So honestly. We know why we are all on here. It is either to keep in touch with old friends or make new ones. Usually both. In the friends dept I like: people who can be real. They dont have to "try" to fit in with me, they just do. I love people who are into doing new things. I hate just sitting around doing the same thing every day of the week. In the love dept I like: everything I would want as a friend, but someone who takes it to the next step. Dont sit there and make something just about sex, cause youre insuring it wont happen if you do. I have been burned by a lot of men, so if I come across as harsh or if you feel like I am pushing you away, thats why. I will trust you until you give me a reason not to. But be up-front about what you want. I dont care what it is, just tell me. And if I am looking for the same thing, hey it will work. But so help me if you sit there and say you want to be with me and I find out it was only cause you wanted to get with me. I found this on someones page and loved it, "NEVER SAY I LOVE YOU, IF YOU REALLY DONT CARE. NEVER TALK ABOUT FEELING'S, IF THEY ARENT REALLY THERE. NEVER HOLD MY HAND, IF YOUR GONNA BREAK MY HEART. NEVER SAY YOUR GOING TO, IF YOU NEVER PLAN TO START. NEVER LOOK INTO MY EYES, IF ALL YOU DO IS LIE. NEVER SAY HI, IF YOU REALLY MEAN GOODBYE. IF YOU REALLY MEAN FOREVER, THEN SAY YOU WILL TRY."