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Just Ryan

I am here for Dating, Serious Relationships, Friends and Networking

About Me

Not much to say 'bout me. I like making people uncomfortable. It's fun. We live in such an uptight world. Trust me, people who claim to be open minded can go crazy and can be convinced that you are something that you're not by just one simple utterance. But I shouldn't complain, if people started to be more laid back there wouldn't be much for me to do in public anymore."I look around at this world you're so eager to be a part of ... and all I see is six billion lunatics looking for the fastest ride out. Who's not crazy? Look around. Everyone's drinking, smoking, shooting up ... shooting each other, or just plain screwing their brains out 'cause they don't want 'em anymore. I'm crazy? Honey, I'm the original one-eyed chicklet in the kingdom of the blind. 'Cause at least I admit the world makes me nuts."Oh and AIM rjangis

My Interests

Writing, talking about writing, not actually writing at all.Sitting is always fun.Hurting friends with just my words is always pleasant.Writing obscene childrens songs is a new hobby.

I'd like to meet:

Anyone who is isn't an intolerant fuck. . .I despise intolerance. . .especially today for some reason. So all you open minded people ... DANCE!Well, I'm all about hating white dudes though ...I like people who are blunt. If you have something bad to say, say it. If you have something good to say, say it. People today want everyone to love them way too much. The world needs honesty sometimes. So tell the world what you think ... Trust me, I've heard worse.Oh, and if I could meet someone who could treat me a tenth as well as I treat everyone else, that would be kind of nice ... I'll whore away, whore away! ..."Have you ever been in love? Horrible isn't it? It makes you so vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens up your heart and it means that someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all these defenses, you build up a whole suite of armor, so that nothing can hurt you,then one stupid person, no different from any other stupid person wanders into your life...You give them a piece of you. They didn't ask for it. They did something dumb one day, like kiss you or smile at you, and then your life isn't your own anymore. Love takes hostages. It gets inside you. It eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness, so simple a phrase like 'maybe we should just be friends' turns into a glass splinter working it's way into your heart. It hurt's. Not just in the imagination. Not just in the mind. It's a soul- hurt, a real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-apart pain. I hate love." ~Neil Gaiman~If anyone knows what this video is referencing you are old enough to be my friend. Which means most of my friends won't get it.

Music:

Off the top of my big fat head I would have to say the Hold Steady, Magnetic Fields, Pixies, the Cure, the Shins, the Delgados, Bob Mould, Husker Du, the Mats, Paul Westerberg, Depeche Mode, pretty much anything written by Brian Wilson, Old 97's, Radiohead, Prince, Jimmy Eat World, Weezer, the D, Oingo Boingo, Public Enemy, the Clash, Rancid, Matthew Sweet, Freedy Johnston, Badly Drawn Boy, Cheap Trick, Teenage Fanclub, Subhumans, Groovie Ghoulies, Outkast, Dinosaur Jr, Afghan Whigs, Air, Yo La Tengo, Mogwai, Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Miles Davis, Ben Folds (the boy has me hooked), N.W.A, the D.O.C, Dr. Dre, White Stripes, Wilco, Minor Threat, Neil Young, Obie Trice, R.E.M, Saint Etienne, Son Volt, Urge Overkill, Fight Scene, Kafka Dreams, New Order, Crooked Fingers, Blink 182, Chixdiggit, Death Cab, Postal Service, Kanye, Common, Eels ... I know that I'm leaving a lot off but, oh well.

Movies:

Hmm. . .I'll just list directors and writers: Paul Thomas Anderson, Wes Anderson, Tim Burton, Cameron Crowe, Woody Allen, Charlie Kaufman, Alexander Payne, Spike Jonze, Sofia Coppolla hmm ... and I'm a sucker for romantic comedies so kill me.

Television:

Things that are on the air right now? Home Movies, Scrubs, That 70's Show, Malcolm in the Middle, Arrested Development, Angel. That's about it.

Books:

I dig David Sedaris, Nick Hornby ...

Heroes:

Redneck children who fall down wells. The original Broadway cast of Annie. Bruce Jenner. My cat Misty. My smaller, younger, less brown cat Silvie. 21 year old virgins. People with the strength to put up with me and whatnot. People strong enough to turn down my drunken ovatures. People who play hopscotch professionally. People with will power. Anyone who can make me smile. And of course Karlos, who threatens to kick my ass daily, as well as other more profane threats. Ted Williams. Dr. Dre. John Frusciante. H Jon Benjamin. Anyone who is a genius, a real genius, at whatever they do. Because I'm just some dumb guy.

My Blog

Sometimes ...

Sometimes I'm just such a little kid.  The littlest thing will happen and it will just ruin my night.So I'm going to bed so that I won't stay grumpy.Bleg.
Posted by Just Ryan on Tue, 29 Apr 2008 10:08:00 PST

Phone troubles ...

So today at work I was walking back from the lunchroom. I had my dinner in one hand and my cell phone in another. For some reason, my co-worker Paul whistled to get my attention. Ever the graceful ...
Posted by Just Ryan on Tue, 11 Mar 2008 11:43:00 PST

Bleg is my favorite word ...

Ugh, I was crabby all day.  Now I get home and when I lay down I can't stop coughing so I can't fall asleep.  So I'm even more pissy.Stupid everything ...
Posted by Just Ryan on Sun, 24 Feb 2008 02:26:00 PST

Damn that Robert!

So last night Rob and I were watching a Dinosaur Jr. live show that was on OnDemand.  So I was talking and talking about music like I'm prone to do.  Rob then pointed out that I don't buy th...
Posted by Just Ryan on Tue, 12 Feb 2008 11:49:00 PST

Youth of America ...

So I found this story and my draw dropped.  It's official.  We have become the most overprotective society on the planet when it comes to our children.  Why do you ask?  Because th...
Posted by Just Ryan on Wed, 21 Nov 2007 10:30:00 PST

Me, self righteous me ...

For starters let's get this out of the way shall we.  I'm an asshole.  A giant asshole.  It's who I am.  Is that an excuse?  No, it's not an excuse.  But I mock people.&n...
Posted by Just Ryan on Tue, 23 Oct 2007 11:06:00 PST

So ...

So I misunderstood today.  I guess that some friends were going to stop by and we were going to go to a movie.  I forgot the movie part and thought that a group of pals were going to come to...
Posted by Just Ryan on Sat, 20 Oct 2007 12:09:00 PST

Random thoughts because I’m bored ...

Anyone who knows me, or at least knows the Washington version of me (it's been six and a half years, I really should let it go) knows that I like to plan things.  I like things in my head to be o...
Posted by Just Ryan on Fri, 19 Oct 2007 11:34:00 PST

Confusion ...

So I was reading an interesting article on CNN.com about the Mona Lisa and it got me to thinking.  In the article they call the Mona Lisa the "worlds most famous painting".  I wasn't going t...
Posted by Just Ryan on Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:07:00 PST

Another Saturday night and I aint got nobody ... Part 2

Since I'm on a roll and things just keep coming to me (again, I'm not in that bright of state).  This goes back to good old Liz and her desire for a boyfriend.But don't we all want someone who kn...
Posted by Just Ryan on Sun, 09 Sep 2007 03:00:00 PST