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Stevie est. 1989

I think that somehow, we learn who we really are and then live with that decision. - Eleanor Rooseve

About Me


My name is Steven. I go to Grinnell College. I am from Los Angeles. I like to go to the movies, out to eat, work, go clubbing, and just hang out with people. I am generally a happy person. I try to make the best out of my situations. My friendships mean the world to me. I do not get offended very easily. I do not like to argue, because I am very bad at it. I am honest. If I have a problem, I speak up. I am a fatty; I love to eat.

I care about my academics, but they are not my entire life, I am sure I will suffer for that later. I think that I have found a happy medium between school and my social life. I drink moderately. I do not do drugs. I do not smoke cigarettes except for very very vey very very rare occasions....

I am all about respect. Respect for the people around you. Be tolerant of other people ideas and views, and respect the thoughts of others. Everyone is entitled to his or her opinion. I will let you know if I disagree with you though.

I do not talk shit, but I tell the truth, and I always side with the person that I feel is right, regardless of their position in my life.

Because I live in a world that is not black and white, I have a hard time making decisions. I don’t think that there is a clear cut answer to any situation, or that there are only two sides to every story.

I love doing art projects, and I am going to try majoring in art and sociology. I want to be a teacher when I “grow up”. I believe that the only way to fix the problems of our society is to educate our children. My biggest dream is to one day open up my own school.

I am scared of spiders, hell anything with more than four legs, and even a few critters that have four legs. No wild rodents (except rats I cannot deal with them no matter what), no snakes.

I am gay. I want a husband and kids one day, probably two. I hope that by the time I am ready for marriage I will actually be able to get married, if not I will be fine with a life partner.

I have two brothers and a sister. They are my life, my love, and my happiness. Without them, my world would come to an end.

I suppose that is all that I can talk about right now, ask me if you have any other questions.


My Interests


I really think this is something that you should ask me about. I told you the basics though. Movies, music, food, clubs and school.

I'd like to meet:

Who would I like to meet?

ANYONE!

I am really into understanding other people’s cultures; I like meeting new, interesting, and exciting people. Sometimes I might not seem very approachable, at least that is what people have told me, but try because I like meeting people.

I am tolerant and accepting of people, so just say “HI!” and I will probably nod and smile, its not that I don’t like you, its just that is how I say hi.

I'd like to meet a nice guy... who wants a relationship... and who doesn't want to just fuck around... a guy that loves to cuddle, and just sit around and watch movies, someone i can just hang out with and be perfectly happy... someone who loves me for me...who will let me wear his clothes just to have his smell with me...i.e... the love of my life... lol... but, I haven't been able to find him yet... i hope he is out there... well, i know he is out there... i just have to find him... :)

"Throughout life people will make you mad, disrespect you and treat you bad. Let God deal with the things they do cause hate in your heart will consume you, too." Will Smith

“From the wetlands all the way to the Apollo, if you broke she spittin’ if you rich she might swallow… for the ends" Everlast

"It does not do to dwell on dreams and forget to live." J. K. Rowling, Harry Potter and the Sorcerer's Stone, 1997

“Behind every argument is someone’s ignorance.” Brandeis

"Some think it's holding on that makes one strong; sometimes it's letting go." Sylvia Robinson

"Success isn't permanent, and failure isn't fatal." Mike Ditka

"Aim for success, not perfection. Never give up your right to be wrong, because then you will lose the ability to learn new things and move forward with your life." Dr. David M. Burns

"Jesse Helms and Newt Gingrich were shaking hands congratulating themselves on the introduction of an anti-gay bill in Congress. If it passes, they won't be able to shake hands, because it will then be illegal for a prick to touch an asshole." Judy Carter

"War. Rape. Murder. Poverty. Equal rights for gays. Guess which one the Southern Baptist Convention is protesting?" The Value of Families

“Why can't they have gay people in the army? Personally, I think they are just afraid of a thousand guys with M16s going, "Who'd you call a faggot?" Jon Stewart

“Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.” Dr. Seuss


Music:

Oh my God I can’t even list everyone! Ok here’s the deal I’m VERY eclectic. I like ALL different types of music, as long as I can understand what the hell they are saying. Here are a few of the artists I really like; I don’t have a favorite one in particular.

Movies:

I really like alot of movies. I can basically say word for word like all the early Disney movies.

Television:

Project Runway. America's Next Top Model. Tila Tequila.

Books:

A Brave New World

Fahrenheit 451

1984

A Tale of Two Cities

Harry Potter Books (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6)

The Adventures of Alice in Wonderland and Through the Looking Glass

Gullivers Travels

Series of Unfortunat events (ALL)

The Adventures of Huckleberry Finn

THE BFG

The Crucible

THE DEVIL WEARS PRADA!!

The Scarlet Letter

The Wind in the Willows

The Witch of Blackbird Pond

WICKED

Heroes:

I have one and only one hero.... Jennifer Playstead - because she stands up for what she believes in no matter what. She is a wonderful person all around. I wish that one day I will be able to have one person look up to me in the way so many do to her now.

My Blog

Gay Parents... wtf? why not!

What is a family? This is the question that we have to ask ourselves when discussing the issue of gay and lesbian men and women forming families. To many, the family is a public institution that is sa...
Posted by Stevie est. 1989 on Sun, 12 Aug 2007 11:24:00 PST

Personal Statement...

We as a society collectively assume that growing up with divorced parents creates a "dysfunctional" family and is a bad thing. I disagree. I do not know how many people who read this will have been ra...
Posted by Stevie est. 1989 on Sun, 12 Aug 2007 11:49:00 PST

Excerpts form letters to ppl i love

[In a letter to Grandma] I have decided that I am going to try and go out of state. And in my junior year I want to study abroad so I have to get a college that will allow me to do that. I have abso...
Posted by Stevie est. 1989 on Tue, 14 Feb 2006 11:41:00 PST