About Me
Welcome My name is Tammy Im a mom of 2 boys named Michael and Mekhi... Im a Bi female 32 yrs of age Im a Big & Beautiful lady... I stand 5'5... I got cat eyes... I also have long light redishbrown hair down to my butt... Im a teacher for Preschool children aging from 2.9 months to 5 yrs of age till they go on to Kindergarden... Im not on here for much just looking for new friends.
A--Accept Accept others for who they are and for the choices they've made even if you have difficulty understanding their beliefs, motives, or actions.
B--Break Away
Break away from everything that stands in the way of what you hope to accomplish with your life.
C--Create
Create a family of friends whom you can share your hopes, dreams, sorrows, and happiness with.
D--Decide
Decide that you'll be successful and happy come what may, and good things will find you. The roadblocks are only minor obstacles along the way.
E--Explore
Explore and experiment. The world has much to offer, and you have much to give. And every time you try something new, you'll learn more about yourself.
F--Forgive
Forgive and forget. Grudges only weigh you down and inspire unhappiness and grief. Soar above it, and remember that everyone makes mistakes.
G--Grow
Leave the childhood monsters behind. They can no longer hurt you or stand in your way.
H--Hope
Hope for the best and never forget that anything is possible as long as you remain dedicated to the task.
I--Ignore
Ignore the negative voice inside your head. Focus instead on your goals and remember your accomplishments. Your past success is only a small inkling of what the future holds.
J--Journey
Journey to new worlds, new possibilities, by remaining open-minded. Try to learn something new every day, and you'll grow.
K--Know
Know that no matter how bad things seem, they'll always get better. The warmth of spring always follows the harshest winter.
L--Love
Let love fill your heart instead of hate. When hate is in your heart, there's room for nothing else, but when love is in your heart, there's room for endless happiness.
M--Manage
Manage your time and your expenses wisely, and you'll suffer less stress and worry. Then you'll be able to focus on the important things in life.
N--Notice
Never ignore the poor, infirm, helpless, weak, or suffering. Offer your assistance when possible, and always your kindness and understanding.
O--Open
Open your eyes and take in all the beauty around you. Even during the worst of times, there's still much to be thankful for.
P--Play
Never forget to have fun along the way. Success means nothing without happiness.
Q--Question
Ask many questions, because you're here to learn.
R--Relax
Refuse to let worry and stress rule your life, and remember that things always have a way of working out in the end.
S--Share
Share your talent, skills, knowledge, and time with others. Everything that you invest in others will return to you many times over.
T--Try
Even when your dreams seem impossible to reach, try anyway. You'll be amazed by what you can accomplish.
U--Use
Use your gifts to your best ability. Talent that's wasted has no value. Talent that's used will bring unexpected rewards.
V--Value
Value the friends and family members who've supported and encouraged you, and be there for them as well.
W--Work
Work hard every day to be the best person you can be, but never feel guilty if you fall short of your goals. Every sunrise offers a second chance.
X--X-Ray
Look deep inside the hearts of those around you and you'll see the goodness and beauty within.
Y--Yield
Yield to commitment. If you stay on track and remain dedicated, you'll find success at the end of the road.
Z--Zoom
Zoom to a happy place when bad memories or sorrow rears its ugly head. Let nothing interfere with your goals. Instead, focus on your abilities, your dreams, and a brighter tomorrow.
Virgo
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You are shy at first, and because of that, it is hard for you to find lots of random sex partners. You are very intelligent and very into sex.
You will only have sex with clean people, because you are afraid of getting an STD. You are also very kinky and imaginative in the sack. Your partners always have a hard time keeping up with you.
Sex matches: Taurus, Capricorn, Scorpio
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Dominant in relationships. Sexy. someone loves them right now. Freak in bed. Always wants the last word. Caring. Smart. Addictive. Attractive. Loud. Loyal. Easy to talk to. Hard to forget Love at first sight wit u babe Everything u ever wanted.Spontaneous. High appeal. Rare to find. Great when found. Loves being in long relationships. So much love to give. Not one to mess with. Very pretty. Very romantic. Nice to everyone they meet. Their Love is one of a kind. Silly, fun and sweet. Have own unique appeal. Most caring person you will ever meet! Amazing in the you know where..!!! Not the kind of person you wanna mess with- you might end up crying.Active and dynamic. Decisive and haste but tends to regret. Attractive and affectionate to oneself.Strong mentality. Loves attention. Diplomatic.Consoling, friendly and solves people's problems.Brave and fearless. Adventurous. Loving and
caring. Suave and generous. Usually you have many friends. Emotional. Stubborn. Hasty. Good memory. Moving, motivates
oneself and others. Loves to travel and explore.
Sometimes sexy in a way that only their lover can
understand. AND TENDZ 2 B A VERY SEXY PIMP...
1.If a man/woman wants you, nothing can keep him/her away. If he/she doesn..t want
you, nothing can make him/her stay.
2.Stop making excuses for a man/woman and his/her behavior.
3.Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
4.Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that..s not meant
to be.
5.Slower is better.
6.Never live your life for a man/woman.
