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...ever thine, ever mine, ever ours...

About Me


No one ever told me I was pretty when I was a little girl. All little girls should be told they're pretty, even if they aren't.
--Marilyn Monroe

DON'T HATE ME ELLAINE BUT I LOVE THIS VIDEO OF US. ONCE AGAIN, I AM SORRY. HAHAHA
i believe that beauty is best manifested by simplicity. i find happiness in small, everyday things. i love my family and i choose my friends. i've long since learned that you have to live with the consequences of each decision that you make. i grew up in comfort but I chose to break away from being an over-indulged princess (as my friend jayson usually calls me) and make it on my own... and you know what? IT FEELS SOOOO GOOD! i am just glad that my family is 100% supportive and proud of my efforts. I am doing it all for my baby SEAN, who is my #1 love-love. He is the sum of all my decisions.
i am probably the kindest person you will ever meet--just steer clear of me when I am in one of my moods because I can get pretttty catty. I refuse to take bullshit from anybody. low-maintenance. power-shopper, bargain-hunter. bookworm. movie junkie. i cry at weddings and romantic movie endings. i laugh at anything, even corny jokes. i laugh at people messing up--sometimes to their face, and sometimes in secret (especially when it's kinda mean to laugh at them). i have the appetite of a 14 year old boy on a growth spurt. adventurous with a wild imagination. domestic diva-slash-stepford wife: i am a good cook, i love doing laundry and i like to clean BUT i draw the line at ironing clothes and yard work. i love getting massages and pedicures. independent. self-sufficient. proud. music-lover. i like getting silly--wrestling and tickling matches with Dash, car games with my siblings, jumping on the bed with Sean. crazy. impatient. i'm a cuddly sleeper. =) i dispense unsolicited advice. i am a very poised klutz. affectionate. former 'wild child' tamed by motherhood and kept grounded by a loving, committed--if not always so perfect--relationship. go figure.
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My Interests

my pride and joy, SEAN--motherhood, my man, family; my job, train rides, weekends in san diego, nice purses, skin care, MAC makeup, TARGET! finding closet space, TV (i am a big fan of the idiot box!), netflix, going to the movies; books, books and more books, and GOSSIP MAGAZINES; music; good food; phone calls to and from my family; travel; LIFE!

**....WHAT'S WRONG WITH THIS PICTURE? I DON'T SEE ANYTHING UNUSUAL....**

**Hold on tight babe...**

**my pride and joy--little baby Sean**

**ummm... the love of my life--big baby Dash**

I'd like to meet:

people who strive to be different--who embrace their inner weirdos with much passion and gusto. i'd like to cross paths with people who look at the mirror every morning before going to work and and tell themselves: "you suck. BUT as long as you walk in there like you own the place, they're never gonna catch on that you still don't know what you're doing."

"You know how when you were a little kid and you believed in fairy tales, that fantasy of what your life would be, white dress, prince charming who would carry you away to a castle on a hill. You would lie in bed at night and close your eyes and you had complete and utter faith. Santa Claus, the Tooth Fairy, Prince Charming, they were so close you could taste them, but eventually you grow up, one day you open your eyes and the fairy tale disappears. Most people turn to the things and people they can trust. But the thing is its hard to let go of that fairy tale entirely cause almost everyone has that smallest bit of hope, of faith, that one day they will open their eyes and it will come true."
-Meredith Grey, "GREY's ANATOMY"

Music:

I like all kinds--I am a big lyric girl, though.

Movies:

i love chick flicks so that pretty much covers a lot of the movies i like. tyler perry's movies. the pianist. interview with a vampire. pleasantville. saw 1,2,3. logan's run. margaret cho's stand-up comedy movies. disney movies. evita. jim carey's movies. the devil's advocate. blue moon. the first wives club. catch me if you can. the terminal. the joy-luck club. what women want. braveheart. face/off. city of angels. the chronicles of narnia. lord of the rings. kill bill 1 & 2.

Television:

Heroes. The Outer Limits. Grey's Anatomy. Twilight Zone. FRIENDS. Sex and the City. Two-and-a-Half Men. Gossip Girl. Wife Swap. Cheaters. Conan O'Brien. MADTv. One Tree Hill. America's Next Top Model.

