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deb....lessons learned

I am trying to put tomorrow in the past.

About Me

I am who I am. I am a mother of 3 boys. Greg 24y/o, Tim 21 y/o, and Trevor just turned 17 and is now a senior in high-school. It does not seem possible. . I have been married for, in October, will be the big 25 years! Believe me, there were times we didn’t think we would ever make it. But we….. almost have. My husband Bryan and I really have been blessed over the years, despite all of the dark skies and turmoil that we have endured. The summer is quickly slipping by and in just a few weeks Greg and Tim will be headed out to Lubbock for college. This is actually bitter-sweet for me because I just love having all of my boys at home and really hate it when the time comes for them to leave. This year however, Tim has decided to stay a little closer to home. He attended his first three years of college at Embry-Riddle Aeronautical University in Prescott Arizona. After a lot of consideration and praying he has decided to attend Texas Tech, so now, he will only be a few hours away as opposed to 12 hours away. Whew….Thanks Tim. Now I only have to go through 2 hours of worry when you hit the road instead of 12. I think it’s really cool that he and Greg will be attending the same University. I have the greatest sons I could ever ask for. I have been truly blessed. Negativity brings me down faster than anything. Life is too short for all of that. I want to surround myself with people who embrace life and like to laugh and have fun. Sometimes the best therapy is laughter. So, with all of that, here’s the bad news. I came down with Multiple Sclerosis at age 23. It hit hard and fast. I was in a wheelchair for a few years at first and now it’s off and on, depending on how often I have exacerbations. Trevor was 8 months old when I was diagnosed. I used to tie his walker onto my wheelchair and we did just fine! For about the first….14 years of this disease I would ask my Dr. if he was sure that it was MS. lol . IT has only been in the last few years that I have accepted the diagnosis. Denial is a powerful thing and actually helps us get through some tough times. I was able to finish up my degree and raise 3 boys. Now that they’re almost all grown up, I suddenly feel tired. But not too tired to laugh!!!!!!Glitter Graphics
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My Blog

Putting Tomorro in the Past

Putting Tomorrow in the PastI've been in my house since Saturday (now Wednesday) and a new chapter of my life has begun.  The problem is......I'm not sure if this is the final chapter or not.&nbs...
Posted by deb....lessons learned on Wed, 29 Aug 2007 11:55:00 PST

Update on Neurologist

Just wanted to up date everyone and thank you all for supporting me with my       MS CAUSE.  I'm not sure how many emails made it to Montel or Clay Walker.  Unf...
Posted by deb....lessons learned on Tue, 24 Jul 2007 06:21:00 PST

ADA is a joke

ADA is a JokeAll of this ridiculous crap happened a few years ago.I could have taken it to court but quite frankly I didn't have the energy to do that.I live in Clarendon Texas which is close to Amari...
Posted by deb....lessons learned on Mon, 23 Jul 2007 08:31:00 PST

Who would help me protest-They wont let me see my Dr.!!!

Hello everyone.....I'm having a big time problem.  As you know, I have Multiple Sclerosis and it totally sucks.  Not only does it suck but it's an expensive disease also. I have seen the sam...
Posted by deb....lessons learned on Fri, 22 Jun 2007 03:41:00 PST

End times approaching??

This is actually a blog that my son wrote.  I wanted to repost it so that all of my friends could read it.  Very interesting info to ponder.Now I want to talk about some things that can be a...
Posted by deb....lessons learned on Wed, 04 Apr 2007 07:14:00 PST

Balance between life and death

This is the same blog that I posted in three parts.  I just decided to put it inot one as some people have requested.  Please feel free to comment and let me know how a night such as this ha...
Posted by deb....lessons learned on Sat, 24 Mar 2007 08:37:00 PST

Will tomorrow be better?

Do you ever wonder what tomorrow may bring? If you've visited my webpage lately you may have noticed the song, Hold On.  I guess this is what you could call my theme song a few years ago.  M...
Posted by deb....lessons learned on Wed, 15 Nov 2006 02:49:00 PST

What Have We Become

Do you have that one person in your life that you can turn to for anything? Sometimes in life we go through things that are so painful and we lose  our ability to see the light at the end of...
Posted by deb....lessons learned on Thu, 02 Nov 2006 12:40:00 PST

Another Burden or Another Chance

Another day another burden?  Another day another chance?  Which of these two questions do you view today? I choose to view my day as another chance.  I don't need any more burdens on me...
Posted by deb....lessons learned on Thu, 05 Oct 2006 02:23:00 PST

What have we become

Blogging seems to one way of venting without actually pushing your thoughts and feelings  down someone's throat whether or they want to hear them.  Those reading this is purely voluntarily.&...
Posted by deb....lessons learned on Thu, 05 Oct 2006 09:33:00 PST