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Angela

That which is done out of love...takes place beyond good and evil.

About Me

I continue learning every day not to limit my life by what I think it should be. My world is made better by the people who are in it, my friends, my family, my children, even the kindness of a stranger can restore your faith in the world. I hope some days I get to be that stranger. I love that I have the opportunity to rediscover every thing just by watching my children. Life with kids can be chaotic, but when I slow down and see the difference it makes in their lives it means everything. They grow by watching how I see the world as much as I do from watching them. I want to be mindful everyday of what each moment means, both for me and for them. I believe in karma, and fairness and treating people (including yourself) the way you want to be treated. I believe everything happens for a reason. I am so lucky. I wake up every morning next to my best friend and all-time favorite person. There is no explaining the hell we went through to be where we are today, but that experience makes us aware, in every breath, every touch, every word we share together, of how fortunate we are to have those moments at all and for not having to spend the rest of our lives thinking "if only things had been different." Lastly, the time we have in each life is too short to waste in constant pursuit of perfection or to be measured by the car we drive or the neighborhood we live in. Life is about the things that make us human; how we interact with the people around us, what makes us love, what makes us feel, what we can share and how we grow. Today. Here. Now. And always.

My Interests

I love absorbing information and learning new things. I love anything house, anything color. I love reading and someday I'm gonna write a book. Through out my life I've had many great hobbies and interests, which I miss sometimes, but right now I'm just savouring every moment I have with my family and friends. It's something I'd forgotten to do for a while.

I'd like to meet:

There is something to be learned from everyone, but that said....I'd be happy if I could just keep in touch with the people I already know. The only people I would really want to meet are already dead; John Keats, Oscar Wilde, my grandmother (I would like to have known what she was like). I suppose I just have bad timing!?! Which is why I'd be content to spend more time with the people I've already met.

Music:

I love music that makes you happy...the kind of song that can turn your day around. I love desperation and passion in music. I love anything Troy does (call me pathetic, but it's just so HOT to see him do something he loves so much). My Chemical Romance, Yellowcard, I'm a huge CURE fan. Love the mellow stuff too, like Tori Amos, Enya, Loraina McKennitt. And I love Elton John (but I don't think anyone else knows that - until now, or course).

Movies:

I'm a hopeless romantic so Casablanca. Princess Bride. Roman Holiday. The Lord of the Rings Trilogy is definitely a big favorite (the romantic in me can ALMOST overlook the bastardization of the relationship between Arwen and Aragorn...almost). Elizabeth with Kate Blanchet. I love classics and costumes and period flicks...bitter sweet love stories, romantic comedies. My new holiday favoite "Love Actually" it's a great movie to make you feel like the world isn't such a bad place afterall!

Television:

I rarely sit still long enough to watch television, unless the love of my life forces me to, and even then I find it difficult. But I can't wait for the new season of The Office. Troy's got me watching Rescue Me, with Dennis Leary and I have to admit I like it. Of course my all time favorite....the reason television exists in my book is FIREFLY. What a horrible tragedy that it was cancelled. Glad they made the movie to rub it in FOX's face, but I'm greedy...I don't want just two hours, I want an hour every week forever. I'd settle for about 10 seasons. Is that too much to ask?

Books:

Finally got around to reading the 6th Harry Potter book, admittedly not one of my favorites. I'll have to overcome the emotional block and fear of the end before I read the 7th book - that could be a while. All time favorites: The Scarlet Letter by Nathaniel Hawthorne, The House of Mirth by Edith Warton, All the Harry Potter books (the 3rd is my favorite so far) and of course, The Hobbit and all that follows - I love reading, but never have time for fiction anymore, there's just too many things in this world I want to know more about or have the unfortunate luck to require more knowledge on. For a super cool non-fiction read, try "THE BRAIN THAT CHANGES ITSELF!" Neuroplasticity is my new favorite subject!! Seriously cool stuff.

Heroes:

I've given a lot of thought to this hero thing. Anyone who can live everyday with love and patience, have virtue without judgement, or who can gather hope, strength, solace in the face of anger and resentment is a hero. Ghandi represented all of these qualities at once and is a hero to many. For me though, I know every-day people struggle with these virtues and anyone who is able to accomplish even one in their lifetime is worthy of being called a hero.

My Blog

My very own scarlet letter

Most people who are familliar with it think of Nathaniel Hawthorne's "The Scarlet Letter" as one of those "classic" books that you're forced to read in highschool or college AP courses. Maybe I had an...
Posted by Angela on Sun, 25 Feb 2007 09:32:00 PST

I'm pregnant...

Don't get excited!!! I'M JUST KIDDING!!!I'm just checking to see who actually reads this!!!I've recently been catching a lot of shit for posting personal information on the internet. It seems some pe...
Posted by Angela on Sun, 10 Dec 2006 08:11:00 PST

On being thankful....

With Thanksgiving just having passed I'm feeling kind of reflective on those things for which I'm most grateful. And I'm finding it's not the "things" at all. As everyone who reads this is surely awar...
Posted by Angela on Sat, 25 Nov 2006 10:18:00 PST

I am so smart...

Okay, so I'm not always the brightest light on the Christmas tree. A little scatter brained, a little distractable. Hey, I've got a lot going on, right?!? Since October I've been trying to squeeze in...
Posted by Angela on Sat, 25 Nov 2006 09:04:00 PST

Huh?

Do you ever stop and look around you sometimes and wonder "Huh? How did I get here?" The past two years have been full of those kind of moments for me, so you'd think I'd be used to it by now. Not too...
Posted by Angela on Thu, 28 Sep 2006 07:35:00 PST

Let there be light...

So we went almost a week without power. Well, our neighborhood went almost a week without power. We stayed with my mother, went on a float trip, stayed with my mom some more, swam, boated, road wave r...
Posted by Angela on Sat, 29 Jul 2006 08:12:00 PST

Two Weeks...

Okay, my boys just left this evening for two weeks or "15 sleeps" at Matt's house. This is the longest time I have ever been away from them. I'm filled with a mix of emotions right now. I hate even th...
Posted by Angela on Fri, 16 Jun 2006 06:39:00 PST

My Pillar...

Recently my dad expressed concern for Troy and how he might be handling the sudden influx of parenthood brought on by the new primary parenting schedule, and he asked me a few questions about my relat...
Posted by Angela on Fri, 09 Jun 2006 07:12:00 PST

Free at last....

I just learned today that the divorce papers I received on Tuesday weren't papers, but rather a court order! I've been thinking I actually needed to sign something for it to be official, but as it tur...
Posted by Angela on Fri, 26 May 2006 06:05:00 PST

Post Trial Bliss

The trial is over at last!!!! One year and $30,000 in legal fees later....He-Who-Must-Not-Be-Named did not do so well as he had expected. We still await the judges final opinion. I never thought I'd ...
Posted by Angela on Fri, 05 May 2006 11:57:00 PST