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Kimi- the best MOH ever!

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About Me


My name Kimi, known to some as KIMA'! I was born in Japan, but have no Japanese in my blood. I am half Asian though, so my eyes are a little slanted. I am living in PA, and am a chick on wheels b/c I have Spinal Muscular Atrophy type 2 (a type of MD). My fiance Eric just recently passed away. I miss him so much. He was the love of my life, my soulmate, and the reason I got up each morning. This is a difficult time in my life, but I know Eric and God will help me get through this. Eric was an angel on earth but now joins the true angels in Heaven. RIP Eric, I will always love you.
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I have a great sister Crystal, who presently works at Jefferson Hospital in Nuc Med. She was my first true best friend. She's a loving sister who accepts me for who I am. She's helped me become the person I am today by not hesitating to tell me I'm being a bitch. I will be forever thankful for her support and friendship through out my life.
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I attended Immaculata University w/a major in Bio/Chem. I graduated Summa Cum Laude in 2001. I made GREAT, ADMIRABLE, INSPIRING, and LOYAL friends there including my sorority sisters of Tau Phi! I love hanging out w/them. Every time I see one of them, they have me laughing until my eyes tear and on occasion made me pee my pants. Their love, unselfish ways, and generosity got me through college and I'll be forever grateful (especially to the BW club). I should give props to Vanilla Wizard here too. Without that, most of my friends would have ex-communicated me.
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I am now pursuing my Masters in Bioethics at the University of Pennsylvania. I am done all my final classes (YIPPEE) and need to complete my research thesis. I am currently taking a hiatus.
If I had to describe myself I'd say I'm a combination of many different attributes. I'd like to think I'm sensitive, romantic, loving, thoughtful, and caring. I love to make friends and be social. I think I'm fairly brave, brutally honest, love to joke. and firm. I've been told I take Salt n Peppa's song "Let's Talk About Sex" to heart b/c I'm blessed w/the ability to talk to anyone about sex.
I'm not scared to tell you what I think especially if you piss me off. I try to think quickly which sometimes makes me speak too quickly. I'm obviously very opinionated. I like to debate about anything.
My number one goal in life is to inspire others to do their best. I personally need to learn how to be thankful for what I have and hopefully in the process teach others the same. Oh, and I don't want to grow up and be just ordinary.
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Used to be Eric, hanging out w/my cool friends, used to be kissing Eric, butterflies, used to be making out with Eric, talking til I can't anymore, used to be hanging out w/Eric, trying to finish my Masters degree, used to be being Eric's freaky fiance, shopping, I LOVE Starbucks Mocha Frap and DD's Iced Mocha Lattes, scrapbooking mini albums, collecting panties and lingerie, and did I mention I really MISS Eric?

I also serve as a member at large on the PA CLAC (Community Living Advisory Committee) which gives recommendations to the Governor and Secretory of Public Welfare on policies regarding the disabled and HBCS (Home Based Community Services).

I'd like to meet:

Anyone from BASH, Immaculata, Tau Phi, MDA camp, or has a disability and would like to chat. I also want to meet new people who can show me different views on life and challenge me to be a better person.

WHO I DON'T WANT TO MEET: Desperate men that cannot speak proper english who send mass emails to girls trying to score a love life.

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Music:

I love Pop, Rap, and R&B. Some of my favorite groups/singers are Eminem, Pussycat Dolls, Rihanna, Destiny's Child, Beyonce, Black Eyed Peas, 50 cent, Gwen Stefanie, Kanye West, Maroon 5, Kelly Clarkson, Mary J. Blige, Lil Kim, Mariah Carey, etc (I think you get the picture).My fiance and I have many "songs." Some include Pretty Baby by Vanessa Carlton, I Could Not Ask for More by Edwin McCain, Candy Shop by 50 cent, and Stickwitu by the Pussycat Dolls.
Pink - Who Knew lyrics

Movies:

