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About Me

I am so much more than I could ever fit onto this page. I'm probably the sweetest, most selfless person you'll ever meet and I can say that with the utmost confidence. I'm really easy to talk to and I'm a great listener. ♥ NEVER SAY I LOVE YOU IF YOU REALLY DON'T CARE NEVER TALK ABOUT FEELINGS IF THEY AREN'T REALLY THERE NEVER HOLD MY HAND IF YOU'RE GOING TO BREAK MY HEART NEVER SAY YOU'RE GOING TO IF YOU DON'T PLAN TO START NEVER LOOK INTO MY EYES IF ALL YOU DO IS LIE NEVER SAY HELLO IF YOU REALLY MEAN GOODBYE ♥ ♥ life is beautiful. embrace it. when it cuts, we bleed. but we also heal. when it's cold, we know that it's not gonna be cold forever and we just have to be patient and know that it's gonna warm up. it's all about timing and when things work out, we realize part of the big picture. that we're all in life together, and that's beautiful. the connection of life and the mapping of friendships that inter connects us and brings us closer is beauty in its self.-PDB ♥ ♥ "But I know about art and love, if only because I long for it with every fiber of my being." ♥♥ "There are only four questions of value in life, Don Octavio. What is sacred? Of what is the spirit made? What is worth living for, and what is worth dying for? The answer to each is the same: only love." ♥♥ "And above all, watch with glittering eyes the world around you. Because the greatest secrets are always hidden in the most unlikely places. Those who do not believe in magic will never find it." ♥♥ "The opposite of love, is not hate. It is indifference and not caring." ♥♥ "Everything you see has its roots in the unseen world. The forms may change, yet the essence remains the same. Every wonderful sight will vanish; every sweet word will fade, But do not be disheartened, The source they come from is eternal, growing, Branching out, giving new life and new joy. Why do you weep? The source is within you And this whole world is springing up from it." ♥♥ "To confine our attention to terrestrial matters would be to limit the human spirit." ♥♥ "When I despair, I remember that all through history the ways of truth and love have always won. There have been tyrants, and murderers, and for a time they can seem invincible, but in the end they always fall. Think of it - always." ♥♥ "We feel and know that we are eternal." ♥♥ "I believe there is no source of deception in the investigation of nature which can compare with a fixed belief that certain kinds of phenomena are impossible." ♥♥ "As far as we can discern, the sole purpose of existence is to kindle a light in the darkness of being." ♥♥ "I believe that man will not merely endure: he will prevail. He is immortal, not because he alone among creatures has an inexhaustible voice, but because he has a soul, a spirit capable of compassion and sacrifice and endurance." ♥♥ "Science without religion is lame, religion without science is blind." ♥♥ "If I could take all your words away and give you but a sparse few, they would be: ‘I now know, I am absolute, I am complete, I am God, I am.’ If there were no other words but these, you would no longer be limited to this plane." ♥♥ "Our scientific power has outrun our spiritual power.We have guided missiles and misguided men." ♥♥ "The whole history of science has been the gradual realization that events do not happen in an arbitrary manner, but that they reflect a certain underlying order, which may or may not be divinely inspired." ♥♥ "All matter originates and exists only by virtue of a force… We must assume behind this force the existence of a conscious and intelligent Mind. This Mind is the matrix of all matter." ♥♥ "Although each of us obviously inhabits a separate physical body, the laboratory data from a hundred years of parapsychology research strongly indicate that there is no separation in consciousness." ♥♥ "In the century now dawning, spirituality, visionary consciousness, and the ability to build and mend human relationships will be more important for the fate and safety of this nation than our capacity to forcefully subdue an enemy. Creating the world we want is a much more subtle but more powerful mode of operation than destroying the one we don't want." ♥♥ "The spirit down here in man and the spirit up there in the sun, in reality are only one spirit, and there is no other one." ♥♥ "Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that. Hate multiplies hate, violence multiplies violence, and toughness multiplies toughness, in a descending spiral of destruction. The chain reaction of evil must be broken, or we shall be plunged into the dark abyss of annihilation." ♥♥ "Man did not weave the web of life, he is merely a strand in it. Whatever he does to the web, he does to himself." ♥♥ "Kiss for the moment, not for what may come next." ♥♥ "If we do not try, we will not know." ♥♥ "You don't love a woman because she is beautiful, she is beautiful because you love her." ♥♥ "Deep down inside, we're all a bunch of nerds who just want to belong." ♥♥ How to be beautiful... For attractive lips, speak words of kindness. For lovely eyes, seek out the good in people. For a slim figure, share your food with the hungry. For beautiful hair, let a child run his/her fingers through it once a day. For poise, walk with the knowledge that you never walk alone. People, even more than things, have to be restored, renewed, revived, reclaimed, and redeemed; never throw out anyone, including yourself. Remember, if you ever need a helping hand, you will find one at the end of each of your arms. As you grow older, you will discover that you have two hands; one for helping yourself, and the other for helping others. Beauty is as beauty does because outer beauty fades but what is in the heart is beautiful forever. ♥♥ "That's why they call them crushes. If they were easy, they'd call them something