Books:

i love books--here are a few of the authors i love: GRISHAM, dan brown, AMY TAN, stephen king, JESSICA ZAFRA, bob ong, MARGARET GEORGE, wei hui; i also loved the POST SECRET BOOKS, fast food fiction, young blood, classics, memoirs of a geisha, the velveteen rabbit, archie comics and gossip magazines.

Heroes:

God, Jesus Christ and my parents--obviously, they are more than heroes to me, I can't even explain it... so let's see who else makes my list...
my son, Sean, who gave my life direction, and whom i want to be a hero in return; my babe, dash--my partner, my confidante, my comedian, the man whom i am going to have arthritis with; my cousin nikka, who is the voice of reason that keeps ringing in my ears; my grandparents who are the strongest people I know; my sister michelle who has the biggest heart--she loves and gives unconditionally; and me--because i never give up on myself.

My Blog

YOU LOOK LIKE SHREK

...really you do.  and yes, i am being catty and maybe a tad mean, but you really are ugly. people who tell you otherwise are either your friends, liars (which also means your friends are li...
Posted by -a-N-i-C-i-a- on Sun, 12 Oct 2008 07:00:00 PST

SWAMP DONKEY!

WHAT ARE SWAMP DONKEYS? according to the Urban Dictionary, (http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=swamp+donkey &defid=1066263) Swamp Donkey A very ugly, usually fat, girl who hangs around...
Posted by -a-N-i-C-i-a- on Wed, 08 Oct 2008 03:10:00 PST

kicking ass

today is the day.  BOXING CLASSES TODAY! YAY! i'm gonna be kicking all your asses.  haha.   i am so excited!
Posted by -a-N-i-C-i-a- on Tue, 30 Sep 2008 08:07:00 PST

they say the reason it’s called PMS is because MAD COW DISEASE is already taken. Shut uuuuup!

i hate this.  ihatethisihatethisihatethisihatethisihatethisIHATETHIS ! after almost a week of prancing around feeling happy and excited and mushy, i got a swift pull back to reality. and what els...
Posted by -a-N-i-C-i-a- on Fri, 19 Sep 2008 01:34:00 PST

So. Yeah.

Ok, so I am moody. Boo-frickity-hoo.  I don't get why he keeps on complaining about my temper--the way i see it, if you've known me for a long time and had been victimized by me an...
Posted by -a-N-i-C-i-a- on Mon, 08 Sep 2008 12:31:00 PST

KILL, KILL, KILL! -- I F*CKING HATE KIDZ BOP!

kidz bop is in my friggin' top 10 hate list. die die die kidz bop!   please sign this petition people, and help us get rid of this evil:   http://www.petitionspot.com/petitions/stopkidbop &n...
Posted by -a-N-i-C-i-a- on Fri, 29 Aug 2008 12:49:00 PST

I WISH I COULD STOP BEING ANGRY

On good days I would be singing in the shower. Getting dressed and putting on my makeup, I'd feel like the most beautiful woman in the world. I'd feel so blessed. And happy. And perfect...
Posted by -a-N-i-C-i-a- on Tue, 12 Aug 2008 01:17:00 PST

why you shouldn’t drink coke and eat sundaes at night

...because you get all hyper and can't sleep.  anyway, had a great weekend.  i am glad i had to go to oceanside instead of him coming down here where it was 97 degrees. oceanside was breezy...
Posted by -a-N-i-C-i-a- on Mon, 11 Aug 2008 01:09:00 PST

F for FUGLY

I have an aversion for ugly things, so I don't know why I seek them out. My usual reaction for ugly things is "aaaw... what a shame."  But these just make me go "What the hell were they thinking?...
Posted by -a-N-i-C-i-a- on Sat, 09 Aug 2008 11:24:00 PST

WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU FUCKING CHEAT ON ME

Staring at the ceiling, seeing nothing Hearing nothing, feeling nothing I am paralyzed with pain in the darkness of this room, my mind confused and my spirit in ruins As I try to make sense of what ha...
Posted by -a-N-i-C-i-a- on Sat, 28 Jun 2008 04:35:00 PST