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Stephanie Nicole

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About Me


life is full of surprises and there are no guarantees, but one thing is certain: a life lived without pleasure, beauty and a sensible degree of self-indulgence is a sad and wasted one. despite the ranting of religious exremists, life coaches and jaded psychologists, it's okay to have a good time

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My Interests

im a child at heart

what they dont teach you in art school is never, ever to tell people you wanted to be an artist. just so you know, for the rest of your life, people will torture you by saying how you used to love to draw when you were young. you used to love to paint...
a couple drinks.
a couple aspirin.
repeat.

I'd like to meet:

Anyone beautifully unique. I don't care if you're gay, straight, bi, boy, girl, or in between... just be yourself :)
but, before you start getting any ideas, I am largely A-SEXUAL meaning you run a slim to nil chance of me being interested in you for more than 30 seconds. I don't expect many people to honestly understand and respect it, but, those few who do I forever love. It's not so much a reflection on me, as it is on you :) Honestly, I have a hard time and not a great interest in 'proper' relationships with the greater majority of people (Largely because 99.9% of the population doesn't know what a real relationship consists of. Here's a clue... it's not lust, having a crush, co-dependancy and control. Shocked... I bet you are.) and it is often why I stay single.
on a better note...
i am interested in meeting writers, poets, photographers, artists, transgenders, pathological liars, kleptomaniacs, insomniacs, animal lovers, musicians (who arn't in it for the groupies) and anyone who likes moving and starting over as much as i do Myspace Contact Tables

Music:

Tool, Pixies, gorillaz, peaches, modest mouse, the doors, Atmosphere, Prodigy, Tori Amos, Fiona Apple, Placebo, Deftones, DJ Shadow, And You Will Know Us By The Trail of Dead, Nine Inch Nails, bonobo, Infected Mushroom, Rolling Stones, Thursday, Gregory and the Hawk, Anthony Green, The Shins, The Fall of Troy, Glassjaw, Muse, Taking Back Sunday, Sigur Ros, Breeders, Primus, Bloodhound Gang, Black Heart Procession, Ace of Base, Red Hot Chili Peppers, The Juliana Theory, Ani Difranco, Saosin, Tom Petty, Aimee Mann, Conor Oberst, Marilyn Manson, The Killers, Dr Dre, Eminem, akon

Movies:

Closer, The Butterfly Effect, The Hours, Leon the Professional, Tully, Drop Dead Fred, The Brave Little Toaster, Life as a House, Magnolia, Hedwig and the Angry Inch, Thank You For Smoking, Little Mermaid, Seven, Garden State, Crime and Punishment in Suberbia, What Dreams May Come, The Cell, Sweet November, Lucky Number Sleven, Fight Club, Leaving Las Vegas, Wedding Crashers

Television:

South Park
Animal Planet

Books:

Invisible Monsters
Mutant Message Down Under
Bridge to Terabithia
Prozac Nation
White Oleander
The Rum Diary
Choke
House of Leaves
trans-sister radio
Catcher and the Rye
Snow
How to Make Love Like a Porn Star
The Long Hard Roard Out of Hell
Lovely Bones
Wicked
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