American Pie, City of Angels, Cruel Intentions, Titanic, Harry Potter Movies...
Favorite Quotes:
"Life is not measured by the breathes we take, but by the moments that take our breath away." --Unknown
"I wish I never found out what I was missing." --Anonymous
"You are my favorite hello and hardest goodbye." -- Unknown
"We fit together..." --Seth "City of Angels"
"When they ask me what I liked best, I'll tell them, it was you." -- Maggie Rice in the movie "City of Angels"
"Never date a guy who knows more about your vagina than you do." -- Ann in the movie "City of Angels"
"You were born an original. Don't die a copy." -- John Mason.
"There is only one happiness in life, to love and be loved." -- George Sand
"...I just don't understand how God would let us meet, if there is no way for us to be together..." --from the movie "City of Angels"
"I would rather have three minutes of wonderful than a lifetime of nothing special." --from the movie "Steel Magnolias"
"I would rather have tasted her lips just once, touched her skin, one time, and made love to her for one night, than spend the rest of my life without ever knowing that." --Seth from the movie "City of Angels"
"Loss has been part of my journey, but it also taught me what was precious." --from the movie "Message in a Bottle"
"Good friends are hard to find, harder to leave, and impossible to forget." --Unknown
"I'd give up forever to touch you." -- from the movie "City of Angels"
"Some things are true whether you believe in them or not." -- Seth from the movie "City of Angels"
"It's not that chocolates are a substitute for love. Love is a substitute for chocolate. Chocolate is, let's face it, far more reliable than a man." -- Miranda Ingram
"Even if our eyes never meet again, you will always be in my thoughts. Whenever a breeze brushes by me and I smile for no reason at all, it is because someone once taught me how, and for that I thank you." -- Unknown.
"There are moments in life when you miss someone so much that you just want to pick them from your dreams and hug them." -- Unknown
"Death cannot stop true love; what it can do is delay it for a while." -- from the movie "The Princess Bride."
"The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart." -- Helen Keller

Television:

I love Desperate Housewives and Gray's Anatomy!

Books:

Me? Read? What's that???

Heroes:

Jesus, Eric, My sister Crystal, My friends Megan, CJ, Toni, MAT, and Christy, and Oprahimg src="http://hotprofileplus.com/myspacegraphics/images/banner s/prod_659_19235.jpg"

My Blog

Getting a new family AND their drama!

Today I went to Nick's graduation party.  He is now Dr. Nicholas Petruzzi!!  I'm very proud of him!  The party was fun.  I got to see his crazy family again.  It's n...
Posted by Kimi- the best MOH ever! on Mon, 02 Jun 2008 06:24:00 PST

1 down, 1 more to go....

1 wedding down, 1 to go.If only it was that simple.  Weddings should be a joyous time, right?  Then why aren't I filled w/joy to be in two??  I know the answer to that ? is obvious, but...
Posted by Kimi- the best MOH ever! on Fri, 30 May 2008 09:33:00 PST

Its over 1 year....

Well, the 1 year anniversary of Eric's death has come and gone.  It was almost 3 weeks ago.  I've been so busy that I haven't even written a blog about it.  That whole day just did not ...
Posted by Kimi- the best MOH ever! on Fri, 09 May 2008 04:31:00 PST

V-day, Match Day, Showers, and Anniversaries

I haven't updated everyone in a while.  I highly doubt anyone really cares, but blogging is a way I can write down and organize my thoughts.  Lots has happened since I wrote last. ...
Posted by Kimi- the best MOH ever! on Sun, 13 Apr 2008 04:00:00 PST

Do you feel sexy when you are in pain?

Here's an article I found that I will comment on below.   How To Feel Sexy When You Are In Pain? I have to tell you, it feels quite odd to write about sex... or being sexy... but hey, what are th...
Posted by Kimi- the best MOH ever! on Sun, 17 Feb 2008 02:32:00 PST

Resolutions for 2008

I'm finally getting around to writing down my resolutions, or what I used to call revolutions as a kid.Every year I always say I want to be a better person.  I know it's cheesy, but I think this ...
Posted by Kimi- the best MOH ever! on Sat, 19 Jan 2008 09:16:00 PST

All Anew

Happy New Year!  Xmas has come and gone, thank God.  It was defintely one of my worst Christmas's to date.  No I take that back, I believe it was the worst.  Aside from it being th...
Posted by Kimi- the best MOH ever! on Fri, 18 Jan 2008 08:57:00 PST

Soulmates

I was reading a blog of an acquaintance I know thru disability webgroups.  She always has interesting blogs.  She had one about soulmates and whether we can have more than 1 in our life...
Posted by Kimi- the best MOH ever! on Fri, 18 Jan 2008 09:01:00 PST

My Christmas Letter

I've been trying to get myself in the Xmas mood and I'm failing miserably.  Maybe I'm trying too hard.  I guess that's better than not trying at all.  I probably should just accept that...
Posted by Kimi- the best MOH ever! on Sun, 09 Dec 2007 09:14:00 PST

Over the 6 months mark

Well it's been a while since I've posted, but nothing really exciting has happened.  It's been over 6 months since Eric died.  Ironically, like the 3 month anniversary, I spent the 6 month a...
Posted by Kimi- the best MOH ever! on Mon, 05 Nov 2007 10:41:00 PST