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Turd Ferguson

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"Love me without fear
Trust me without questioning
Need me without demanding
Want me without restrictions
Accept me without change
Desire me without inhibitions."
Dick Sutphen
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CREDO
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesnt want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop lying to change yourself for a relationship thats not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you cant be friends. A friend wouldnt mistreat a friend. Dont settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Dont stay because you think it will get better. Youll be mad at yourself a year later for staying, when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Avoid men who have got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didnt marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently? Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. You cannot change a mans behavior. Change comes from within. Dont EVER make him feel he is more important than you are... even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less. Never let a man define who you are! Never borrow someone elses man. If he cheated with you, hell cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs. You should not be the one doing all the bending... compromise is two way street. You need time to heal between relationships... there is nothing cute about baggage... Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you... a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals.., look for someone complimentary.., not supplementary. Dating is fun... even if he doesnt turn out to be Mr. Right. Make him miss you sometimes... when a man always know where you are, and youre always readily available to him - he takes it for granted. Never move into his mothers house. Never co-sign for a man. Dont fully commit to a man who doesnt give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
They say "Love is a Battlefield"
Once you feel like giving up..remember the reason you held on for so long.....
Life brings us down many roads... We come to intersections and we have to choose to go right, left or keep walking straight ahead... We learn that walking straight is the easy way out.. Sometimes we close our eyes and just go whatever way we think is the most exciting even though we are deep down telling ourselves that its not safe for us... hearts get broken and people become more cautious not giving other people the same chance as the ones they met before.... But with each road and each person you experience you get to know a little more about yourself... You are strong... You have things that no one can take away from you... You have a choice to turn down a road or just look blindly ahead... And you have a choice to learn from your mistakes in life... You should regret nothing because every good time and every struggle has made you who you are today!!!
Well I love to talk. Talking is my favorite!! I love to go for long drives and walking on the beach with Jacob. I love going dancing and drinking with my girls. Eating hotdogs with Jessica and singing all night long makes me laugh for hours. I enjoy disney movies and playing at Toys R Us. I am a big kid. I LOVE WILL FERRELL!!!!!! He is super funny and sexy.... I guess you probably wouldnt understand.
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My Interests

football, cars, partying, playing at the park, eating hotdogs with Jess, dancing, massage, aromatherapy, spa, photography, and camping, playing poker with my girls and jacob, beer pong......

I'd like to meet:

Fun people. People who have a sense of humor. My loved ones who are no longer with us. RIP SUNSHINE AKA SUNNIE LYNN COOK, RICHARD PAUL HARTZELL, ANGELA LA ROSA, GREAT GRANDMA ERMA LA ROSA!!! I'll Be Missing You

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Music:

Country, rap, hip/hop, r&b, 80's

Movies:

Remember the Titans, Aladin, Lion King, Any Given Sunday, Bio-Dome, Hitch, Elf, Beauty and the Beast, House of wax, Saw, Dumb and Dumber, Beaches, Taledega Nights, Open Season, The Wild

Television:

Tattoos I will get!!!

Books:


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Heroes:

Anyone who puts on a uniform and saves a life. Whether it a soldier, cop, or a doctor. And all of those single parents who do everything they can to raise their kids. And all my friends. They are always there when I fall or stumble. They help me get through the hard times and always manage to put a smile on my face. I LOVE YOU GUYS!!!!god bless america

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Lots of news

Been having a lot of problems with my health but finally found a doctor who believes me enough to try to help. My boyfriend is going to afgahanistan for a year i wont see him for 15 months. I am sca...
Posted by Turd Ferguson on Wed, 24 Oct 2007 06:53:00 PST

"De Ja Vu" By Tony Classic

A young lady has met a good man that makes her feel so so gorgeous.. I mean inside/out, I mean he's all she thinks about.. But she wonders is this too good to be true. Ask herself what should she do. ...
Posted by Turd Ferguson on Thu, 03 May 2007 04:30:00 PST

Dear Alcohol

Dear Alcohol, First and foremost, let me tell you that I'm a huge fan of yours. As my friend, you always seem to be there when needed. The perfect post-work cocktail, a beer at the game, and you're ev...
Posted by Turd Ferguson on Sat, 21 Apr 2007 11:41:00 PST

I have problems!!!

I know I have problems and I can admit that!!! I drink too much and sometimes way to often. I argue and fight a lot. I am very stubborn. I have low self esteem. I also get into peoples business someti...
Posted by Turd Ferguson on Mon, 19 Mar 2007 08:53:00 PST

I MISS YOU!!!!

I am missing some really important people right now!!! I miss my sister who lives up in tacoma... We fight all the time but I love her very much and I wouldnt trade her for a new one.... I miss my b...
Posted by Turd Ferguson on Tue, 05 Dec 2006 03:28:00 PST

CREDO

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from hear...
Posted by Turd Ferguson on Fri, 10 Mar 2006 08:47:00 PST