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Cassie

Cassie Tankersley Iltzsch!!!

About Me


I am a full time mom of 5 (Step. to 3). I would eventually like to go back to school, but it will probably have to wait until my youngest is in school herself! I stay very busy raising kids, minding the house (like all good women do) and the yard! I must say, I am an image of perfection...lol j/k and for sport, read on!!HOW TO BE A GOOD WIFE Home Economics High School Text Book, 1954. Have dinner ready. Plan ahead, even the night before, to have a delicious meal, on time. This is a way of letting him know that you have been thinking about him and are concerned about his needs. Most men are hungry when they come home and the prospect of a good meal are part of the warm welcome needed. Prepare yourself. Take 15 minutes to rest so that you'll be refreshed when he arrives. Touch up your makeup, put a ribbon in your hair and be fresh-looking. He has just been with a lot of work-weary people. Be a little gay and a little more interesting. His boring day may need a lift. Clear away the clutter. Make one last trip through the main part of the home just before your husband arrives, gather up schoolbooks, toys, paper, etc. Then run a dust cloth over the tables. Your husband will feel he has reached a haven of rest and order, and it will give you a lift, too. Prepare the children. Take a few minutes to wash the children's hands and faces (if they are small), comb their hair, and if necessary change their clothes. They are little treasures and he would like to see them playing the part. Minimize all noise. At the time of his arrival, eliminate all noise of the washer, dryer, dishwasher, or vacuum. Try to encourage the children to be quiet. Be happy to see him. Greet him with a warm smile and be glad he is home. Some don'ts: Don't greet him with problems or complaints. Don't complain if he is late for dinner. Count this as minor compared with what he might have gone through that day. Make him comfortable. Have him lean back in a comfortable chair or suggest he lie down in the bedroom. Have a cool or warm drink ready for him. Arrange his pillow and offer to take off his shoes. Speak in a low, soft, soothing and pleasant voice. Allow him to relax and unwind. Listen to him. You may have a dozen things to tell him, but the moment of his arrival is not the time. Let him talk first. Make the evening his. Never complain if he does not take you out to dinner or to other places of entertainment. Instead, try to understand his world of strain and pressure, his need to be home and relax. The Goal: Try to make your home a place of peace and order where your husband can renew himself in body and spirit.Ok, so maybe I don't follow this text to the letter...but I'm not a wife either...so I think it all just evens out!

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My Interests

I am interested in finding a hobby that doesn't require constant attention and time...something fun to do whenever there is time. Knitting just doesn't sound like fun!
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I'd like to meet:

God...eventually

Music:

All Kinds...

Movies:

A few favorite movies of mine are Fried Green Tomatoes (TOWANDA!! Righter of Wrongs, Queen beyond Compare!...), Love Story ("Love means never having to say you're sorry"), Steel Magnolias ("Time marches on and sooner or later, you realize it's marchin across your face"), Mrs.Doubtfire ("Ever wish you could freeze frame a moment in your day, and look at it and say "this is not my life"? ), Billy Madison ("Ooh that boy's a fine piece of work all right. He's a fine piece of ass though, too." ) will always be a classic. I could go on but won't!
Some videos from Youtube that I REALLY like...

Drop Dead Fred
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mpIi34fCu1w
Pulp Fiction - Filthy Animals
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c0zJSgHDnpw
Devil's Advocate
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qGXvj2BjZLA
Joanna Quits
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-bXHPqj3NcI
Meathead
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6tpo3KxOhVo

Television:

Law and Order...Soaps!

Books:


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Heroes:

Anyone who I have ever trusted, that didn't break my heart.
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My Blog

Devil's Advocate

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qGXvj2BjZLA ...
Posted by Cassie on Fri, 15 Aug 2008 11:06:00 PST

Storytime With Karl Childers: The Three Little Pigs

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uuzyNNyZdZo ...
Posted by Cassie on Wed, 16 Jul 2008 01:15:00 PST