Traveling, eating good food, drinking good beer and good enough wine, listening to good music -- recorded or live and in person, having meaningful conversations with good friends, collecting clothes, necklaces, and shoes, living in sin.
I'm pretty much just here for existing friends and people I've met in real life.
Wilco (and Uncle Tupelo and Golden Smog and Loose Fur and anything else Jeff Tweedy touches), Replacements, My Morning Jacket, Gillian Welch, Kinks, P.J. Harvey, Cat Power, Mekons, Neil Young, Blondie, Stevie Wonder, Patti Smith, Little Joe Cook, Iggy & the Stooges, good dance music like old Michael Jackson and Marvin Gaye
The Big Lebowski (love the Coen Brothers), Harold and Maude, The Aristocrats, The Usual Suspects, The Spanish Prisoner, Rushmore, The Castle (Australian), Cradle Will Rock, Old School, Amelie
Project Runway, Lost, Arrested Development, The Office (on BBC, preferably), What Not to Wear, pretty much anything on Sundays on HBO.
Lolita, Cat's Cradle and other Kurt Vonnegut, Extremely Loud and Incredibly Close, Hateship Friendship Courtship Loveship Marriage and other Alice Munro, The Art of Looking Sideways
Billy Bragg, firefighters