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Stef

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About Me


I'm going to school but who knows what for. But I'm in school, so that's a good thing. Right?
I'm glad I waited to go to college, instead of going straight out of high school. It's given me an opportunity to mature and figure out who I am. I think because of that, I'm able to take school more seriously.
I live with Kyle, my fiance, in Austin and we've got an awesome yet small apartment with walls that I painted green. We have two cats and a fish named Fish.
Some days I'm sad, some days I'm happy, just like anyone.
In general though, if you know me, I'm usually one of the most random people you know, especially if you catch me in one of those moods.
I can talk to absolutely anyone and I do just that everyday. I'm the girl sent over to make a request for the band or handle an awkward situation that someone else doesn't want to.
There is no rhyme or rhythm to my thought process, it's very sporadic. Ask anyone who knows me.
I think that life is way too short to spend it other than deliriously happy and I won't settle for anything less. (Thank you Anthony Hopkins)
I have morals and Christian beliefs, though I don't attend church regularly.
I can be very jealous sometimes, not my best attribute, but at least I'm honest!
I'm not a girly girl.
In general, I am a good, happy person and I LOVE life, though I have no idea where it's going... and there's a certain uncertainty yet peace about that...
And above all, not to sound overly self absorbed, but I would be my friend in a heart beat, yet I wouldn't hesitate to call me on my faults, because though I am awesome, there are many.
My personal anthem:
This one means the world to me, it's my anthem... if you want to understand me... read this... I want to learn to walk with others as an equal I want to treat the ones who love me with respect I want to tell the world I'll give them all a piggyback And try to take away my negative effect I want to kiss the boy, I know I'll never lie again I want to call my dad and tell him that I care I want to let my mother know She saved my life a thousand times Throughout the years she's been my friend Who's always there -Blue October: slightly altered since viewed from my persepective

My Interests

What interests me?! People interest me. I hate boring people. Not that you need to be lively and crazy 100% of the time, but I surround myself with people who make me laugh and know how to have a good time. (If you don't, then I probably won't return your calls.) Overall, I like trying new things and going to new places, but for the most part, I'm kind of a home body. Which yes, I know that's an oxymoron in a way, but it's only a sample of how completely random my personality is.

I'd like to meet:

I'd like to meet people who love life. Yeah it sucks sometimes, trust me, of this I am sure... but it's also this wonderfully beautiful thing that has endless possibilities. I'd like to meet people who know that a bad day does not necessitate a bitchy attitude, people who aren't afraid to apologize when they are wrong, people who know that friendship does not mean having to agree on everything, people who can agree to disagree and people who aren't afraid to be themselves.

Music:

Blue October. Their lyrics have more power in them than any other band that I've ever heard of. If you know anything about this band, then you know what I'm talking about. They gave me the strength to be Independently Happy and start making decisions for me, and no one else. And ever since they banged that sense into my head and I've followed that one rule, I've been the happiest I have ever been in my life.

On another note
Music is my life. No I'm not a musician and I don't try to claim that I can sing well (unless it's karaoke night and I've had too much to drink). BUT I love listening to music. More recently I've been introduced to "The Kin". Two amazing men who make beautiful music and are just... well... amazing. If you don't know who they are, you need to figure it out. Talent just pours out of these brothers and to top that... they are both genuinely interesting and friendly people. What more can you ask from them?!

As for the rest of the world of music, I love living in Austin because I'm exposed to it all. So many genre's, so many names... I love them all.

Movies:

TRANSFORMERS... awesome. I'm a geek, I know.

But on a more serious note... Fight Club and Moulin Rouge... Does that give you any idea how wide of a movie taste I have? I could probably quote the entire movie for both of me. But, don't ask me to, or else you'll regret it. If I haven't seen, it's on my Blockbuster queue. If you think I need to see it and I haven't heard about it... let me know, I'll put it on there!

Television:

I rarely watch TV anymore... I never have time to watch anything that requires tuning in at a certain time every day. So if I watch sometime, it's becuase I'm able to watch it online later... But I will always love Friends, I can't get enough of em! I'm an addict for the food channel, always something interesting there. I love the discovery channel, shark week is the best. I love Tornado Alley on the weather channel. Deadliest Catch is always a good show. And any murder mystery show, such as CSI.

Books:

I'm a huge fan of Nicholas Sparks and Chuck Palahnuik. Granted they are two extremes. Nicholas Sparks wrote The Notebook, Chuck Palahnuik wrote Fight Club. But when I delved into the rest of their collection, they were just as consistent in their "goodness" as they were with their books that made it to the big screen. And in Chuck's case, probably better!

Heroes:

My mother and my real friends, and most recently... myslef! :-)

My Blog

IM GETTING MARRIED!!!!!

That's right! For everyone who doesn't know already, Kyle and I are getting married!!! :-)  Kyle purposed September 30th and I have never been so excited.  I GET TO MARRY MY BEST FRIEND!!!! ...
Posted by Stef on Sun, 21 Oct 2007 03:29:00 PST

I'm Going Back To Scool!!

That's right people.  I'm going back to school, along with working.  Therefore, you are looking at the future class of 2013... OMG! That is so long from now!   But you and I both know i...
Posted by Stef on Fri, 20 Jul 2007 12:33:00 PST

I don't even know where to begin...

I don't even know where to begin.    My life has been absolute chaos lately.  There's so much going on in my own personal world that I could give a flying trapeze about what's going o...
Posted by Stef on Fri, 13 Jul 2007 06:28:00 PST

RIP: Sarah Toller

Sarah Toller   I can't believe it.  I'm almost at a loss of words.   I've spent the last six months being an avid reader of a blog called 'Que Sarah Sarah".  She's 30-years-old ...
Posted by Stef on Mon, 18 Jun 2007 10:28:00 PST

How come Happiness equates to Immaturity?

The other day someone who I know and love said I had alot of growing up to do. Now granted, at any stage of life, there's alot of growing up that's to be done. No matter what age, growing up is just...
Posted by Stef on Fri, 15 Jun 2007 01:38:00 PST

I'm a crappy friend...

I can be a crappy friend. That's not to insinuate that I've been a crappy friend to you. And I'm not asking for a "No you're not" compliment. It's the truth, I've been a crappy friend and I've lost...
Posted by Stef on Thu, 07 Jun 2007 06:07:00 PST

When did this stop being a free country?

So, just like most people who work in an office, I listen to music while I'm at work. Yesterday a song by the Dixie Chicks came on entitled "Not Ready to Make Nice" Most of you have probably heard thi...
Posted by Stef on Fri, 27 Apr 2007 02:49:00 PST

Do you get to meet Blue October?! I DO!!!

Yes my fellow friends... I rock!!Quite literally!  I will be rockin this Saturday night at the Blue October show at Stubbs here in Austin!  BEAT THAT!Okay, so many of you may also be going t...
Posted by Stef on Thu, 22 Mar 2007 03:11:00 PST

I Can't Eat Anything... (No More Wisdom... Part Duex)

I can't eat anything, which trust me, has never been a problem of mine in the 22, almost 23 years I've been on this earth. Yesterday I didn't eat until late afternoon. They gave me some apple sauce th...
Posted by Stef on Thu, 04 Jan 2007 07:37:00 PST

No more wisdom for me...

I gothere about 6am, after a confirmation that I am not pregnant, theybrought me to my bed. Oh... maybe I should explain. I'm doing one ofthose medical studies. Basically, how it works is that I ge...
Posted by Stef on Wed, 03 Jan 2007 03:58:00 PST