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Re-Inventing Arabella in 2008!

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I love to sing-PERIOD! I don't care if I'm in my car, in the shower, the mall or the kitchen! I harmonize VERY well and would love to do a sit-in session at a jazz club! I am a movie fanatic-I have an INSANE DVD collection! I love playing spades and board games, Spoken Word, and am a very creative person. I love photography, making gourmet chocolates, the latest high-tech inventions and Smart Houses, attending Battle of the Band events, and my latest venture is making glass bead jewelry. Tryin' to make the time to get to the gym to get fit-days are hectic but I must MAKE the time. I play piano, would love to teach myself acoustic guitar, cello and the flute. My future goals include owning several businesses. I have a T-shirt line that is currently in production. I hope it will branch off into other business ventures as well. I am very interested in graphic art and web design and even though I can't draw-BUT I have GREAT VISION AND IMAGINATION!! This will help me immensely in my businesses.I am a licensed GA Insurance Agent/Claims Adjuster and a Licensed GA Hair Designer, but I am currently working in law enforcement. I would also love to own a Natural Hair Salon. I need to be 4 or 5 people, huh? That's okay-if Jay Z and Diddy can multi-task, so can I. I am planning on going back to college in the fall of 2007 to obtain my Bachelor's Degree (currently have an Associates). I would love to travel somewhere exotic like Bora Bora/French Polynesia/Tahiti-that's got to be the closest to paradise on earth! I also want to travel to Mallorca, Spain, Milan, Italy, South of France and take my daughter Paris-to Paris. ANNNNDD, the Birthplace Of Man-Motherland Africa! I am really in natural hair (natural for the last 2 years). Here's a shout out to All the Braiders and Locticians out there! Keep doin' your thang! Mad love for 'yall!
You Are New York
Cosmopolitan and sophisticated, you enjoy the newest in food, art, and culture.
You also appreciate a good amount of grit - and very little shocks you.
You're competitive, driven, and very likely to succeed.

Famous people from New York: Sarah Michelle Gellar, Tupac Shakur, Woody Allen What American City Are You?

Your Italian Name Is...
Mariabella Bianchi What's Your Italian Name?
How to make a Sonja
Ingredients:
1 part friendliness
3 parts silliness
3 parts
Method:
Stir together in a glass tumbler with a salted rim. Top it off with a sprinkle of caring and enjoy!
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Personality cocktail

I'd like to meet:

People of all ages, backgrounds and experiences, who are positive, have goals and a strong work ethic, a burning desire to better their current situation, and have self-respect. I want to surround myself with others who can INSPIRE ME to be ALL I CAN BE! I would love to meet Anthony Robbins (Tony)-you know the motivational speaker w/the big teeth (?). I would "kill" for just half of his energy and just a small portion of his success... Also Warren Buffett and Donald Trump.

Name: Sonja

Eye Color: Brown
Hair Color: Brown
Height: 5'10"
Birthday: November 1 (Scorpio)
Favorite Colors: Blue, black and purple.
Chocolate or Vanilla: Chocolate, of course.
Current Location: Planet Earth
Weaknesses: Expensive perfumes and designer handbags.
What Is Your Best Physical Feature? My lips and my eyes, I'm told and my skin is clear.
What Do You Miss the Most? Sharing talks and funny stories with my mom, my size 7/9 figure and most of all-MY SANITY!!!!!LOL
What Do You Love to Do? Shop (too bad my budget doesn't know that).
Do You Smoke? Hell no!!
Do You Swear? Who me???
Do You Shower Daily? ??????????? R U FO' REAL???
Do You Believe in Yourself? If I don't, who will???
Do You Think You Are Attractive? Yes, but there is always room for improvement. I have a few extra pounds, but I think they're all in the right places. I am NOT intimidated AT ALL by these size 3 females out here!!! I'm REAL BEHHHBY! Watcha see is watcha get! I don't fake NUUUUTHIN' or NOOOOBODY! TRUE beauty exudes from within. You can tell a lot about people simply by the way they carry themselves. One doesn't have to show her goods to get a man, because a REAL and TRUE man is looking for more than an easy lay. He will be interested in her mind and what makes her tick, so if "T & A" is what you're looking for on my page-NEXXXXTTT!! I am sure there are plenty of females "down for whatever" on myspace-to each his/her own. I TREASURE MY TEMPLE and RESPECT MY BODY even if you won't, so fellas please don't come at me just any kinda way. I love people and making friends-MUTUAL respect, that's all I'm asking for...
What Are You Attracted to in a Man? Eyes mesmerize me and nice lips are a plus too. It would be romantic if he were to pick me up in a limousine by surprise, blindfold me and whisk me off to a location only known to him and the limo driver, lead me by the hand to a surprise dinner right on the beach and have an orchestra play for us as I sing in his ear while we dance barefoot in the sand by candlelight. Whoa!
Is His Nationality Important? I am attracted to African American, Italian and Hispanic males.
What Lessons Have You Learned From Life? 1. You need to pick and choose your battles. Most things we get worked up over are so trivial-why waste your energy? (I'm still working on this lesson). 2.You DON'T have to have the last word. It's OKAY to disagree sometimes. 3. We can't change others-we only have the power to change ourselves. 4. Truly LISTEN to what people have to say and validate their feelings-not just hear them. 5. Remember-somebody will ALWAYS have something to say-let 'em talk. Just stay true to yourself and don't let fools and haters distract you(God is helping me with this one too). 6. Make the money-don't let the money make you! And 7. When people work your nerves to the "HIGHEST POINT of PISSTIVITY", just repeat these 2 phrases-"WOO-SAAHHH!" (from Bad Boys) and "NAM YO HO RENGE' KYOH!"(What's Love Got To Do With It) HA!!! My hopes for the future are to have successful businesses up and running in the coming year (faith of a mustard seed), and more importantly-Peace Of Mind, Heart and Spirit...'Nuff said...

