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Ryan

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About Me

I truly make it my vocation to spend my energy viewing everything in a positive light, taking calculated risks, trying my hardest to overcome any obstacle I may confront, and live life to the fullest. The statement "you only live once" is more of a doctrine to me, rather than a mere cliché.I never take any moment of life for granted; it is precious, an adventure, a journey, and is beautiful. Life is truly about simply living; searching for your true meaning, and taking charge of opportunities when they arise and taking charge of cogenial.us. This is how we grow, in my opinion ace Go 2 MyspaceTops.com I truly believe that to live "real", we must remain true to ourselves, respect others, with dignity and honor.I feel as if one should never forget who they are, respect themselves, retain the feeling of enthusiasm one has for each day. New experiences beget new perspectives and strengthen your soul. Even "small" emotions - such as the feeling one has when they first visit the zoo as a child or when they see their first pet – are to be cherished, perhaps even more than the larger "issues" we encounter on a daily basis, yet tend to be trivial in the broader context of our lives.I believe one can do just about anything, so long as they hold a true passion for the task at hand, and the fortitude to withstand pitfalls. Pitfalls should be viewed as opportunities for growth, and generally are a positive factor on who we become.I believe true heroes are people who put themselves in harms way to protect the lives of others, sometimes complete strangers for the respect they have for the values instilled WITHIN THEM: for example, preserving peace and justice, and living a life of meaning in dignity and honor.Such heroes embody the spirit and unconditional love of giving, which can be no stronger than that of my best friend of nearly 15 years, former roommate for most of them, MIKE, who - although recently passed away while still in his early years of his life - HAS LEFT HIS MARK OF KINDNESS AND GIVING AND EXPRESSIONS OF KINDNESS AND GIVING AND ACTS OF TRUE LOVE ON MYSELF AND COUNTLESS OTHERS, AND WILL ALWAYS CONTINUE TO DO SO, AS HIS PRESENCE MEMORIES AND ACTS OF KINDNESS AND SACRIFICE HE PROJECTED IS INSTILLED IN OUR HEARTS AND WILL NEVER FADE; HE WILL ALWAYS BE WITHIN US. We love you, Mike. You are with us forever.When I found out about this tragedy, I felt extreme sorrow and devastation. I still do. I always will. However, my recognition of how live can be so fragile, and the necessity to live in the now, has been reinforced. We all have traumatic experiences, which are heart-wrenching, and filled with tears. However, we are here for a reason, and must grasp each day and strive toward accomplishing duties that are above our own self interests. I believe a true hero is a person who loves who they are, and uses their unique talents to contribute to others, the heroes of mankind.

My Interests

Living life's journey. Meeting new people, never forgetting those from before; visiting new places, respecting those of my past; setting goals, accomplishing goals, overcoming obstacles; nce, laughter; most of all, however, I enjoy the company of good friends friends and a fun time.

I'd like to meet:

Someone who is honest, real, and true to themselves. This is trueness at the highest degree; this is what I respect.

Music:

All music, but particularly the music of others' laughter and the smile on my face it creates. In the traditional sense, I enjoy listening to or hearing all genres, artists. New Age to Country to Rap, Elvis to Floyd to Vivaldi.

Movies:

Love movies; all depictions of life, yet each unique. Some examples: Amores Perros, El Mariachi, Desperado, Devil's Advocate, Forrest Gump, Beautiful Mind, Good Will Hunting, Rudy.

Television:

Depends. Rarely a show planned to watch, most always something on a channel differing from the last viewed.

Books:

Love books, as they provide us the ability to "view" stories - published for the broad audience - in a completely unique and personalized way. We are not the writers or authors, but become "directors" and the audience of these "movies" which we envision, which we relate, which we produce based on our distinct journeys through life traveled before, or now envisioned to partake.

Heroes:

You, anyone can be. All of us owe it to our Self (capital “S” intentionally) to eventually take responsibility for our own actions and decisions in our life; in other words, actually living toward your true meaning. Many choose to do this, in the face of enormous anxiety, uncertainty and doubt; I consider this heroic. Others either choose to ignore their true "calling" for most, if not their entire lives, avoiding the anxiety of living a life toward your meaning - and opt to live as they are conditioned life should be lived according to what they always thought they were "forced" into doing by their environment and peers in childhood, and then look back one day - if ever - and wish they had grabbed opportunities when they arose that were truly toward what they "always wanted to do deep inside, but just never got around to actually doing it" until it is too late.For me, anxiety for living true toward your calling - even though your "calling" is generally impossible to know with certainty - beats the regrets and depression of living a life in fear, not true toward yourself, as time marches on each second of each day. Easier said than done, but then again, that is what heroism is all about, isn't it? Taking risks for "others" can also be interpreted as "taking risks for the "other" person you are meant to be and actually living in truth; living life by living true, in dignity to yourself and others, and on a larger scale society. This is a rather heroic task, and is actually the only way to live a true life, living as You.

My Blog

ET - A Chief Event of Life. . ." RNR - "Your Chief Event in Living"

Your Chief Event in Living I disagree with ET, and would add the following: I believe chief events are fluid, and are encountered in our own soul, either knowingly or buried in our abyss; to clarify, ...
Posted by Ryan on Sun, 06 May 2007 10:01:00 PST

Our Shadow's Light to Find

Our Shadow's Light to Find..:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" />   Along hidden trails of fog, Our inner light sparks us to live anew, To reclaim Our life as Ou...
Posted by Ryan on Wed, 04 Apr 2007 09:53:00 PST

Tunnels from The Playground

(Editorial Note: Apologies for grammatical errors; I do not edit with the belief my true feelings will remain as they were, untarnished after the poetic inspiration evolves in time.) Before I present ...
Posted by Ryan on Sat, 24 Mar 2007 08:26:00 PST

Living a Meaningful Life: The Midlife Train?

Last night, I came across one of my new friend's profiles and decided to read their blogs. After some time had transpired  likely at least two hours having past - I had read most of what had been wri...
Posted by Ryan on Thu, 15 Mar 2007 08:48:00 PST