Doll collecting
Dollmaking
Websurfing
Photography
Poetry
Exercising
Listening to music
Reading
Watching tv
Chilling with my Friends
I'd like to meet:
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I'd like to meet down to earth people who know how to have fun and how to make their own fun. I love variety, therefore I love different types of people. If you're uptight, I can't deal with you. You don't have to be wild to hang with me, but you can't be uptight. You also have to have a sense of self - truly know who you are and be square with that.
I can't stand elitist, condescending, shallow people. I don't like Pompous and/or arrogant people. People who are hell bent on being ignorant and/or foolish make me sick. Manipulative people are scum. Male chauvinists beneath scum. The Mother of all scum: Self-righteous people. Anal retentiveness gets on my nerves. I HATE condescension. Greedy, jealous and/or insecure people are sickening.
DON'T GIVE ME YOUR NUMBER. IF YOU HAVE THOUGHT OF THE BRIGHT IDEA TO TALK ON THE PHONE WITH ME, YOU NEED TO CALL ME. IF YOU JUST HAVE TO TALK ON THE PHONE TO ME THAT BADLY, ASK FOR MY NUMBER AND CALL WHEN ITS CONVENIENT FOR YOU. I WILL NOT REMEMBER TO CALL YOU, BECAUSE I AM NOT THE ONE WHO WANTS TO INITIATE A PHONE RELATIONSHIP. SO, IF YOU GIVE ME YOUR NUMBER, DON'T TRIP IF I FORGET TO CALL. OBVIOUSLY, YOU DIDN'T WANT TO TALK TO ME THAT BADLY, OR YOU WOULD HAVE ASKED FOR MY NUMBER AND CALLED ME WHEN YOU HAD TIME.
ME AND DATING:
I am not on here to meet my soulmate. If I meet him - fine. If don't meet him- thats cool too. I'm not on here seeking out marriage and a serious relationship. Thats not how I date no way. When I am in dating mode, I'd rather let the interactions between me and a guy unfold naturally, than to force something that just may not work. I gotta have chemistry with a person too. I love the spontaneity of getting to know a person that I have chemistry with. Indeed, chemistry is much more than lust. I have had mega-chemistry with guys that I wasn't attracted to. The way we interacted with each other was just right. It was relaxed, yet intense, LOL. I likes that :D.
Even though I am single, I like to be just strictly platonic friends first and for a lonnnnnng time. I don't feel it necessary to be a Wondertwin with anybody,lol.
These days, I REALLY have come to appreciate the beauty of being single too. I LOVE being single. I go where I want when I want to. I can talk to whomever I please. I only live for GOD and myself. I hate being involved in a relationship,because its just tooo stressful. I don't have to deal with an overgrown, whiny baby b*tching about my not making time for him simply because I won't drop everything I am doing just to spend time with him when he has free time, even though he may have no problem putting me off when I have free time. I don't have to deal with somebody holding me up to some ridiculous make believe standard of his dream woman. I don't have time for that immature crap - I come as is, lol. You either like me for me or you don't, and if you don't then you can get out of my face. I am who I am and if a person can't deal with that, then thats their problem - not mine. I can't deal with anybody else and their insecure, control-freakish foolishness. I am not about to change for anybody. I am sweet enough. If I were sweeter, I'd be a gullible fool. Indeed, I'm not having an identity crisis and I certainly don't need anyone else to try to dream one up for me.
I'd rather be by myself than to have to deal with somebody who sees my mellow attitude as being an opportunity to be a royal dog and mess over me. I also have father who used to tell me what to do. He stopped when I became an adult. I don't need a substitute father. I don't need nobody talking to me like they are Yoda and I am Luke Skywalker, lol. I know what I am doing, I have plans, lol - ALWAYS HAVE SINCE Kindergarten. I plan things - I'm good at it. When I need guidance I turn to God for counsel.
I also don't believe in making any man the center of my world - I have a life. GOD put me on this Earth for the purpose of making the world a better place. He did not put me here to be somebody's mindless, babymaking drone whose goals in life are centered on superficiality, subservience, vanity and greed.
Now, just being strictly platonic friends with a person is totally cool. I don't have a problem with that all. Its no pressure. Its fun and its relaxed. I can't deal with taking anything a step further unless that other person is truly serious about ME for who I am. I know when I really like a dude and care about him, I don't try to change him. I can't get enough of him just the way he is. I don't try to change him because I'd be turning him into someone other than the guy I am presumably nuts about. The only time I may see a need for a change in him is if he may has a self-destructive habit or something. Even in that case, I don't play mother goose, because that person is grown and knows what he wants to do. If I can't deal with it, I just let him know,"hey lets just be friends".
Being alone does not bother me because, I can be highly attracted to myself ROTFLMAO, LOL!
Music:
I love all kinds of music.
My favorite artists are:
**JOSEPHINE BAKER**
**ELLA FITZGERALD**
**CAB CALLOWAY**
**FATS WALLER**
**MICHAEL JACKSON**
*****FIVE STAR*****
***PHYLLIS HYMAN****
**GWEN GUTHRIE**
*SunsOfLight/The Boys*
****Hakim***
**Digital Underground**
Jill Scott
Egyptian Lover
The Time
Bootsy Collins
DeBarge
Georgio(Georgio Allentini)
New Editon
India.Arie
Morcheeba
Faith Evans
Tina Turner
Morris Day
Jesse Johnson
Ginuwine
Jon B.
