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Cara-Bear

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About Me


I love to take languages apart in my head to see how much I can understand! I could sit down and have philosophical discussions all day, the beauty of it is that it can last even longer than you will. Either sitting and listening or even speaking. I'm currently studying massage therapy in downtown, and I feel exhilarated that I was able to find something that was made for me. Anatomy and physiology class had me thinking: Anatomy is the study of the structure of the body, and physiology is how it works. Life is the same. Science studies the structure of the universe, and philosophy explains how it works.
I feel at home in the water and/or on stage. I feel like such a big kid at heart (not to be confused with being immature), that I would describe myself as a water bender (yay Avatar reference, awesome show, lol).
What is it about love?? I think if I were to see the perfect man walking down the street I would run in the other direction because I know he can't exist. I'm not perfect, I would never claim to be perfect, so how could I expect someone perfect to exist. I believe life to be about balance. I'm imperfect, but to me finding love isn't about finding the perfect love. It's about being with someone that balances my imperfections with his...perfectly, lol. Well, not perfect, only because you gotta work for something in this life.
I'm drawn to people who can be true to themselves and over all being who you are (Disclaimer: saying you're "real" and actually being real are still two completely different things. Incidentally if you do know the difference then you'd probably be another person I'd get along with, haha). I'm drawn to people that have fairly long profiles on myspace. To be honest it's why I decided to redo mine. People who know the difference between love and being in love. I want to love you I love you as a friend long before I can ever tell you as a lover. You can add me, you can talk to me, let's see what happens. I always love new friends.

Just some stuff that I've heard or said that has affected my life:

Ever heard "if god intended man to fly, he would have been born with wings"? True, to an extent. So instead, so he could soar, man was born with dreams.

-Me

"I take my coffee like I take my women...oh wait, I don't drink coffee"

-Me

"Living is the easy part, it's making it count that's hard."

-Ma' (My Mother)

"The best advice I can give you is to lie, cheat, steal, and drink. If you're going to lie, lie to save a friend, if you're going to cheat, cheat death, if you're going to steal, steal the heart of the one you love, and if you're going to drink, drink with me!"

-Old Irish Proverb

"Sometimes the only reason to live is to find the only reason to die"

-(can't remember)

"You see Jean Valjean's thing is, I'm always gon' be the punk that did that crime, but I claim responsibility for it. But I'm also a man, and I claim the right to change my life"

-Omar Epps (From Conviction)


you're a cock tease... giggling and flirting tend
to be your weapons, but you're not a whore, for
your flirting is too friendly for that! boys
fall in love with you and you don't even know
it!
what type of gay boi are you?
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Your Seduction Style: The Natural
You don't really try to seduce people... it just seems to happen. Fun loving and free spirited, you bring out the inner child in people. You are spontaneous, sincere, and unpretentious - a hard combo to find! People drop their guard around you, and find themselves falling fast. What Is Your Seduction Style?
Morpheus
?? Which Of The Greek Gods Are You ??
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Your element is Light. Your heart is pure and
shining with love. You believe in the goodness
of those around you and give almost everyone a
smile. You are not the kind to hide your
happiness and tend to smile all day long, both
in and out. But when sadness hits you, you
become very devastated and may be upset for
quite some time. What you need in your life is
friends, friends who will love you
unconditionally, like you love them. But you
have a naive nature and don't always notice
when someone is trying to hurt you. Some would
say you are oblivious to mean people, which
makes you an easy target. However, your true
friends will probably be there for you and save
you. In school you are either the popular one
or the little weird one. It all depends if
"the higher people" find your caring
side irritating or not. Nevertheless, you have
a bubbly personality and are social. Big partys
may not be your thing since you want bonding
time with your friends, so slumber-partys fit
you more. You like the happy things in life and
like everyone else to be as happy as you are.
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What is your element? [with pics + detailed answeres]
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Your sexual hidden talent is your ability to use your mind. Sex is mostly in your mind and to your partners delight you have mastered the arts of seduction and atmosphere.
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You Are The Wheel of Fortune
You represent the cycles of life, death, and rebirth.
You embrace change, the the ups and downs of life.
Fate is something you accept, even when you could possibly change things.
Big things tend to happen to you more than other people.
Your fortune:
Something huge is about to happen in your life, and you have little control over it.
You must accept your destiny, but luckily it is good fortune that has come your way.
Big things and big changes are about to come your way.
And while things will be intense for a while, they will be followed by a period of rest. What Tarot Card Are You?
The Movie Of Your Life Is A Black Comedy
In your life, things are so twisted that you just have to laugh.
You may end up insane, but you'll have fun on the way to the asylum.
Your best movie matches: Being John Malkovich, The Royal Tenenbaums, American Psycho If Your Life Was a Movie, What Genre Would It Be?
You Are 80% Psychic
You are so very psychic.
But you already predicted that, didn't you?
You have "the gift" - and you use it daily to connect with others.
You're very tapped into the world around you...
Just make sure to use your powers for good! Are You Psychic?
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Love or Lust?

