Resse

I'd like to meet:

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.%Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.%D%AThe only person you can control in a relationship is you. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, Why would he treat you any differently? Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god! He is a man, nothing more nothing less. Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else's man. Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs. You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street. You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage...deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary. Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right. Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and your always readily available to him- he takes it for granted. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others. BY THE WAY, THIS WAS WRITTEN BY A MAN, SO TAKE A HINT..............
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TELL ME ABOUT YOURSELF - The Survey
Name: Resse Cup
Birthday: Aug 26, 1984
Birthplace: chicago
Current Location: at work
Eye Color: brown
Hair Color: brown/red
Height: 5'6
Right Handed or Left Handed: to the left to the left
Your Heritage: African American
The Shoes You Wore Today: k-swiss
Your Weakness: money
Your Perfect Pizza: cheese
Goal You Would Like To Achieve This Year: make more money
Your Most Overused Phrase On an instant messenger: LOL
Thoughts First Waking Up: damn!!! I don't want to get up
Your Best Physical Feature: my eyes, but if you think other wise let me know
Your Bedtime: whenever
Your Most Missed Memory: My brother (RIP)
Pepsi or Coke: Pepsi
MacDonalds or Burger King: Burger King
Single or Group Dates: either one it don't matter
Lipton Ice Tea or Nestea: Ugh!!! Neither
Chocolate or Vanilla: Vanilla
Cappuccino or Coffee: coffee
Do you Smoke: ummmmm.....
Do you Swear: yes
Do you Sing: all the time drives people crazy
Do you Shower Daily: Yes, twice a day maybe more depending on the activites
Have you Been in Love: Unfortunately
Do you want to go to College: currently attending
Do you want to get Married: not really
Do you belive in yourself: if i don't who will
Do you get Motion Sickness: sometimes
Do you think you are Attractive: look at me do i need to answer that
Are you a Health Freak: Yes, me and my doctors are best friends
Do you get along with your Parents: yes
Do you like Thunderstorms: NO!!!...need someone to hold me
Do you play an Instrument: no
In the past month have you Drank Alcohol: YES!!!
In the past month have you Smoked: ummmm.....
In the past month have you been on Drugs: NO!!!
In the past month have you gone on a Date: yes
In the past month have you gone to a Mall:
In the past month have you eaten a box of Oreos: ugh
In the past month have you eaten Sushi: no
In the past month have you been on Stage: yes....wouldn't you like to know what kind of stage
In the past month have you been Dumped: no
In the past month have you gone Skinny Dipping: no
In the past month have you Stolen Anything: no
Ever been Drunk: yes
Ever been called a Tease: yes all the time
Ever been Beaten up: No...I may look sweet
Ever Shoplifted: no
How do you want to Die: who wants to die???
What do you want to be when you Grow Up: Moneymaker
What country would you most like to Visit: Italy
In a Boy/Girl..
Favourite Eye Color: hazel
Favourite Hair Color: don't matter
Short or Long Hair: long
Height: taller than me (I'm 5'6)
Weight: don't matter as long as you're not too small or not too big
Best Clothing Style: SEXY...something tight and tempting
Number of Drugs I have taken: none
Number of CDs I own: i don't know
Number of Piercings: 2... for now
Number of Tattoos: 1
Number of things in my Past I Regret: lost count

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