I'd like to meet:
Your Relationship:
The Basics
What is your name? Stacey Elizabeth
What is the love of your life's name? Mckayla Marie- Elizabeth, Aidan Avery-Ray, and Jeffrey Thomas
How did you meet? Well, I gave birth to the first two lovies, the third just came around at the right time :-)
When did you meet? I met the third at work...I'll spend the rest of this survey on him, hehe...
What were your first thoughts? Didn't think too much either way, I was far too busy with my own messiness. Then I had a "dream" and it didn't take long for things to start after that
What/where was your first date? Hmm, well we had to play it safe for a while, but our first date, he took me to Rye Beach...
How old were both of you? Me, 26, and hmm...he was "perfect" :-)
When did he/she meet your family? He met my parent's and grandparents, October of last year
What did your family think? Liked him very much at first, now they absolutely love him!
When did he/she meet your friends? He met one of my dearest friends at her rockin' Christmas Party last year
What did your friends think? They love him because they can see how good he is for me
Have you talked about marriage yet? Yes, we are engaged!
What is the marriage verdict? We just decided that we will wait till I am closer to finishing school. The second time around, I really want to do it right, no matter how long it takes
Have you talked about kids yet? Yes, but again, we shall wait...a while...lol
How long into the relationship was your first argument? It took a while, but his sociopath ex simply couldn't let things go, lol...we giggle about it now...
What did you argue about? Actually, we didn't argue, we just agreed that she's secretly a little green man from Mars
The fun stuff
Who flirted first? He did
How did you know he/she was into you? It wasn't hard, the attraction was mutual at that point
Did he/she use a pick-up line? If so, what was it? Not really, he just looked at me, he was quiet, I think that is what gave him away...lol
What is longest you have gone without seeing each other? About 4 days
Were you friends before dating? Yes
Do you like the same sports teams? New England all the way!
When did you meet his/her friends? December at our Christmas party
How do you feel about his/her friends? Love them! Timmy takes me flying, Andy talks to me about anything, and Josh, well there's A LOT to love about him...hehe...miss you Josh!
When you are both in the car, do you agree on the music? It's a virtual Daveathon with us
Did you get nervous before the first date? Oh ya
The Hardships
Have you been through anything really tough together? It's been a crazy year...but the ride has been well worth it!
What? The adjustment for the kids has taken the most effort, but they love the fact that their Mom is smiling again
Have you come close to breaking up? Not even a little bit
Why? Umm...luv...is my guess...lol
Why did/do you feel it was/is important to work things out? Because when you love someone, they are worth working things out with
Has he/she seen you cry? Yes
Has he/she made you cry? How? Yes, when he proposed
Have you made him/her cry? Yup, but only in the good way
Why? He was all tears when he proposed...awwee
What do you do to fix problems in your relationship? We talk about things, but we really do get along really well, I guess I'm just lucky
The Ummm.... Personal Stuff
Who held hands first? I honestly, don't remember
What was the first kiss like? (on the cheek, the lips, etc.) He tried to kiss me on the lips, I turned and gave him my cheek
Who kissed who first? He kissed me first, it was perfect
How did you feel after that first kiss? Nervous, shaky and sick to my stomach with excitement
Who made the first "big" move? I think I may have, after he thought I wasn't interested
How did you feel? Again, nervous, excited to feel for someone again
How long into the relationship did you umm... do the "deed"? Wouldn't prying eyes love to know? Haha...I don't think so
Are things in the bedroom still 'hot'? I would love for someone to fair better... :-)
Your Friends and Your Guy/Girl
Do any of your friends absolutely hate him/her? Nope
Why? Because he really is a great person. I am not the only one to have fallen for him
Do you go on group dates? Yes, and we love it!
Does your guy/girl consider any of your friends to be his or hers? All of them, but we have had the best of times with Roselle and Tim
Do any of your friends talk bad about your partner to you? Nope, all is well!
How do you respond? Grateful
Does what your friends think affect your relationship? Nope, they all feel the love!
Firsts together
Movie? Casino Royale
Restaurant? The Moat
Drink? Guiness
Secret? The fact that we were together, ya that was a biggie...