else." ♥♥ "We're meant to die. It's what makes anything about us matter." ♥♥ "If you're photographing in color you show the color of their clothes - if you use black and white, you will show the color of their soul." ♥♥ "If I only wanted you when it rained then we'd be living in a storm." ♥♥ "If a single man achieves the highest kind of love, it will be sufficient to neutralize the hate of millions." ♥♥ "The only greatness is unselfish love." ♥♥ "Love is not soft like water, it is hard like rock, on which the waves of hatred beat in vain." ♥♥ "I want a soul so full of joy--Life's withering storms cannot destroy." ♥♥ "People are lonely because they build walls instead of bridges." ♥♥ "All people smile in the same language." ♥♥ "Never miss an opportunity to make others happy, even if you have to let them alone to do it." ♥♥ "What sunshine is to flowers, smiles are to humanity." ♥♥ "Sorrow with his pick mines the heart, but he is a cunning workman. He deepens the channels whereby happiness may enter and he hollows out new chambers for joy to abide in, when he is gone." ♥♥ "Life and Death are parts of the same great adventure. Do not fear to die and do not shrink away from the joy of life." ♥♥ "Living is like licking honey off a thorn." ♥♥ "Joy is not in things, it is in us." ♥♥ "There is nothing more beautiful than a rainbow, but it takes both rain and sunshine to make a rainbow. If life is to be rounded and many-colored like the rainbow, both joy and sorrow must come to it. Those who have never known anything but prosperity and pleasure become hard and shallow, but those whose prosperity has been mixed with adversity become kind and gracious." ♥♥ "The deeper that sorrow carves into your being, the more joy you can contain." ♥♥ "The glory of life is to love, not to be loved, to give, not to get, to serve, not to be served." ♥♥ If there is righteousness in the heart, there will be beauty in the character. If there is beauty in the character, there will be harmony in the home. If there is harmony in the home, there will be order in the nation. If there is order in the nation, there will be peace in the world." ♥♥ "We can never herd the world into the paths of righteousness with the dogs of war." ♥♥ "If humanity could be taught self-control and selfishness-control, there would be no need for atom control." ♥♥ "Nothing in life is to be feared. It is only to be understood." ♥♥ "Our restlessness is largely due to the fact that we are as yet wanderers between two worlds." ♥♥ "Peace is not the absence of conflict, but the ability to cope with it." ♥♥ "Anger is a wind which blows out the lamp of the mind." ♥♥ "You talk when you cease to be at peace with your thoughts." ♥♥ "A minute of thought is worth more than an hour of talk." ♥♥ "Those who have suffered much are like those who know many languages; they have learned to understand all and to be understood by all." ♥♥ "He who strikes the first blow confesses he has run out of ideas." ♥♥ "So many gods, so many creeds, so many paths that wind and wind; when just the art of being kind is all the sad world needs." ♥♥ "A good manner springs from a good heart, and fine manners are the outcome of unselfish kindness." ♥♥ "True nobility comes of the gentle heart." ♥♥ "Nothing is so strong as gentleness, nothing so gentle as real strength." ♥♥ "A candle-glow can pierce the darkest night." ♥♥ "Speech may sometimes do harm; but so may silence and a worse harm at that. No insult ever caused so deep a wound as a tenderness expected and withheld; and no spoken indiscretion was ever so bitterly regretted as the word that one did not speak." ♥♥ "Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle." ♥♥ "The greatest distance we have yet to cover still lies within us." ♥♥ "Life lived to satisfy yourself never satisfies anybody." ♥♥ "There is no better exercise for strengthening the heart than reaching down and lifting people up." ♥♥ "Do all the good you can, by all the means you can, in all the ways you can, in all the places you can, at all the times you can, to all the people you can, as long as ever you can." ♥♥ "Good nature will always supply the absence of beauty; but beauty cannot supply the absence of good nature." ♥♥ "All that is necessary for the triumph of evil is that good men do nothing." ♥♥ "When you get to the end of your rope, tie a knot in it and hang on." ♥♥ "You are not a reservoir with a limited amount of resources; you are a channel attached to unlimited divine resources." ♥♥ "The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen nor touched but are felt in the heart." ♥♥ "It is better to suffer wrong than to do it, and happier to sometimes be cheated than not to trust." ♥♥ "Life is eternal, Love is immortal, and Death is only a horizon, and a horizon is only the limit of our sight." ♥♥ "If seeds in the black earth can turn into such beautiful roses, what might not the heart of a man become in its long journey toward the stars?" ♥♥ "I never knew a night so black, light failed to follow on its track. I never knew a storm so gray, it failed to have its clearing day. I never knew such bleak despair, that there was not a rift, somewhere. I never knew an hour so drear, love could not fill it full of cheer." ♥♥ "Discussion is an exchange of knowledge; argument is an exchange of ignorance." ♥♥ "Gossip is the art of saying nothing in a way that leaves nothing unsaid." ♥♥ "Silence is a talent as greatly to be cherished as that other asset, the gift of speech." ♥♥ "Everything is okay in the end. If it's not okay, then it's not the end." ♥♥ "Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of a higher power. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of the higher power that is within us. It's not just in some of us; it's in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others." ♥ .. Generous Inventor S S S S S S S S S S &l