Your Personality Is
Idealist (NF)

You are a passionate, caring, and unique person.
You are good at expressing yourself and sharing your ideals.

You are the most compassionate of all types and connect with others easily.
Your heart tends to rule you. You can't make decisions without considering feelings.

You seek out other empathetic people to befriend.
Truth and authenticity matters in your friendships.

In love, you give everything you have to relationships. You fall in love easily.

At work, you crave personal expression and meaning in your career.

With others, you communicate well. You can spend all night talking with someone.

As far as your looks go, you've likely taken the time to develop your own personal style.

On weekends, you like to be with others. Charity work is also a favorite pastime of yours.
You Should Be a Musician
You have a rare combinations of talents: an ear for music, nimble fingers, and the willpower to practice.
You could master almost any instrument you choose to play (if you haven't already!) What Sort of Artist Should You Be?
You Are a Rainbow
Breathtaking and rare
You are totally enchanting and intriguing
But you usually don't stick around long!

You are best known for: your beauty

Your dominant state: seducing What Type of Weather Are You?

Your Life Path Number is 1
Your purpose in life is to lead others.

You have great drive and determination. Nothing is going to stand in your way.
You seek out challenges and the spotlight. You'll take all the work - and all the glory.
Status and success are important to you. You demand the best from everyone and everything.

In love, you tend to take a protective role. You enjoy being the provider in relationships.

You expect others to be like you, and as a result, you are often disappointed.
A little selfish and vain, you always put yourself first.
Remember, everyone already knows you're great - you don't need to remind them! What Is Your Life Path Number?
You Are a Newborn Soul
You are tolerant, accepting, and willing to give anyone a chance.
On the flip side, you're easy to read and easily influenced by others.
You have a fresh perspective on life, and you can be very creative.
Noconformist and nontraditional, you've never met anyone who's like you.

Inventive and artistic, you like to be a trendsetter.
You have an upbeat spirit and you like almost everything.
You make friends easily and often have long standing friendships.
Implusive and trusting, you fall in love a little too easily.

Souls you are most compatible with: Bright Star Soul and Dreaming Soul What Kind of Soul Are You?
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Music:

Contemporary Jazz takes puts me in the zone (!) and OMG-Can u say ISLEY BROTHERS and ConFunkShun!!!-R & B/soul/old skool, neo-soul, hip hop, disco, gospel, reggae, Chic, Jay Z, Sting, Little Brother, Bootsy, Sade', Raheem Devaughn, Barry White, Beyonce', Phyllis Hyman, Byron Cage, Christopher Williams, Bone Thugs In Harmony (I love you Felecia!), Lil Wayne, Freeway, Ludacris, Cassandra Wilson, Olu, Chuck Mangione, The Dramatics, Norman connors, The Brothers Johnson, Taj Mahal, The Undisputed Truth, Cornelius Brothers and Sister Rose, Spanish guitar, The Sound Of Philadelphia, world, some Italian opera. Earth, Wind and Fire, Brian Culbertson, Chris Botti, J Dilla, Stylistics,Russ Freeman/Rippingtons, Peter White, Floetry, Damian Dame, Change, One Way feat Al Hudson, Peter White, Hiroshima, Dancing Fantasy, Boz Skaggs, Kindred the Family soul, Hil St. Soul., and anything with acoustic guitar and muted trumpet-helps me to mellow out...
Your Element Is Fire
Your passion and emotion are as obvious as the brightest flame.
You make sparks fly, and your passion always has the potential to burst out.

You are exciting and creative - and completely unpredictable.
You sometimes exercise control, and sometimes you let yourself go.

Friends describe you as sensitive, spirited, and compulsive.
Bright and blazing with intensity, you seem mysterious and moody to many. What's Your Element?

