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Nixter®

You know my parakeet Peety...Well, his head fell off. Yeah, he was pretty old.

About Me

Layout Created at Mspremade.com About me...hmm well there is a lot I can say about me. I have a million different facets to my personality--i'm extremely versatile and feel comfortable in almost any environment. I love God, I love my family (we put the FUN in dysFUNctional as my uncle would say lol), I'm career driven (currently a Realtor and Loan Officer and am applying to schools to get my MD/MBA and run a whole lotta clinics around LA for the homeless/uninsured teen demographic), I value relationships deeply, I value honest communication and being freely expressed in your life. I take responsibility for who I am and who I'm not, no matter how difficult that might be at times. I dislike people with victim mentalities. I love being around people that motivate, inspire, and have a large vision for their own lives. I have a sensitive and vulnerable heart encapsulated by a sassy, confident exterior. I can sometimes be very elusive and feel distant and short. It's normally when I'm unsure about what kind of relationship I have with you, male or female. Needless to say, I really don't like dating. Getting to know you, learning you, working out the kinks, figuring out if we like each other. Nope. I like the comfortable, secure state of things. I'm extremely goofy when I feel comfortable. I'm friendly and have many acquaintances, but still know without a doubt who my true people really are. I'm like a loyal dog once we establish a friendship. I don't like mean people, or gossip. I'm a thinker, a do-er, a detailed person. I can be really ditsy about simple things like how much bleach to put in when I am doing my laundry...my poor future family. ha. Anyway, I'm spending most of my time selling houses and studying for the MCATs these days. Life is hectic! But if you are really something special, maybe I'll write back. I'm nice, really I am. :D

My Interests

Singing (Oasis Praise Team, Where U At?!), Eating, Traveling, Dancing, Spending QT with my family, Spending QT with my girlfriends, Leading/Participating in Warrior Princess Society, Being Athletic (Volleyball, Basketball, Running, Lifting Weights, and my new interest BOXING!! Geez that is whoopin on me!), Reading because I'm without a doubt a nerd at heart, Getting my financials together so I can be a baller like Oprah someday and do a million huge things for Gods kingdom with my money, Salsa dancing, laughing out loud and acting a fool with the folks that I love the most.

I'd like to meet:

I'd like to meet Oprah--she has created an empire from such humble beginnings, and she TITHED! Go her. I'd like to meet Jesus to ask him all the questions we all have that are mysteries. I'd like to meet anyone that lives their life with passion, purpose, positivity and centered on God.

Music:

the works. old funk for sure. mj (if you can do the thriller dance, Ill buy you a cookie), sade, luther (ughhh my heart broke when he passed), elementary school jams like greenday, janet of COURSE, all that old stuff my momma brought me up on like Sheila E, Teena Marie (i'm talkin square bizz to ya baaaabyyyy), etc. .. width="425" height="350" ..

Movies:

I'm a big romantic comedy fan. Also just those stupid funny movies. I dig those. Some of my favorite are the Little Mermaid (classic!), Drop Dead Fred, Dumb and Dumber, Curly Sue, and my new favorite movie The Wedding Crashers. That is soooooo funny. Oh and I HATE HATE HATE scary movies. :(

Television:

I dont watch TV. I never really have. But the shows that get me going when I do watch them are House and Greys Anatomy. And lets not forget the old school shows that I used to watch like Beverly Hills 90210 and Melrose Place. Man those shows were GARBAGE looking back on it, but did they EVER grab my attention. lol

Books:

The Bible of course, Purpose Driven Life, Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway, Your Best Life Now, If You Wanna Walk on Water You Better Get Out of the Boat, A Million Little Pieces, Captivating

Heroes:

Jesus for being persistent with me and transforming my life into this awesomeness if that is even a word. My mom who is everything to me...my best friend, my soulmate, the one who has got my back for life. My Daddy--my spiritual advisor...the one who helps me understand God's vision for financial blessing, who I look up to and run a lot of things by when I'm making certain decisions, who helps model through our relationship why "submitting" to my husband is more of a relief and blessing than something to resist or be afraid of. And lastly I'm a firm believer in the everyday heroes, the ones who realize that who they are and what they do in the smallest details of their lives can make a difference

My Blog

Who I am

I wrote this in Mid November of 2006. And I remember that writing this was so therapeutic.  I found it again on a notepad and decided to add it as a blog.  I'm not great yet at all the thing...
Posted by Nixter on Sun, 27 May 2007 03:06:00 PST

Re-fueled, MCAT, Jesus, Church

Today is starting off to be a very very nice day. I'm on the other side of town and went to a church in Costa Mesa called Newport Mesa.It was interesting because at first I was kinda apprehensive.&nbs...
Posted by Nixter on Sun, 20 May 2007 11:44:00 PST

The Right Man--How to Recognize Him!!!

I got this in an email from a friend this morning. Boy oh boy this is just perfectly timed!  God is crazy!   THE RIGHT MAN - How To Recognize Him!!!A more important question is - how do you ...
Posted by Nixter on Wed, 24 Jan 2007 10:44:00 PST

Memories

Isnt it weird how memories fade? I mean, you create them at a certain point and then all of a sudden its hard to remember.  Not only is it hard to remember facts, but its hard to remember what yo...
Posted by Nixter on Wed, 24 Jan 2007 02:23:00 PST

Nora Lyrics

Merry Christmas Vincent.  We all miss you.  Here are the lyrics to one of your favorites.  Now it's one of my favorites too. I went to see my grandma today I learned the differenc...
Posted by Nixter on Tue, 26 Dec 2006 05:35:00 PST

Captivating

So I've heard a lot about this book called Captivating.  And one day after work I was feeling kinda in a blah mood so I upped and left to Barnes and Noble and bought a few good books, that one in...
Posted by Nixter on Fri, 01 Dec 2006 12:17:00 PST

What are the Biblical guidelines for dating relationships?

God wants the best for us in every area of our lives. This includes relationships with boyfriends or girlfriends. We should date for fun, friendship, personality development and selection of a mate, n...
Posted by Nixter on Sat, 18 Nov 2006 01:58:00 PST

On Love

Then said Almitra, "Speak to us of Love." And he raised his head and looked upon the people, and there fell a stillness upon them. And with a great voice he said: When love beckons to you follow him...
Posted by Nixter on Wed, 25 Oct 2006 03:50:00 PST

GODCHICKS 2006--HECK YES!!!

Well its about 6:30 pm and I'm sitting at my office at work supposed to be preparing for open houses tomorrow but Godchicks 2006 just finished like an hour and a half ago and I'm still sooooooo pumpee...
Posted by Nixter on Sun, 15 Oct 2006 07:03:00 PST

Marriage and Babies

So I decided this time around on myspace I'm going to blog more often.  So here is what is on my heart today. Hubby and babies!  I know I know. I'm sure I sound like a typical mid twenties w...
Posted by Nixter on Tue, 10 Oct 2006 11:04:00 PST