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Shakeys Mind Exploration

The mind is a great thing to waste, for the bullets can never be removed once installed

About Me

READ MY BLOGS TO LEARN MORE ABOUT ME AND THE WAY MY MIND WORKS!!I have the shakes inherited from family blood line, thus the name shakey!! The artwork that is posted states artist myself it was done years ago haven't been able to draw since the 90's, all the drawings that have survived my hand are very rare since being when I got tired of looking at it I destroyed it!I'm a kind man with a big heart that goes to my Girlfriend and lover.Above all else he cherishes his submissive, in the knowledge that the gift she gives him is the greatest of all. He is demanding and takes full advantage of the power given to him, but knows how to share the pleasure that comes from that precious gift.He is in control of himself first and foremost, so that he may control others. As a stern and demanding Dominant, he can cause his sub to cry real tears. As the consummate lover, he will then kiss the tears away, without ever stepping out of character.In times of trouble, a Dominant will leave the roles behind, to be a supportive friend and partner, never forgetting that this is still a loving relationship between two caring individuals. He is quick to understand the differences between fantasy and reality. He would never ask a submissive to put him before her career, or family, just to satisfy his own pleasure.To win his submissive's mind, body and soul, he knows he must first win her trust. He will show his submissive humor, kindness, and warmth. He must also show her that his guidance and tutoring is knowledgeable and deserving of her attention, that this is a man she can learn from, and trust his direction.He is romantic enough to be protective and chivalrous. When called upon, he will fight for his ladies' honor. He proves to her that he is someone she can lean on, and depend on.He is old-fashioned enough to be a bit of a chauvinist, yet modern enough to respect his woman. Quick to point out the differences between them, he also knows there is no inferiority in those differences.When it comes time to teach his submissive her lessons of obedience, he is a strong and unyielding professor. He will accept no flaw, nothing less than perfection from his student. Never does he use discipline without good reason. When he does, it is always with a knowledgeable and careful hand.He is a careful guide, with safety always his main concern. He knows how to use pain to extend the bounds of pleasure. He is a mentor who can bring her to the edges of her envelope, and gently show her the inner courage to reach new heights.He is always open to communication and discussion, always ready to hear her wants and needs. He is patient, taking the time to learn her limits, and knowing that as her trust of him grows, so will they.He never has to demand ritual behavior by her. She responds to him out the want of pleasing him. Compliance comes from the wanting to please, not the fear of punishment. He understands the fragile nature of mind and body, and never violates the trust given to him.He is secure enough to laugh at himself and the absurdities of life. Courageous enough to accept assistance. Open minded enough to learn new things. Strong enough to grow. His tools are mind, body, spirit and soul with a little help from rope, paddle and blindfold. He understands that each partner gains most from pleasuring the other. And both of them know that love is the only binding that truly holds.We all live like the frogs on this round rock bumping our butts to the ground to survive and not to be eaten by the bigger ones trying to survive too!If the Native American Indians Had a thought of immigration control were would we be now?? If they were smart enough to shot every bastard that trespassed against them South America might have been the U.S. of A.?? If you live in this country Learn the Language don't expect me to learn yours until you learn english then CHICKASAW!! And most important of it all MY FOREFATHERS DIED FOR THIS LAND I DAMN SURE WILL TOO!!!And by the way if ya trying to sell me things I dont want dont try to add me. Those I have added selling things is by my choosing so remember if I deny ya just don't keep trying!!If youre not happy with it!! Pack youre bags and get out of the US!!
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My Interests

My family, then friends.Death: I've witnessed a fatal injection death sentence, Electrical chair, and A Hanging in India. The strange noises I hear in my attic in the winter (sounds like mice being eaten by snakes) Very open minded people, Sex is not sinful Dolphins enjoy sex too!! I just give MY sex life a twist with fetish! I'm Master! Nature:How it continues to change with the climate and All the radiation and poison we dump into the air we breath, It somehow allows us to pier into its solitude to show us we're just dust that it hasn't dealt with yet, give it time! Music:It drives the being Religion:What other beliefs are there, Born into a southern baptist family that practiced baptist and roman catholic They flipped when I studied Buddha and decided to be WICCAN! I particate in Native American Religous activities for I'm training to be a medicine man, I'm 1/4 Chickasaw,1/8 Cherokee, and some Apache.I'm on IMVU.Com LordAlixPain so If I've met you there you can check my pix and see whom you're playing against!

I'd like to meet:

Anne Rice the writer. Silver RavenWolf to help Me and My wife follow our beliefs. Alice Cooper just because!