Promise? No need for promises
Lie? None that I know of
Purchase? Washing machine, pretty domestic, huh?
All night talk session? Gosh, so long ago, I miss those...
Long trip? Our mini-vaca to Rye
Inside Joke? Doo-Duh-Doo
Superbowl? Ummmm...I'm not the world's biggest Superbowl fan...so...ya...
Holidays Together
First New Years (year): Awwee, last year,07, we were both working together, so we rang it in with a hell of a kiss
What did you do and where were you? Again, working, great kiss...
Your Birthday (date): May 07', we celebrated with my family
Where did go, what did you get from your partner? Again, celebrated with my family, he got me my iPod
Valentine's day (year): 07', we were both working, we made up for it later that evening, it was great
What did you get/receive? Enough...
Easter Sunday (date)? 07' we celebrated with my family, We are big on celebrating holidays together...We had a great time, and got to celebrate Easter, McKayla's B-day, and our engagement all in one day...yee-haw...
Where did you go? My Mom's
Whose mom did you see on mother's day? hehe...mine
Did you celebrate Memorial Day? How? Um...I think we worked....we have to work on most holidays, but at least we get to be together
Did you celebrate fourth of July? How? Where? You guessed it!
Halloween: This will be our 'official' first
What were you both? Where did you go? How did you celebrate? We were both ourselves, we couldn't make it to our Halloween party...Boo...we celebrated by being together
Thanksgiving: Again, with the guessing!
Where did you go, how did you celebrate? With turkey
Christmas: Awwee, we cooked breakfast for my whole family at my mom's and he got to meet the rest of the fam...
What did you get/receive? Where did you celebrate? How? He got a bread knife, clothes...I got a camera, diamond earrings and ring...
His/Her birthday: He got another knife
What did you get him/her? I got my iPod
How much do you REALLY Know? (About your partner...)
Birthday? December 19th 1984
Parent's names? Wendy & Bill, Daryl & Wendy
Pet's Names? Pumpkin & Sophie
Favorite Food? Rice
Favorite Song? Now, "Crush" DMB
Favorite color? Blue
Favorite Animal? Great Dane
Favorite TV Show? Currently, "Top Chef"
Favorite sports team? Red Sox, Patriots
Favorite Movie? Finding Forrester
Dream Car? Mazda Rx-7
Where was he/she born? Texas
Where did he/she grow up? Seacoast
Who is his/her best friend? Timmy, Andy & Josh
Worst Fear? Being without me! Other than that, drowning...
Biggest Celebrity crush? Jessica Alba, Jessice Beil, should I be concerned that my name is not Jessica?... :-)
Pants size? Right....
Shirt size? Again....but he loves his polos!
Shoe size? 12
Some relationship Randoms!
Do you share money? Checking account, savings, stock, etc.? No
What was your first major purchase together? Our bedroom set.....gorgeous darling! Martha would be jealous
Do you live together? Since when? Yes, since Christmas
Are you planning anything major right now? Other then me getting through, school, no. I love him for being soo super supportive of me!
What? (trips, marriage, family, buying a car together) Marriage is definately our hope...we take it one day at a time
Is there anything you wish was different? Yes... As horrible as I have been made out to be...It did not come about the way I would have wanted for myself or anyone else involved
What? I wish that we had met eachother at a different time, and he disagreed with me. He said we met a perfect time, if we had met later in life, he would have been married and miserable and asking his Dad how to get out of it, and I would have ended up going crazy, literally...so he begs to differ...I never saw it like that until then...I guess fate is funny like that
Would you have done anything differently up until now? I can't change the past. I have accepted it, grown from it, and I am better for it. It's a waste of time to blame fate for your unhappiness. Obvioulsy you are more happy now than you were before. Be thankful for it, embrace it, and for God sakes stop dwelling on the past. It cares nothing for you
Do you see a real, successful future together? Yes! I get sooo excited when I think about our lives, just a couple years down the road! I can't wait to move back home, with Jeff and the kids! Your destiny is only as far as you are willing to reach for it! Therefore....I can't wait!
