The same as me (opposite gender, of course). I dont want someone who hangs onto past loves wondering what could of been cause that is over with ... or someone who hates his ex wife. Gee whiz, hate uses too much energy ... get past it and move on. He must know and understand what family is about cause my girls and grandson are a big part of my life. But, we will always have our "US" time ...wink... especially in the morning ... best kind of wake up call I can think of!I want someone who is drug, drama and dumbass free! Is that asking too much? LMAOThis is a must - A great sense of humorSomeone who can be himself around any setting .. real .. not someone who changes himself from g/f to g/f, depending on their expectations ... be you and only you .... I know I will!!!!!!!!