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~Becky~

They say it ain't over until the fat lady sings, well I'm singing my heart out.

About Me



After a while you learn the subtle difference between holding a hand and chaining a soul.
And you learn that kisses aren't contracts and presents aren't promises,
And you begin to accept your defeats with your head up and your eyes open, with the grace of an adult, not the grief of a child,
And you learn to build all your roads on today because tomorrow's ground is too uncertain for plans.
After a while you learn that even sunshine burns if you get too much.
So plant your own garden and decorate your own soul, instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers.
And you learn that you really can endure...that you really are strong,
And that you really have worth.

I have a grown daughter and I'm a grandma of three beautiful girls.



My daughter is a beautiful person not only on the outside but she has a beautiful soul. She is a wonderful mother and wife and I am so proud of her.
My oldest granddaughter turned 13 in January (OMG), She is beautiful, smart, and funny. We don't spend as much time together like we used to because her social calendar is so full at this age, but through the good and bad times, I want her to know she can count on me. I love her so much.

The twins turned 3 on May 4th. They are the wildest little girls I have ever seen. They are in to everything and nothing is off limits. But, they are also the sweetest, smartest babies ever!!! They love to watch "Cinderella" and know everything about the movie, even the sound effects. I absolutely love being a grandma/gweema.

Cancer has ravaged my family and it breaks my heart. My oldest brother June died of liver cancer, my precious Mom died of brain cancer, my 29 yr old neice Pamela had thyroid cancer, my 42 yr old nephew Donnie (Big Poppa) was recently diagnosed with inoperable liver cancer, my brother-in-law Kenny has prostate cancer and I had malignant melanoma. I was the lucky one. Even though it was the deadliest form, it was slow growing, they got it all through surgery and I didn't have to have chemo or radiation.


RIP Big Poppa, you are going to be missed so much by so many people.
May 6, 1966-Aug 10, 2008
Written and copyrighted by Dusty Kent, Donnie's youngest brother.


Children are so precious and should be protected from harm. I will never comprehend why this happens. People who commit these crimes should get the same punishment as their innocent victims.

THIS SAYS IT ALL: Time passes. Life happens. Distance separates. Children grow up. Jobs come and go. Love waxes and wanes. Men don't do what they're supposed to do. Hearts break. Parents die. Colleagues forget favors. Careers end. BUT........ Sisters are there, no matter how much time and how many miles are between you. A girl friend is never farther away than needing her can reach. When you have to walk that lonesome valley and you have to walk it by yourself, the women in your life will be on the valley's rim, cheering you on, praying for you, pulling for you, intervening on your behalf, and waiting with open arms at the valley's end. Sometimes, they will even break the rules and walk beside you...Or come in and carry you out. Girlfriends, daughters, granddaughters, daughters-in-law, sisters, sisters-in-law, Mothers, Grandmothers, aunties, nieces, cousins, and extended family, all bless our life! The world wouldn't be the same without women, and neither would I. When we began this adventure called womanhood, we had no idea of the incredible joys or sorrows that lay ahead. Nor did we know how much we would need each other. Every day, we need each other still.
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My Interests


Spending time with my grandchildren,there is nothing better than being a grandma.



listening to live Jazz at my favorite club,


reading, walking, and gardening just to name a few. I also love to travel...especially going to NYC. I have been twice and just can't get enough of the "BIG APPLE".


I have been to see "Phantom of the Opera" on Broadway twice and once in Indy.


I'd like to meet:


Eric Clapton

layla

David Letterman

Sean Connery


Tony Dungy

The Mannings.


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Music:

In loving memory of Dan Fogelbeg who passed at 6 am, December 16, 2007. Peace be with you.

I am pretty open with my musical taste. I was raised on county and bluegrass but became a rebel and fell in love with the Motown sound and I'm a product of the 60's so of course I love the Beatles.

And, Frankie Valli & the Four Seasons-saw "Jersey Boys" on Broadway. Love alot of the 70's & 80's music. I also love Eric Clapton (I named my daughter Layla), the Eagles, Gladys Knight & the Pips, Luther Vandross, Dan Fogelberg, Blues and of course Jazz. Locally, I love to listen to The Midcoast Swing Orchestra, Rob Dixon & Triology,The Buselli Wallarab Jazz Orchestra and of course the wonderful and beautiful Cynthia Layne; they are not only great musicians but great friends.
PLEASE SUPPORT LIVE MUSIC AND YOUR LOCAL ARTISTS!!!!


Movies:

"To Kill a Mockingbird" and "Brians Song" are two of my all time favorites. Also loved "The Big Chill" and "Shawshank Redemption".

Television:

"House", "Earl", "David Letterman", "Grey's Anatomy", "ER",
"Dancing with the Stars","Desparate Housewives", and "Sex and the City".


I also love to watch the "COLTS".

Gotta love those "COLTS"!!!!!!!

Books:

Anything by "Nicholas Sparks", "Tami Hoag", "Sidney Sheldon", and "Patricia Cornwell".

Heroes:




Human Statue of Liberty
My bother Jimmy who came home from Viet Nam but his childhood friend Zeb Dulin lost his life. And all who served our country in Viet Nam, who by the way never received the recognition and respect that they deserved and were treated with such disrespect when they came home. My nephew JD who just got back from Iraq in January but had to leave for Korea in April. I am a proud American who repects the veterans and our troops serving our country all over the world. Also, I loved and respected John and Bobby Kennedy.

"Some men see things as they are and ask why, I dream things that never were and ask why not?"


(I was honored to meet Bobby when I was in Jr. High).
And most of all my MOM. She was the sweetest, kindest woman on earth and is missed dearly.
This is a poem she wrote-date unknown.

My loving children, near my heart
that nature seems to bind.
It breaks my heart and grieves me so to leave them all behind.
Lord God a father to them be, and keep them from all harm.
That they may learn to worship thee and dwell upon thine arm.

Beatles Juggler
Deadly Handsome Men
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My Blog

Eric Clapton - River Of Tears (Live)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5w_t2fCQ764 At the top of the :Ubout Me" section...
Posted by ~Becky~ on Fri, 05 Sep 2008 07:28:00 PST