7.If a relationship ends because the man/woman was not treating you as you
deserve, then heck no, you can..t "be friends." A friend wouldn..t mistreat a friend.
8.Don..t settle.
9.If you feel like he/she is stringing you along, then he/she probably is.
10.Don..t stay because you think "it will get better." You..ll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
11.The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
12.Avoid men/women who..ve got a bunch of children by a bunch of different
women. He/she didn..t marry them when he/she got them pregnant, why would he/she treat you any differently?
13.Always have your own set of friends separate from his/hers.
14.Maintain boundaries in how a guy/gurl treats you. If something bothers you, speak up.
15.Never let a man/woman know everything. He/she will use it against you later.
16.You cannot change a man..s/woman..s behavior. Change comes from within.
17.Don..t EVER make him/her feel he/she is more important than you are...even if
he/she has more education or a better job.
18.Do not make him/her into a quasi-god. He/she is a man/woman, nothing more nothing less.
19.Never let a man/woman define who you are.
20.Never borrow someone else..s man/woman.
21.If he/she cheated with you, he..ll/she..ll cheat on you.
22.A man/woman will only treat you the way you ALLOW him/her to treat you.
23.All men/woman are NOT dogs.
24.You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two way street.
25.You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute
about baggage...deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
26.You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship
consists of two WHOLE individuals... look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
27.Dating is fun...even if he/she doesn..t turn out to be Mr./Mrs. Right.
28.Make him/her miss you sometimes...when a man/woman always know where you are,
and you..re always readily available to him/her - he/she takes it for granted.
29.Never co-sign for a man/woman.
30.Don..t fully commit to a man/woman who doesn..t give you everything that you
need.Keep him/her in your radar but get to know others.
I slept as late as I wanted and never worried about how late I got into
bed.
I brushed my hair and my teeth everyday.
Before I was a MomI cleaned my house each day.
I never tripped over toys or forgot words to a lullaby.
I didn..t worry whether or not my plants were poisonous.
I never thought about immunizations.
Before I was a MomI had never been puked on.
Pooped on.
Spit on.
Chewed on.
Peed on.
I had complete control of my mind and my thoughts.
I slept all night.
Before I was a MomI never held down a screaming child
So that doctors could do tests.
Or give shots.
I never looked into teary eyes and cried.
I never got gloriously happy over a simple grin.
I never sat up late hours at night watching a baby sleep
Before I was a MomI never held a sleeping baby just because I didn..t want to put it down.
I never felt my heart break into a million pieces when I couldn..t stop
the hurt.
I never knew that something so small could affect my life so much,
I never knew that I could love someone so much.
I never knew I would love being a Mom.
Before I was a MomI didn..t know the feeling of having my heart outside my body.
I didn..t know how special it could feel to feed a hungry baby.
I didn..t know that bond between a mother and her child.
I didn..t know that something so small could make me feel so important
and happy.
Before I was a MomI had never gotten up in the middle of the night every 10 minutes to
make sure all was okay.
I had never known the warmth,
The joy,
The love,
The heartache,
The wonderment or the satisfaction of being a Mom.
I didn..t know I was capable of feeling so much before I was a Mom.
And remember that behind every successful mother
Is a basket (OR 2) of dirty laundry.
Love can make you happy ,love can make you sad, love can make you have feelings that you never had ,love can make you smile ,love can make you frown ,love can make you do things when you feeling down ,love can make you weak love can make you strong ,love can make you right,or it can make you wrong ,love can make you live, love can make you die, love can make you ask the question why ,love can make you laugh, love can make you cry, love can break your heart when someone says goodbye ,if ya love me u will never say goodbye !!
Virgo - Your Love ProfileYour positive traits:
You..re incredibly thoughtful and able to give your partner what they need most.You are totally logical. You can deal with problems without involving your emotions.