Music:

Extreme Heavy metal (You name it I've most likely have heard them),Pantra,Coal Chamber,Union Underground,Sore Throat,Lords of Acid... Classical,Celtic,and bluegrass to help my mind easy it's turmoil. and some country.AC/DC, Black Sabbath,KISS,Axe,Krokus,Henry Rollins,BioHazard,Meshuggah,Motograter,Lords of Acid,Sore throat,Dimmu Borgir,Malevolent Creation,Control System,Mozart,Chopin,Hank Williams Sr & Jr,Willie Nelson,David Allen Cole,Pat Kilbride,Eileen Ivers,Altan,Pantra,Muddy Waters,Nate King Cole,Alice Cooper,DJ X,ECT........

Movies:

Don't watch them much but, when I do I like Action or Comedy IMVU - The World's Greatest 3D Chat

Television:

CSI and RockStar, Numbers, and PBS

Books:

To Light A Sacred Flame, RavenWolf/Cunningham's Encyclopedia Of Magical Herbs/An Age Of Ambition, F.R.H. Du Boulay/ Emotional Intelligence, D. Goleman/Moments-The Pulitzer Prize Photographs/Stop The Insanity,Susan Powter/The Claiming Of Sleeping Beauty, Anne Rice writting as A.N.Roquelaure

Heroes:

Often it is chance....... .......Circumstance; Or luck that provides the opportunity.... For heroism Only very few of those regarded as hero's; Have consciously set out on an adventure....... With that in mind. But only a true hero; Will take advantage of that chance....... And, That makes them HEROES!! So with that said I'd have to say those Whom put their lives on the line for ALL and forget about their Families, Children,and Wives! This can be even you. Not just soldiers, firemen, and police. You could be a hero you just have to forget everyone and everything and take a leap that WILL change your life!! Be it pulling another from a burning house or throwing yourself in the line of fire!

My Blog

A MEMO FROM A: submissive TO: Dominants

A MEMO FROM A: submissive TO: Dominants 1~Don't spoil me. I know Quite well that I ought not to have all I ask for. I ..m only testing you. 2~Don..t be afraid to be firm with me. I prefer it, it makes...
Posted by Shakeys Mind Exploration on Tue, 13 May 2008 11:06:00 PST

BDSM MYTHS

BDSM  MYTHS Myth: Once you start playing BDSM games you will want more and more and engage in increasingly risky and dangerous play  Fact: It is true that newcomers are often like kids ...
Posted by Shakeys Mind Exploration on Wed, 30 Apr 2008 10:39:00 PST

Negotiation - the use of safe words

"Why should I talk about it when I just want to do it?" Often sexuality is confusing - we feel frustrated and don't get what we want. Sometimes we feel abused and our ability to trust falters, we ques...
Posted by Shakeys Mind Exploration on Wed, 30 Apr 2008 10:36:00 PST

new works

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~MY BOYSI heard someone call a fellow soldierA murdererI began to shakeTears ran down my faceI was fucking pissed!I don't...
Posted by Shakeys Mind Exploration on Wed, 30 Apr 2008 10:30:00 PST

Safe, Sane, and Consensual

Safe, Sane, and Consensual by Tamar KayCopyright © Tamar Kay. You will often hear it said that the first and most important rule in B/D-S/M is that all things we do with each other must be safe, sane,...
Posted by Shakeys Mind Exploration on Tue, 29 Apr 2008 06:09:00 PST

Subspace

SubspaceSubspace... after being brought up in another thread and due to some questions i have received i thought some may not understand exactly what it is. There are different levels of subspace achi...
Posted by Shakeys Mind Exploration on Tue, 29 Apr 2008 06:07:00 PST

Training

Training TechniquesRespect for the sub is very important in this phase. As a Dom, you are attempting to bring out the best in your sub, not break her spirit and turn her into a robot.  Even in tr...
Posted by Shakeys Mind Exploration on Tue, 29 Apr 2008 06:01:00 PST

poems

UNTITLEDI'm the darknessYou're the lightYou're my sunshineI'm just a shadowYou're the fresh morningI'm the used nightYou're heart is filled with laughterMy eyes are filled with tearsListen upAnd grab ...
Posted by Shakeys Mind Exploration on Fri, 11 Apr 2008 10:07:00 PST

poems

HEROISM Often it is chance Circumstance Or luck that provides the opportunity For heroism Only very few of those regarded as heroes Have consciously set out on an adventure With that in mind But only...
Posted by Shakeys Mind Exploration on Thu, 10 Apr 2008 09:08:00 PST

more poems

IDEALISM It’s not the spelling Of the words It’s the feelings That’s there Its like idealism To have no one To share feelings With Is like a prison Within Its like having a true lo...
Posted by Shakeys Mind Exploration on Mon, 07 Apr 2008 06:29:00 PST