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April 28th, 09 was Homers 1 year angelversary......His Daddy made this special video in his honor. I am so proud of him for this, its an amazing video and he put alot of time into it.....We miss you Dude, and will forever hold you in our hearts.....
This is a video my wonderful friend Nate of Janey Chaos photography made for me on mothers day this year. I cant thankyou enough for this hun, your the best!
This video was made my best friend Lori....Thank you, it comforts me to watch this, I love you....
Donna and Brian, held in the arms of those who love them
This is Homers girlfriend who I got to meet for the first time this year, and I felt a special bond as soon as I met her. Her Mommy made this for me, and I love it so much!
This video is of Homers forever love Emma. She is at the park with her Mommy and she is sleeping, but yelling through her trach at the same time =) I love her cooing voice, it makes me smile just like Homers voice always did when I heard it! I love you Babygirl!
Emma fussing in her sleep
Me and 2 of my Beautiful sisters! We are all pregnant together!
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My name is Donna and I have been married to my bestfriend Brian for almost 9 years. Through these 9 years, we have been through so much in that time together. First I have to mention that we are expecting a baby girl in late June. God has blessed us with another beautiful child to love and learn from. Because thats what I believe childern are here for, not only for us to teach, but to also learn from them. Believe me, if we all took a little extra time to listen, we can learn alot from children. They are born with the beautiful qualities we lose as we grow older........ My husband and I also had a beaufiul son named Daniel aka Homer on October, 25, 2001 who was born with Cerebral Palsey. His nickname Homer came from the Simpsons of course, he loved to watch Homer on t.v. We also called him inspector gadget because of all his tubes he had, the kids loved that nickname! They were no longer afraid to approach him when we told them all about his gadgets. Daddy called him Bigboy, and he does look like the big boy of elias brothers too...lol...And the other nicknames he got were from Grandpa and Grandma and they are Butterbutt, and pumkin. I have no idea where my Dad came up with Butterbutt from, but it fit him perfectly...LOL. Through out his life, my husband and I grew so much closer caring and loving this precious angel that God had placed in our lives. Homer could do nothing without mine or my husbands help. Never had we heard him talk, but we communicated with him in ways I never would of thought were possible until him. He couldnt hug us nor kiss back, but when we would wrap his arms around us, and kiss those lips, we knew he was giving a love not many can here on earth. Its a special love from God, its a love of innocence, faith, and its unconditional. He was our life, where ever we went, he was there with us, what ever we did, he did it to in his own way. We had a perfect life with a perfect angel, and never once did we think of him as a burden, never did we complain about him or his needs. On April 28th, 2008, Homer went to be with Jesus. It was a shock to us all, and still is to this day to think that he is really gone. The pain in our hearts is unbearable at times, but we can feel the comfort of God around us, and we know he is giving us strength day by day to carry on with life. We are at peace knowing that Homer is so happy now, he is running for the first time in his life, and he is doing all that he could never do in this body he has had all along. I am here writing in my "about me" section these things that just came to mind as I write, and I am asking that if there is anyone out there who has loved and lost of a child, that its ok to cry and grieve, and its ok to go through all these emotions that run through your heart in a matter of minutes. But please dont be angry with God, for he is giving our children a life of love, and he is caring for them and they are doing things that were never possible here on earth. Live your life the way they would want you to, speak of them whenever you can, talk about the beautiful memories, share the love you were given from them with others, and know that we will meet them again. For God so loved the world, he gave his only begotten son, and that whoever believith in him, shall not parish but have ever lasting life. God gave his son Jesus to be with us for a short time on earth, and he went through the worst pain here, and battled evil that he didnt have to face, but it was to save us from sin, so we could forever live in Heaven in the presance of God and his almighty love. Think of our innocent children in that way, look around you and see how many lives they had touched just being here the short time they did, and know that out of anyone here, God is the one who feels your pain, and he is the one that knows exacly what we are going through. Time will never heal our pain, only God can take that pain we feel and replace it with his love. I have alot of blogs that are my writings on thoughts and feelings about life with Homer. He is my main inspiration for writing, and I feel lost to write now that he is gone.....But to get to know him more, and me, you will learn alot about my heart in my writings. If you want to know anything else about me, just ask, I love to meet new people and I can always seem to get along with anybody! =)


These are friends of ours who are like family that know what the power of love can do!
This is my beautiful sister and bestfriend Lori, and her daughter Emma ( Homers woman ), and me and Homer! :o)
This is my friend Sheilas son Sklyar. He has SMA, but its not stopping him from being the boy that always gets a smile on my face!
Undertaker Look
Here is me and bestest Chicky and sister at heart Lori, I love you so much!!!
Kim and Cyndi,and Lori you are forever my sisters and I love you all so much!

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I want to meet our Maker and our Lord Jesus Christ. I want to meet my son in Heaven, so I can see him running for the first time ever, and hug him like I have never hugged him before. He has forever left his footprints on my heart, I miss you so much Homer, and I will love you forever, love you for always, my Homer you will be....

I also want to meet all my beautiful friends from myspace who have been there for me through the most difficult time in my life.

My Blog

Its been one year

April 28th was  one year since I last tucked my Homer in bed.....The last time I said I love you to him, and the last time I kissed him goodnight. Never would of I of thought that in the morning I wou...
Posted by on Fri, 01 May 2009 09:30:00 GMT

Christmas with Jesus this year

8 Months, and 4 days, thats how long it has been since Homer left. I cant believe all the things that have happened in that short amount of time in our lives, and yet, it feels like its been forever ...
Posted by on Fri, 12 Dec 2008 11:28:00 GMT

Its not the same

  Last night, I walked into Homers room, and just looked around at all his things still in the places they were when he left. I walked over to his closet with all his shirts hanging up. I fo...
Posted by on Thu, 16 Oct 2008 14:03:00 GMT

Venting

Tomarrow will be 5 months since my Homer left to be with Jesus. I cant believe how much time has passed. I miss him more and more everyday, and my broken heart still hurts the way it did when he left ...
Posted by on Sun, 14 Sep 2008 14:23:00 GMT

Letter to Homer

Homer It has been 84 days since I last seen you alive. Mommy just cant seem to live without you. Some days I seem to be doing better, but lately its as if I cant get through the day without breaking ...
Posted by on Sun, 20 Jul 2008 17:40:00 GMT

Whats wrong with me?

It was 11 weeks Monday since Homer has passed away. I cant believe how long it has been. Something keeps happening to me though and I dont know why I react the way I do. There are some people who have...
Posted by on Wed, 16 Jul 2008 09:21:00 GMT

When your not here

Waking up each morning without you in my life brings tears and heartache as soon as I arise Throughout the day I just make it through thinking of all the things we used to do Standing in your room tr...
Posted by on Mon, 16 Jun 2008 18:04:00 GMT

Its time I talked about it......

It has been 25 days since I have last seen my Homer alive. I cant believe how fast time has gone by, yet it feels like its dragging too. If that makes any sense to anyone? I have been replaying the da...
Posted by on Fri, 23 May 2008 22:34:00 GMT

Shouldve, Couldve, Wouldve

I am sitting here alone in my kitchen playing the cd that I had played at Homers funeral. The song amazing is on, and that is my song to him out of all of them. Its so perfect, and I cry everytime I h...
Posted by on Sat, 10 May 2008 15:08:00 GMT

Homers legacy

This is the eulogy I wrote and read at Homers funeral.......     Six years ago, we gave birth to a precious boy that turned out to be our angel from God himself. Each day that went by, we l...
Posted by on Sat, 03 May 2008 09:14:00 GMT