My Interests

♥ FREE HUGS!! ♥ Ummm...I love singing, ANYTHING involving music (except country haha), goin to baseball games, playin baseball, going campin, going to the ocean oh heck yes...and just hangin out and havin fun with my friends....I go with the flow...I'm easy goin...I love havin fun doin anything.

I'd like to meet:

Who would I like to meet.....oh man above all I would want to meet ♥ ♥ ♥ Johnny Depp ♥ ♥ ♥ .....he is THE sexiest man alive.....oh bloody hell he is delicious....And he is THE BEST actor who has ever been and ever will be....I'd be fine just meeting him....but I don't really see that happenin anytime soon. lol I'm not really on here to hook up with anyone. But if you wanna talk to me, by all means go right ahead. :)

Music:

Everything BUT country.
I ♥ The All American Rejects, I ♥ 3 Doors Down, I ♥ Acceptance, I ♥ AFI, I ♥ Avenged Sevenfold, I ♥ Avril Lavigne, I ♥ Billy Joel, I ♥ Blink-182, I ♥ Bon Jovi, I ♥ Celtic Woman, I ♥ Chevelle, I ♥ Coldplay, I ♥ Crossfade, I ♥ Dashboard Confessional, I ♥ Dave Matthews Band, I ♥ Death Cab For Cutie, I ♥ Disturbed,I ♥ Duncan Sheik, I ♥ Elton John, I ♥ Elvis Presley, I ♥ Emery, I ♥ Enigma, I ♥ Eric Clapton, I ♥ Evanescence, I ♥ Fall Out Boy, I ♥ Flogging Molly, I ♥ Foo Fighters, I ♥ Gavin DeGraw, I ♥ Goo Goo Dolls, I ♥ Great Big Sea, I ♥ Green Day, I ♥ Hawthorne Heights, I ♥ Head Automatica, I ♥ Heart, I ♥ Hoobastank, I ♥ Hootie and the Blowfish, I ♥ Howie Day, I ♥ Incubus, I ♥ Jack Johnson, I ♥ Jimmy Eat World, I ♥ John Mayer, I ♥ Less Than Jake, I ♥ Lifehouse, I ♥ Linkin Park, I ♥ Mae, I ♥ Maroon 5, I ♥ Matchbox 20, I ♥ Matisyahu, I ♥ Michael Buble, I ♥ Modest Mouse, I ♥ My Chemical Romance, I ♥ Norah Jones, I ♥ Oasis, I ♥ Offspring, I ♥ Phil Collins, I ♥ Plain White T's, I ♥ Queen, I ♥ Red Hot Chili Peppers, I ♥ Regina Spektor, I ♥ Saves The Day, I ♥ Seal, I ♥ Sick Puppies, I ♥ Simple Plan, I ♥ Snow Patrol, I ♥ Spin Doctors, I ♥ Sting, I ♥ Story of the Year, I ♥ Sublime, I ♥ Sugarcult, I ♥ Sum 41, I ♥ Switchfoot, I ♥ System of a Down, I ♥ Taking Back Sunday, I ♥ The Calling, I ♥ The Fray, I ♥ The Killers, I ♥ Third Eye Blind, I ♥ Three Days Grace, I ♥ Thursday, I ♥ TRUST Company, I ♥ UB40, I ♥ Vertical Horizon, I ♥ Yellowcard. ♥ "Heaven Forbid"- The Fray ♥Twenty years, it's breaking you down now that you understand there's no one around Take a breath, just take a seat your falling apart and tearing at the seemsHeaven forbid you end up alone, you don't know why Hold on tight, wait for tomorrow, you'll be alrightIt's on your face, is it on your mind would you care to build a house of your own How much longer, how long can you wait It's like you wanted to go and give yourself awayHeaven forbid you end up alone, you don't know why Hold on tight, wait for tomorrow, you'll be alright Heaven forbid you end up alone, you don't know why Hold on tight, wait for tomorrow, you'll be alrightIt feels good (Is that reason enough for you) It feels good (Is that reason enough for you) It feels good (Is that reason enough for you) It feels good (Is that reason enough for you)Heaven forbid you end up alone, you don't know why Hold on tight wait for tomorrow, you'll be alright Heaven forbid you end up alone, you don't know why Hold on tight wait for tomorrow, you'll be alrightOut of this one I don't know how to get you out of this one I don't know how to get you out of this one I don't know how to get you out of this one I don't know how to get you out of this one

