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Brenda

When you find that you are surrounded by drama, you have two choices...Join in the mix OR Move along

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© whateverlife.com Let me start off by telling you the type of person I am and the type of person I am NOT. I am the straight forward type that would rather be up front and honest with you. I am NOT the type to talk about others behind their back. I don't like users, abusers, liars, deceivers or snakes in the grass. I would rather hurt you with the truth, NOT fill you full of lies. If that's more than someone can handle, they can't handle reality very well. Over the years, I have grown to realize that there are others that will talk about you behind your back. But in those lessons I have also learned that if they are talking about you behind your back, you are all ready at least 2 steps ahead of them. So just leave them in their drama and go about your journeys. Life is far too short to waste your time or your feelings on the drama and deceit. I am far from perfect, but I love who I am. I would not change anything about my life and the journeys I have taken because that would mean I would want to change myself. As for friends, real friends...They will accept you as you are and will stand beside you when the gravy has lumps. If they can't, they never were your friend. I can be a laugh a minute, or as serious as a heart attack. I'm silly and sweet, or steadfast in my beliefs. If I consider you a friend, I will have your back at all times. "Friends will bail you out of jail...But real friends will be sitting right there beside you saying 'Dayum, that was fun!!!'" (And no, I've never been arrested for anything...Just in case that had you wondering...lol) I am a 51 year young single Mom and Grandma. I live in North Carolina but was born in a small town in upper PA. I've also lived in Arizona and Alabama. But after I moved to North Carolina in 1993 I found that this was home. I am the typical Taurus Bull. Which means, I am somewhat stubborn, but well grounded. I have goals that I set for myself and a realistic path that I follow. I am a Christian and have a very strong Faith. I also firmly believe that spirituality comes from the heart, not the collection plate. I do NOT believe you can buy your way into heaven!!! I also believe that you can fool some people sometimes, and even some people all of the time. But God sees it all!!! I love music and am enjoying following the breakout superstar career of Chris Daughtry. My daughter and I have enjoyed going to Chris' homecoming, the AI concert in Charlotte, NC and the final AI concert in PA. We also went to Panther Training Camp while they were visiting in August. My daughter and her family live in PA, but we visit each other as often as we can. My son and my daughter are my best friends. And I wouldn't change that for anything in this world. This is "Daughtry", and if you haven't heard of them yet? Crawl out from under that rock and enjoy!!!!
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Get this video and more at MySpace.com This is the video of Chris Daughtry getting his Tshirt that Amber and I made for him at his homecoming. A dear friend of mine, David Benfield, did the artwork on the shirt and I added the Daughtry fan member names on the shirt. Amber and I gave the shirt to Chris at his homecoming. Just one more wonderful memory we've had on this journey of support and love for Chris Daughtry and his wonderful family!! Thanks for the memories Chris....We can't wait to continue this journey with you. We support you 110% !!!Below is a slideshow of a few of the pics from September 24, 2006. The American Idol Final Concert in Wilkes-Barre, Pa, my daughter's area. We gathered pictures from Chris' AI performances, some of the fans, and some special photos of AE. We created a banner which we gave to Chris when he came out to meet his fans and sign autographs. We also gave Chris Tshirts to match those that we had made for ourselves from a wonderful company in my town in NC. We will always treasure the memories of watching Chris Daughtry become a household name and a Star in the Making!! Thank you Chris and Ace for the great time we had at the conert!!! Get Your Own! | View Slideshow

I'd like to meet:

There are so many people that I would like to meet. One of them would be Deanna Daughtry. She inspires me because she is the loving and caring wife of Chris Daughtry and a great mother to their children. But she is also a wonderful person of great strengths and values in a less then moral society that we live in. And although I have seen John Fox (Head coach of the Carolina Panthers), I would love to sit and visit with him and his family. He has earned a great deal of respect in the NFL world and in my heart. I would love to get to know more about each Carolina Panther individually. Two people that I really admired that have both moved on to the life after this life are Dale Earnhardt and Sam Mills. I admired them both for totally different reasons.

Music:

I love music. Some of my favorite bands and musicians are Chris Daughtry, LIVE, Rob Thomas, Nickelback, Shinedown, and so many more.

Movies:

I love National Lampoons Vacation movies. I love comedies, suspense, and even a little foofoo girly movies. One of my favorite movies is Prey For Rock and Roll.

Television:

I'm not a huge tv viewer, but I do watch news and sports, current events, and some sitcoms.....I wasn't much of an American Idol viewer at all until the day I saw Chris Daughtry performing "Hemorrhage"....I was so taken by him that I not only became a huge viewer, I became a determined voter...Now that Chris Daughtry has moved beyond American Idol and making his way into the music industry, I continue to support him and "Daughtry" 110%!!!

Books:

I used to be hooked on any and all Dean Koontz books. But even though I don't really read that much anymore, I can get caught up in a good suspense book, even some poetry and inspirational books. I also like to read articles relating to health and wellbeing.

Heroes:

Although I think that many times "Hero" is over-rated, because I feel that there are good people and then there are great people. Some of the people I admire and find inspiration in are: President George Bush, because even though I often feel that he doesn't always make good decisions, he is strong enough to stand by his convictions. I have a great admiration for Chris Daughtry because he has all the values and morals that are so lacking in our society today. Chris stays true to his convictions. Oh and did I mention that he just happens to have great pipes!! That man can belt out a great rock song, or swoon everyone with a great love song. I truly believe that Chris Daughtry is going to stand the music industry on it's ear and change the sound of the music we are "forced" to listen to these days. With Chris Daughtry there won't be any need for bleeps, blunders or wardrobe malfunctions. The FCC will get bored trying to find something wrong with Chris' music. Chris Rocks!!!