ...
Posted by a1delight on Fri, 16 Mar 2007 09:38:00 PST