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Backseat drivers N-joy the Viewz

The best is yet to come....I'll wait as long as it takes !

About Me

Hey....I'm a newly divorced woman with 2 young children. They keep me pretty busy being a single parent but we are adjusting. I'm work a full time job as well as mother and baseball scorekeeper. Not sure what I would do without little league baseball....woohooo. I never imagined being single after such a long marriage but things happen. What I'm looking for? I have no idea since I don't know what's out there---been a while. Would love to meet a one woman man who knows what he wants out of life. Someone who is open and honest. Someone who can communicate and share our lives together. Someone with some level of maturity and responsibility. Someone who values family and the unconditional love and support that can be found there. Someone who can be my best friend and I can be theirs. Someone who knows the love of Corinthians and the understands the marriage like Ephesians....if that's possible. I don't NEED a man for my kids and myself...I can do that just fine. I dream of a man who would WANT to be a part of our lives and complete us....add to us....make new memories together ! Being in the dating scene for 18 mo or so, I've discovered it's very difficult to find 2 people on the same page at the same time. I trust that in time, God will reveal to me where my life is going. For now, I live, love, pray, and hope. Just finding good friends has been very rewarding for me as well as confusing at times. Sometimes you think you've found exactly what your heart desires but it's out of reach. That's been hard to accept so just meeting new people and seeing what everyone has to offer is the only way to know what we want or don't want. I'm not a materialistic woman. I don't require much to be happy. Some of the most wonderful times can be found in the simpliest of things.....simple hug, kiss, picnic, fishing trip, walk on the beach, sharing sunsets, cuddling while listening to the rain on a tin roof, long drives to unknown destinations, sitting and holding hands in the mountains enjoying the views ( and some kissing wouldn't be too bad either), lalalalalla----dreaming over ! Good luck to everyone in their search and God Bless You All !!Update: Am NOT looking for a hump buddy ! There has to be something there ~ xxoo
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My Interests

Youth Baseball, swimming, movies, traveling, animals, reading, amusement parks, playing with my kids, drives without destinations with that someone special, holding hands, kissing, loving someone with all my heart and soul, sunsets on the beach, mountain streams and camping....the simple things in life that mean the most- just to feel loved and know you are loved in return !

I'd like to meet:

Friends !! That's what it's all about. The rest is all dreaming and gonna quit doing that...LOL !Keith Urban Someone to realize what a prize I am....lol. We all want to be loved....after all...that's the basis of life.The right man. Someone who is open, honest, trusting, loving, affectionate and wants to spend the rest of their life with me or have fun trying. Someone who wakes up and goes to bed with me on his mind and me on his. Someone who wants to be my best friend, lover, companion and my world for eternity. Guess we all are in search of dreams and maybe they will one day come true ! Ya never know?????

Music:

A bit of everything. I like old rock, soft rock, contemp. christian, country, some hip hop.. anything you can dance to or that you can feel in your soul.

Movies:

My Best Friends Wedding, The Notebook, Its a wonderful life, Must Love Dogs, The Green Mile....too many to list...open to all

Television:

Grey's Anatomy, Desperate Housewise, Prison Break, 24, CSI, Law and Order, ER (still)

Books:

The Bible, lately reading some Luanne Rice, Danielle Steel, Janet Evanovich

Heroes:

Elise Marshall.... for being the coolest and sexiest person alive... Woohoo ( and for helping me make this site). My mom was also my hero....wish I could be a 1/4 of the person she was !!!! Jesus for loving us so much that He gave His life for us----what a gift ! And the person who will one day love me unconditionally just because......Maybe . . we were supposed to meet the wrong people before meeting the right one so that, when we finally meet the right person, we will know how to be grateful for that gift. Maybe . . . when the door of happiness closes, another opens; but, often times, we look so long at the closed door that we don't even see the new one which has been opened for us. Maybe . . . it is true that we don't know what we have until we lose it, but it is also true that we don't know what we have been missing until it arrives. Maybe . . . the happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way. Maybe . . . the brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past; after all, you can't go on successfully in life until you let go of your past mistakes, failures and heartaches. Maybe . . . you should dream what you want to dream; go where you want to go, be what you want to be, because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you dream of, and want to do. Maybe . . . there are moments in life when you miss someone -- a parent, a spouse, a friend, a child -- so much that you just want to pick them from your dreams and hug them for real, so that once they are around you appreciate them more. Maybe . . . the best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch and swing with, never say a word, and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you've ever had. Maybe . . you should always try to put yourself in others' shoes. If you feel that something could hurt you, it probably will hurt the other person, too. Maybe . . you should do something nice for someone every single day, even if it is simply to leave them alone. Maybe . . giving someone all your love is never an assurance that they will love you back. Don't expect love in return; just wait for it to grow in their heart; but, if it doesn't, be content that it grew in yours. Maybe . . . happiness waits for all those who cry, all those who hurt, all those who have searched, and all those who have tried, for only they can appreciate the importance of all the people who have touched their lives. Maybe . . . you shouldn't go for looks; they can deceive; don't go for wealth; even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile, because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright. Find the one that makes your heart smile. Maybe . . you should hope for enough happiness to make you sweet, enough trials to make you strong, enough sorrow to keep you human, and enough hope to make you happy. Maybe . . . you should try to live your life to the fullest because when you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling but when you die, you can be the one who is smiling and everyone around you crying. Maybe. . . you could send this message to those people who mean something to you, to those who have touched your life, to those who can and do make you smile when you really need it, to those who make you see the brighter side of things when you are really down, and to all those whom you want to know that you appreciate them and their friendship. And if you don't, don't worry; nothing bad will happen to you. You will just miss out on the opportunity to perhaps brighten someone's day.