Movies:

I am definitely a sucker for the chick flicks....I hate movies if they don't have happy endings....I love comedies.......I love to laugh, it's the best. :-O What The Bleep Do We Know?! Watch that movie. It'll give you a little insight into how I think. The Secret. Watch that too. Amazing stuff.

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Television:

Don't watch TV often but when I do... ♥ GREY'S ANATOMY ♥

Books:

I am a book worm. I bloody love the Harry Potter books....I could read those over and over, which I do......Harry Potter frickin rocks.....but, yeah I read lots of stuff.... The Hidden Messages in Water by Masaru Emoto. Read it. More insight into how I think. :)

Heroes:

I am everything you want...I am everything you need...I am everything inside of you...That you wish you could be...I say all the right things...At exactly the right time...But I mean nothing to you and I don't know why...And I don't know why...Why...I don't know...
Your Psyche is Blue
You are deeply emotional and very connected to everything (and everyone) around you.
By simply understanding other people, you are able to help them heal and let go.
While you are a very deep and thoughtful person, you do have a very silly, superficial side.

When you are too blue: the weight of the world's problems hang over you.

When you don't have enough blue: you lack perspective and understanding. What Color Is Your Psyche?

My Blog

I love ice cream sandwiches....

So I'm sitting here bored. And I felt like putting these lovely quotes in a blog cause I can. haha I made up the last quote myself and think it's pretty darn spiffy. I've been in some really good frea...
Posted by *love people. use things. not vice versa.* on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

I don't even know how....

Pdb1323 [4:28 P.M.]:  i told you what i observed about you Pdb1323 [4:29 P.M.]:  your smart beautiful a deep thinker a hopless romantic some one that is loyal beyond anthing else  your ...
Posted by *love people. use things. not vice versa.* on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

Losing Grip....

"Losing Grip" Are you aware of what you make me feel, babyRight now I feel invisible to you, like I'm not realDidn't you feel me lock my arms around youWhy'd you turn away?Here's what I have to say I ...
Posted by *love people. use things. not vice versa.* on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

She is beautiful but she don't mean a thing to me.....

"Tiny Vessels"This is the moment that you knowThat you told her that you loved her but you don't.You touch her skin and then you thinkThat she is beautiful but she don't mean a thing to me.Yeah, she i...
Posted by *love people. use things. not vice versa.* on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

So bad it hurts...

How can you like someone so much and dislike them just as much at the same time? I need to just get over him. Ha. Been there. Tried that. I know nothing's ever gonna happen between us.....yet I still ...
Posted by *love people. use things. not vice versa.* on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

Me to a fucking T......

This is a tribute to the nice girls. The nice girls made of sugar and spice, who always get overlooked, and who sit and endure endless ranting about the psycho-bitch stalker sluts men are wasting thei...
Posted by *love people. use things. not vice versa.* on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

I figured out....

I figured out today that I'm like the relationship guru that doesn't have relationships herself, just helps other people with theirs. Kinda like The Wedding Planner..."Those who don't wed, plan." Or l...
Posted by *love people. use things. not vice versa.* on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

Sorrow sank deep inside my blood...

Sorrow sank deep inside my blood All the ones around meI cared for and most of all I lovedBut I can't see myself that wayPlease don't forget me or cry while I'm away ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~...
Posted by *love people. use things. not vice versa.* on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

I'll just be me...

if you're alone, I'll be your shadow if you want to cry, I'll be your shoulder if you want a hug, I'll be your pillow if you need to be happy, I'll be your smile But anytime you need a friend, I'll ju...
Posted by *love people. use things. not vice versa.* on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

After a while...

After a while you learn the difference between holding a hand and falling in love. You begin to learn that kisses don't always mean something and promises can be broken just as quickly as they are mad...
Posted by *love people. use things. not vice versa.* on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST