If I could describe myself in one word it would be complicated. There are many dimensions to me and most of them I'm trying to understand and identify myself. I don't expect you to understand me, nor do I expect you to try and figure me out. I haven't even accomplished that myself yet.
Ive been through more than you can probably imagine so before you start to judge me, wait until you try to understand me. i have a reason behind every action/word i do or speak
I wear my heart on my sleeve a little too much at times. i love being with friends & family. I don't need liquor to have a good time. i believe everything happens for a reason. i love meeting new people. I'm not even close to perfect. I'm very strongly opinionated but most of the time I bite my tongue. I hate being lied too. I hate being ignored. I'm really not that funny, but laugh at my own jokes. my favorite color is green. (green eyes are the best) i love to laugh & love to smile. I am a VERY honest person. i usually say whatever's on my mind. I treat others as I want to be treated and tend to go the extra mile at times.
i may smile most/all the time and i pull the whole I'm the guy that doesn't hurt, but all you have to do is read my blogs to understand that I have feelings too.
The TooBIG.net Blog was well known around the Detroit area In the past month I've just recently decided to bring TooBIG.net here to my myspace page to help me interact more with all of you. The People that mean the most to me My Family & Friends. The Sites success has been mentioned on many top blog websites and I have also been interviewed on Motor City Midday's show on Live 97.1FM here in Detroit With Gregg Henson. People call me TB, TooBIG, BIG, Jess, and a lotta other stuff...lol But I mainly go by TooBIG. I work for a Law firm in the IT Department, I'm having a blast doing it. The best fu*king job anyone could ask for. I currently live in Sterling Heights , MI, in my own place as I couldn't stand Garden City and being away from friends and family. I knew I couldn't last that long in garbage city. I'm a big guy but I'm a good guy and there's not to many like me out there. I have the best family someone can ask for and my Mom, Dad & Grandma Lena have molded me into the man I am today and I'm very proud of the job they've done. I just recently lost my Dad to a 13 minth battle with cancer and that's one of the hardest things I've ever had to deal with. I have tons of friends that I love and without them I would be lost. A few years back I believe in 2002 winter time The Ba-Donka Butt crew was formed and is still going strong, Although we don't get together as much as we once did, when we do. THERE GOES THE NEIGHBORHOOD....lol I've looked into the Lap-Band procedure as making my health is my top priority right now. As of right now I'm currently in a lifestyle change which is preparing me for my lapband surgery. To date I have lost Aprox. 121 pounds. At the pace I'm going I may not need the surgery and I can reach a healthy weight with out surgery. I hope each and everyone of you leave a comment subscribe to the blog here. Once again I thanks you all for the support.
Much Love Jess