A good work ethic. You..ll do whatever it takes (within reason) to make your relationship work.Virgo The Virgin
August 23 to September 23
Traditional
Virgo Traits
VirgoModest and shy
Meticulous and reliable
Practical and diligent
Intelligent and analyticalOn the dark side....Fussy and a worrier
Overcritical and harsh
Perfectionist and conservativeVirgo! About Your Sign...Virgo is the only zodiacal sign represented by a female. It is sometimes thought of as a potentially creative girl, delicately lovely; sometimes as a somewhat older woman, intelligent but rather pedantic and spinsterish. The latter impression is sometimes confirmed by the Virgoan preciseness, refinement, fastidious love of cleanliness, hygiene and good order, conventionality and aristocratic attitude of reserve. They are usually observant, shrewd, critically inclined, judicious, patient, practical supporters of the status quo, and tend toward conservatism in all departments of life. On the surface they are emotionally cold, and sometimes this goes deeper, for their habit of suppressing their natural kindness may in the end cause it to atrophy, with the result that they shrink from committing themselves to friendship, make few relationships, and those they do make they are careful to keep superficial.But the outward lack of feeling may, in some individuals born under this sign, conceal too much emotion, to which they are afraid of giving way because they do not trust others, nor do they have confidence in themselves and their judgments. This is because they are conscious of certain shortcomings in themselves of worldliness, of practicality, of sophistication and of outgoingness. So they bring the art of self concealment to a high pitch, hiding their apprehensiveness about themselves and their often considerable sympathy with other people under a mantle of matter-of-factness and undemonstrative, quiet reserve. They are still waters that run deep. Yet in their unassuming, outwardly cheerful and agreeable fashion, they can be sensible, discreet, well spoken, wise and witty, with a good understanding of other people..s problems which they can tackle with a practicality not always evident in their own personal relationships.Both sexes have considerable charm and dignity, which make some male Virgoans appear effeminate when they are not. In marriage they can be genuinely affectionate, making good spouses and parents, but their love making is a perfection of technique rather than the expression of desire, and they must be careful not to mate with a partner whose sex drive requires a passion they cannot match.They are intellectually enquiring, methodical and logical, studious and teachable. They combine mental ingenuity with the ability to produce a clear analysis of the most complicated problems. They have an excellent eye for detail but they may be so meticulous that they neglect larger issues. Also, although they are realists, they may slow down projects by being too exact. They are practical with their hands, good technicians and have genuine inventive talents, Thoroughness, hard work and conscientiousness are their hallmarks, and they are such perfectionists that, if things go wrong, they are easily discouraged. Because of their ability to see every angle of a many-sided question, they are unhappy with abstract theorizing. Appreciating the many different points of view as they do, they find philosophical concepts difficult, and they vacillate and have no confidence in any conclusions at which they arrive.With these qualities, they are better as subordinates than leaders. Responsibility irks them and they often lack the breadth of strategic vision that a leader needs Virgoans are essentially tacticians, admirable in the attainment of limited objectives. Their self distrust is something they project on to other people and tends to make them exacting employers, though in the demands they make on those under them they temper this attitude with justice. They have potential abilities in the arts, sciences and languages. Language especially they use correctly, clearly, consciously and formally, as grammarians and etymologists rather than for literary interests, yet they are likely to have a good memory for apt quotations. Although they are well suited for careers in machine drawing, surveying and similar occupations, they are better fitted for a job in a library or office than a workshop.Their minds are such that they need the stimulus of practical problems to be solved rather than the mere routine or working to set specifications that need no thought. They are careful with money and their interest in statistics makes them excellent bookkeepers and accountants. They also make good editors, physicists and analytical chemists. They may also find success as welfare workers, ministering to those less fortunate than themselves. They can be doctors, nurses, psychologists, teachers, confidential secretaries, technologists, inspectors, musicians, critics, public speakers and writers especially of reference works such as dictionaries and encyclopedias. Both sexes have a deep interest in history, a feature recognized by astrological authorities for at least two hundred years. If they go in for a business career their shrewdness and analytical ingenuity could tempt them into dishonesty, though they usually have enough moral sense to resist temptation. Female Virgoans may find a career in fashion, for they have a flair for dress, in which they can be trend setters. In any profession they choose the natives of this sign readily assimilate new ideas, but always with caution, conserving what they consider worth keeping from the past. They love country life but are unlikely to make good farmers, unless they can contrive to carry out their work without outraging their sense of hygiene and cleanliness.Their faults, as is usual with all zodiacal types, are the extremes of their virtues. Fastidious reticence and modesty become old-maidishness and persnicketiness; balanced criticism becomes carping and nagging; and concern for detail becomes overspecialization. Virgoans are liable to indecision in wider issues and this can become chronic, turning molehills of minor difficulties into Himalayas of crisis. Their prudence can become guile and their carefulness, turned in on themselves, can produce worriers and hypochondriacs.Possible Health Concerns...Virgo is said to govern the hands, abdomen, intestines, spleen and central nervous system. Illnesses to which its natives are prone include catarrh, cold, coughs, pleurisies, pneumonia and nervous instabilities. Their natures make them inclined to worry and this makes them vulnerable to stomach and bowel troubles, including colic and ulcers. Male Virgoans may have trouble with their sexual organs. Both sexes are strongly interested in drugs and esoteric cuisine and as their delicate stomachs require them to be careful about their diet, it is essential that they treat their fascination with exotic food with extreme care.Your negative traits:Sometimes you are so focused on your goals that you let your relationships suffer
You tend to be a perfectionist - and expect perfection from your mate as well
You are picky. So picky that you rather be single than with someone who has a few minor faults.
Your ideal partner:
Values success in life as much as you do
Fits a checklist of qualities you..ve been looking for since childhood
Like you, is more practical and realistic than romantic
Your dating style:
Active. You..re a bit hyper, so you..d prefer a date that involved rollerblading in the park or hiking.
Your seduction style:
You may seem a bit shy, but once you open up to someone - you..re totally uninhibited
You like to set the scene first - candles, music, nice sheetsA bit obsessed with cleanliness, you may want to shower first with your love
Tips for the future:
Soften up a little. Vulnerability is sexy - and feels great over time.
Lower your standards a little. Look past a messy desk or someone being five minutes late.Layout by Tennaya Layouts