MY RESULT: Love


Hearts and rainbows all the way - you’re a total romantic.
Animal lust is nice, but you’d rather be in love with someone before you start tearing them apart. When you’re in a relationship, you generally treat the other person really well. You don’t cheat, and you’re respectful of their differences. And when you’re not in a relationship, you’re selective about the people you choose to kiss or even get crushes on.
You’ve got a great thing going on, but don’t be afraid of letting that animal side come out every now and then. A couple bite marks never hurt anyone (much).

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You Are 5: The Investigator
You're independent - and a logical analytical thinker.
You love learning and ideas... and know things no one else does.
Bored by small talk, you refuse to participate in boring conversations.
You are open minded. A visionary. You understand the world and may change it.
At Your Best: You are sharp, inventive, and creative. You have the skills to lead the world.
At Your Worst: You are reclusive, weird, and a bit paranoid.
Your Fixation: Greed
Your Primary Fear: Being useless or incompetent
Your Primary Desire: Being competent and needed
Other Number 5's: Bill Gates, John Lennon, Kurt Cobain, Bjork, and Stephen Hawking. What Number Are You?
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My Interests

Performing arts and, very recently, poetry, music of course (very eccelctic, see below) funniest thing ever!
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I'd like to meet:

People who know what they want, and respect the fact that other people may want different things.

Music:

Anything and everything, and yes, that includes country!

Movies:

Moulin Rouge, Chicago, Donnie Darko, Practical Magic, Miss Congeniality, Showgirls, Demolition man, Meatballs, Porkys Trilogy, Titanic, Who Framed Roger Rabbit, Child's Play, American Beauty, Harold and Kumar Go To White Castle, Dead and Loving it, Spaceballs, History of the World, Bruce Almighty, The Scary Movie Trilogy, Night of the Living Dead, Dawn of the Dead, The Craft, Phantasm, El Espinazo Del Diablo, Y Tú Mama Tambien, Big Fish, The Nightmare before Christmas, Star Wars Trilogy, All Lethal Weapons, The Matrix Trilogy, Scream Trilogy, Saved, Ghost, Stepmom, Erin Brokovich, Mothman Prophecies, South Park Bigger Longer And uncut, Queens of Comedy, Brown Sugar, Tales From the Hood, Waiting to Exhale, The Polar Bear King, The lion King, Naked Gun Movies, Last American Virgin, Camp, Get Real, Tremors, Superman Movies, Event Horizon, The Ring, Steel Magnolias, El Mariachi, The Harry Potter Movies, Beavis and But Head DO america, National Lampoons European Vacation, National Lampoons Christmas Vacation, National Lampoons Vegas Vacation, Puppet Master Series, Dr. Mordred, Joes Apartment, Spiderman Trilogy, Robin Hood: Men in tights, The Net, May Meet The Fockers, Medea: Diary of A Mad Black Woman and many more to come...

Television:

Whenever I get the chance it's: Charmed, The Daily Show, Family Guy, The Nanny, Golden Girls, Angel, Buffy, Mad TV, SNL, and some anime

Books:

Parable of the sower, The Dark Tower Series, The Stand

Heroes:

Mostly members of my family. Mother, and Grandmother.

My Blog

An Apple a day (relationships)

-----------------Guys----------------- -----------are like apples------------ -------on trees. The best ones-------- -----are at the top of the tree------- -----Other guys dont want to reach---- ...
Posted by Cara-Bear on Fri, 14 Mar 2008 10:25:00 PST

Remember The Mayonaise Jar and The 2 Cups of Coffee!

When things in your lives seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of coffee. A professor stood before his philosophy class an...
Posted by Cara-Bear on Wed, 02 Jan 2008 03:56:00 PST

"God Does Not Exist..."

"...God Simply Is"I think that to say that God "exists" is a way for people to try to control the major driving force of the universe in order to try to comprehend the craziness of what life brings. I...
Posted by Cara-Bear on Tue, 13 Nov 2007 12:56:00 PST

My Personality type: The ENFP

ENFP - THE INSPIRER (THE CHAMPION) BRIEF OVERVIEW ENFPs are open-minded, imaginative, caring and outgoing. They thrive on the drama of life by observing everything enthusiastically and associating mea...
Posted by Cara-Bear on Wed, 31 Oct 2007 10:25:00 PST