A Tribe Called Quest
The Pharcyde
Neneh Cherry
Gerry Woo&/Harlemm Lee
Angela Winbush
Stephanie Mills
Beyonce
Miki Howard
Madonna
Alanis Morrisette
Prince
L.L. Cool J
FullForce
4 X 4
Bobby Brown
Cameo
The Gap Band
Ludacris
Common
Al B. Sure
Dire Straits
The Eagles
Pink Floyd
Santana
Duran Duran
Depeche Mode
Will to Power
Vanessa Williams
Pebbles
Starpoint
Skyy
Midnight Star
Freddie Jackson
The Beatles
Ray Parker Jr
Suns Of Light
Justin Timberlake
Eddie Rabbit
Heart
Kraftwerk
George Michael
Roger and Zapp
The Deele
Sheila E.
Britta Phillips
Martha Wash
Loose Ends
Roy Ayers
FatBack Band
Cashflow
Trinere
Madhouse
Peter Brown
Shannon
Genesis
Peter Gabriel
Whodini
World Class Wreckin Crew
O'Bryan
Ready For The World
Vesta Williams,........
Tooooo many more to name, lol
Check these sites out:
**MY FAVORITE DJ IS THE BEST DJ IN THE WORLD, DJ INCREDIBLE!!**
(Click the Pic)
He is sooooooooooo smart. He's a music encyclopedia. He's always nice when I have a question about a song to ask him. He's the greatest!
He's on KQXL-Q106 www.q106dot5.com
Suns of Light(They are formerly THE BOYS- you know Hakim, Tahj, Bilal and Khiry)
www.sunsoflight.com
Hakim
I also have been a long time fan of the music group The Boys. Hakim of this group is a musical visionary and innovator. I love the solo work that he has done. Below is link to his music. Its definitely worth checking out. This brother is a virtuoso full of originality, daring and creativity.
Egyptian
Lover
Freak-A-Holic
GEORGIO'S VIDEO
TINA CHERRY
LOVER'S LANE
SEX APPEAL
BOOTSY
COLLINS'
VIDEO
PARTY ON PLASTIC
WWW.SHOCKG.COM
The Digital Underground Site
Digital
Underground
Videos
LIVE SHOW AT ESCAPE
HUMPTY DANCE
Neneh Cherry
KOOTCHI
BUFFALO STANCE
Sheila E
www.sheilae.com/
Movies:
My favorite movies are:
Josephine Baker Story
The Fly with Jeff Goldblum
Carrie
Christine
The Mack
Mackin'Aint Easy(Documentary)
J.D.'s Revenge
Charlie Chaplin Movies
Circle of Friends
The Women of Brewster Place
Francis Ford Coppola's Dracula
The Godfather's 123
Rambo Trilogy
Robocop Trilogy
Hots Shots
Scarface
GoodFellas
Jurassic Park
Rocky
BeCool
Nothin' But Trouble
Rappin'
Breakin' 1&2
Beat Streat
Stormy Weather
Guys and Dolls
Cabin in the Sky
The Last Dragon
Purple Rain
Television:
G.L.O.W. Wrestling
ABC Weekend Special when Willie Tyler and Lester hosted it
Fat Albert & the Cosby Kids
The Muppet Show
Solid Gold
Star Search in the 80s
The Simpsons
Family Guy
King of the Hill
Miami Vice
Wise Guy
Fall Guy
Equalizer
The A-team
Knight Rider
BJ and the Bear
Rockford Files
Frasier
Seinfeld
Friends
Roseanne
Taxi
Barney Miller
Star Trek
Star Trek:Deep Space 9
Star Trek: Next Generation
Silk Stalkings
Duckman
Beavis&Butthead
WWF/WWE
The Parkers
JEM
One Tree Hill
King of Queens
In the Heat of the Night
Sanford and Son
Night Court
X-Files
Nightman
Friday Night Videos
KIDD VIDEO
Rude Dog & the Dweebs
Saved by the Bell
Soul Train back in the 80s
Video Vibrations
Doctor Who
Fifteen
You can't do that on television
Welcome Freshman
Double Dare
Fun House
ALF
Weird Science
Laissez Les Bon Temps Roulez
According to Jim
Bernie Mac
My Wife and Kids
Still Standing
Everybody Loves Raymond
Galaxy High
Remington Steele
Moonlighting
227
Amen
Barnaby Jones
Golden Girls
Facts of Life
Scooby Doo
New York Undercover
CSI Miami
Young and the Restless
Books:
The Concubine
Things Fall Apart
He's Just Not that Into you
Its Called A Breakup because its Broken
Sister Gumbo
All Edgar Allan Poe's works
Fat History
Bram Stoker's Dracula
My Secret Life
Josephine Baker and Sammy Davis Jr autobiographies
Talley's Corner
The Bluest Eye
The Stand
Mysteries of the Unknown
The Women of Brewster Place
Heroes:
GOD,Jesus,Holy Spirit and My Mother.
