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Bella

I am here for Friends

About Me

I'm probably the last person to ask 'about me'. Your own definition of who you are is often the very last thing that others see. I should, in that case, post some witty / thoughtful / telling quotations from others, about me, but that would be infringing their copyright.
Basic facts. You'll spot me if you look out for me - just keep an eye out for the big red hair, green eyes, the Austin Powers outfits and the lack of height. I'm in love with Jack Daniel, or more correctly, his bourbon, and someone else who will definitely know who he is, although many of you won't;- someone I owe most of my life, happiness and sanity to over these past eight or so years. retro layout @ HOT FreeLayouts.com
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My Interests

I'd like to meet:

I don't know if I have any 'like to meets', per se. There's quite a few people I haven't seen for a while that I'd like to meet again, if that counts. I value wisdom, personal enlightenment, intelligence, insight, a sense of levity, but not taking yourself too seriously unless it's warranted. Anyone who fits into that very specific category would be on my WLTM list.
Otherwise, I'm not much of a people person. Ha.
Actually, there's one person I want to meet, and that's just because he's so delicious I could look at him all day, and he has the greatest eyes I've ever seen. His name's Oded Fehr. Look him up.

My Blog

pictures

I've been taking some photographs recently, and as a result, I've been looking at a lot of other people's. Have you ever seen a photograph which draws you in to the degree that you begin to create an ...
Posted by on Tue, 13 Feb 2007 02:26:00 GMT

making plans for Nigel

Plans, eh. Do we need them, or is it counter productive to set oneself goals which you'll probably never achieve, only to find yourself bitter and demotivated because not only can you not get that gre...
Posted by on Sun, 28 Jan 2007 09:03:00 GMT

Byeee

I won't be on again before the New Year, so thought I'd wish everyone a fun, relaxing and happy holiday.   Bella x
Posted by on Thu, 21 Dec 2006 06:00:00 GMT

The Grinch

So what is it? One week to Christmas, and I'm neither prepared, interested, or vaguely amused by the entire spectacle. This is nothing unusual, I have to add. I'm not particularly a Christmas person. ...
Posted by on Mon, 18 Dec 2006 00:39:00 GMT

find a happy place

That's what you're told, 'find a happy place', if events are belly flopping around you alarmingly, and your grip upon all which is true and hopeful is being eased away, finger by finger, by some omnis...
Posted by on Wed, 06 Dec 2006 08:33:00 GMT

the tragedy of the self

'Why does that obstinate little voice in our head torment us so?' he asked, looking round the table. 'Could it be becuase it reminds us we are alive, of our mortality, of our individual souls - which,...
Posted by on Mon, 04 Dec 2006 06:43:00 GMT

Space

Space, I need space. Space to put my books, space to move and breathe without falling over the debris of my life. Space in my head to think without meaningless crap stuffing up the thought process. Da...
Posted by on Wed, 29 Nov 2006 12:30:00 GMT

making your mind up

How do you know where you belong? What path to take? Is it just an accidental process of making the best of where you find yourself, whether that path is one you set out to follow or not? What about t...
Posted by on Tue, 07 Nov 2006 09:20:00 GMT

perception & responsibility

What do people want from us? Why do they put such pressure onto us to behave in a certain way, respond in a particular manner, to provide them with proof that we truly are the person they want us to b...
Posted by on Sun, 05 Nov 2006 09:11:00 GMT

First time

Love, you filthmeisters, love. I don't know what else you were thinking of, and I don't want to know. Keep it to yourselves. The first time you were in love. Properly, not a pash on someone at school....
Posted by on Sat, 04 Nov 2006 09:53:00 GMT