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I posted this background because it is a cause I hold dear to me. I have lost 4 people in the last 2 years to breast cancer. All women, especially African - American need to remember to do self breast exams and have mammograms. It is a silent killer and many times, by the time it is caught, it is too late. Breast cancer can be treated and cured if found in time. If you would like to know how to help, drop me a note. Thanks.A friend sent me this message that a man posted onis blog. Reading it was like a breath of fresh air. Maybe finally some men are getting it........."I know way too many really beautiful girls who think they don't look good... It hurts... Because it's our fault, guys I mean. We make girls feel like they have to be perfect. You know what I mean, flat stomach, big boobs, round booty, long legs, sexy lips, and on top of all that, they have to dress like a whore, and be one as well... Nobody can measure up to that... And its not fair... Because nobody should have to. Girls prefer being called beautiful instead of hott or sexy. The little imperfections are what make people special. If everyone was perfect the world would be so boring, variety is what makes life interesting. So guys, stop making girls have to live up to your, I'm sorry, our... Deluded fantasy visions of perfection. Stop acting like boys and start being men... Realize that women don't exist to fufill our sexual desires. Stop talking to them solely to get with them, be nice to them because you want to be their friend, not because you want to hook up with them. Say nice things about them not to flatter them in hopes that you'll get some, but because its true and you know they like to hear them. In short... We need to grow up and stop acting like freakin retarded little boys."Author Unknown

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