Movies:

ON THE ROAD TO A NEW BEGINNING... Friday (It's PRINCIPALITIES in this!HA!), Baby Boy (Melvin and Juanita-'yall are a straight trip-HA!), Drumline, Transporter/Transporter 2 (Jason Statham-OMG-you are mine!)All the Madea movies/plays, Saturday Night Fever (John Travolta was my first boyfriend :), Life, Casino (I love DeNiro), The Super, At Close Range (I love Christopher Walken), To Sleep With Anger(Danny Glover and Mary Alice are spectacular!) Independence Day, Empire, Five Heartbeats, Jackie Brown (Pam Grier is so BADDDD), Scarface, Coffy, Original Gangstas, Waterboy, The Wedding Singer (OMG-Julia Gulia-HA!), Best Of Saturday Night Live (I NEED MORE COWBELL!!!!!HA!), Napoleon Dynamite and many, many more...
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Your Power Color Is Indigo
At Your Highest:
You are on a fast track to success - and others believe in you.
At Your Lowest:
You require a lot of attention and praise.
In Love:
You see people as how you want them to be, not as how they are.
How You're Attractive:
You're dramatic flair makes others see you as mysterious and romantic.
Your Eternal Question:
"Does This Work Into My Future Plans?" What's Your Power Color?
You Are A Good Friend
You're always willing to listen
Or lend a shoulder to cry on
You're there through thick and thin
Many people consider you their "best friend"! What Kind of Friend Are You?dangerously in love

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Television:

Miami Vice baby! Better ask somebody!!! Good Times, That 70's Show, Flavor of Love (Flavor Flav!-Yeahhh Boyyyy!), Bridezillas, Malcolm in the Middle (that mom is a straight trip!), Court TV, Yo Momma (whaddup Wilmer!OOOh Weee!), & King of the Hill is the bomb! Okay-I know I need to break my Jerry Springer addiction-Jerrrr-y, Jerrrr-y! LOL... Love you Maury Povich-you ARE NOT the father!! Damn shame ain't it???...... Saturday Night Live Blue Oyster Cult Parody

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Books:

Reallionaire by Farrah Gray, Fit for God by LaVita M. Weaver, The Me I Knew I Could Be by Crystal Phillips, anything by Zane, Jorge Cruise's fitness books, Anthony Robbins motivational books/tapes, self improvement/self help. Gotta get more into my Bible, the 1st book!
Your Birthdate: November 1
You are a natural born leader, even if those leadership talents haven't been developed yet.
You have the power and self confidence to succeed in life, and your power grows daily.
Besides power, you also have a great deal of creativity that enables you to innovate instead of fail.
You are a visionary, seeing the big picture instead of all of the trivial little details.

Your strength: Your supreme genius

Your weakness: Your inappropriate sensitivity

Your power color: Gold

Your power symbol: Star

Your power month: January What Does Your Birth Date Mean?

Heroes:

Jesus, first and foremost-for without Him I would not exist and because I know I could never make the sacrifice that He did for you ungrateful bats out there (HA!), so you GOTTA RESPECT THAT! And my SHEro, my mom-a beautiful and strong Nubian Queen who instilled the value of hard work/strong work ethic in me and gave me the gift of her wonderful sense of humor(rest in sweet peace, Mommy-I love and miss you sooo-o-o much)...
You Are An INFJ
The Protector
You live your life with integrity, originality, vision, and creativity.
Independent and stubborn, you rarely stray from your vision - no matter what it is.
You are an excellent listener, with almost infinite patience.
You have complex, deep feelings, and you take great care to express them.
You would make a great photographer, alternative medicine guru, or teacher. What's Your Personality Type?
Your Birthdate: November 1
You don't just believe in love at first site - you've experienced it.
You develop crushes pretty easily, but keeping your interest is another matter!
You are very prone to love - hate relationships.
Number of True Loves You'll Have: 2
Number of Times You'll Have Your Heart Broken: 4
You are most compatible with people born on the 1st, 10th, 19th, and 28th of the month. What Does Your Birth Date Mean For Your Love Life?

My Blog

How do you define beauty???

What is your true definition of beauty? Inner being-outer physical?? Talk to me...
Posted by MsArabella-Gotta Go Through To Get Through... on Sun, 17 Dec 2006 05:00:00 PST

Light Skin/Dark Skin

Come on people-it's 2007! Why are we still dealing with this issue? It's bad enough the Klan and the Neo-Nazi's are against us, but this self-hate we continue to buy into must STOP!! Self-hatred makes...
Posted by MsArabella-Gotta Go Through To Get Through... on Mon, 27 Nov 2006 12:32:00 PST

Good Hair/Bad Hair

For decades, the masses brainwashed us into denying our natural beauty and we felt we had to conform to European standards of beauty to be accepted into society.  It must stop! It caused the majo...
Posted by MsArabella-Gotta Go Through To Get Through... on Mon, 27 Nov 2006 12:45:00 PST

Fellas-How Do You Meet a Woman's Emotional Needs?

Just curious. We she-males are emotional creatures just like you males are more on the physical side (not all of you, mind you).
Posted by MsArabella-Gotta Go Through To Get Through... on Mon, 27 Nov 2006 02:23:00 PST

What's Your Take on Divorce-What Should I Expect?

Divorce will be new to me-I have been with this person 30 years-married for 25. I am growing as an individual and I know before I could even consider getting into another relationship, I first must be...
Posted by MsArabella-Gotta Go Through To Get Through... on Wed, 01 Nov 2006 09:54:00 PST